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Posted by Rania_1498Some men find love through sexPosted by BumboklaatPosted by Rania_1498Posted by BumboklaatPosted by Rania_1498Posted by BumboklaatPosted by Rania_1498Posted by BumboklaatPosted by bmoon8![]()
This gives a lot of insight. There is a Pluto square Sun and a Pluto opp Sun going the other way. Those types are very hard to let go of and can keep you both locked in. Not exactly a healthy relationship either… would be toxic. You both can bring out each other’s dark sides. Pluto square Venus, too. There is a lot of obsession and you especially feel vulnerable to him.
Few things instantly stand out
Squared moons(jupiter connection sag/pisces) superficial connection
Incompatible mars to her venus (why she is confused)
I wouldnt go too far into farther planets as they didnt know each other for years im assuming.
I've known him since 2014
Because we have mutual friends.
We started dating
Last december.
Before dating
He was alot nicer.
Let say the few first dates too
He was super nice.
O then yes what bmoon said can apply. I notice a few incompatibilities as far as outer (long term) planets which could mean your timings are off. Age gap or different focus on life and long term goals.
As a man tho i will tell you he likely wants sex. But his expression is not getting you to open up. So from there you can take it to the emotional level (moon) and its also causing clashes or misunderstanding.
You do have good sun energy so it can probably be seen as a missed opportunity for something good or nice. But moon venus and mars energy is persistent and cardinal so even if you guys give it a chance annoyances and misunderstadings will likely keep happening
Thats purely based off astrology tho. Except for him wanting sex cause which guy doesent lol
Yes you’re right
Everything you said is accurate.
Happen sometimes where I feel judged or misunderstood by him.
To be honest I don’t understand him either.
It happens. Maybe with time you can clearly judge. But as guys we pursue sex. Especially Taurus lol
I noticed that
Because he didn’t stop asking
I felt the obsession the last few days before the block comes along.
Ah yes the frustration of not being able to get it and the ensuing obsession. I too have some taurus and scorpio energy to know how that feels
Isn’t sad ?
He prefer lust over love ?
🤔click to expand
Posted by stardustmopWhat human being in any marriage doesn’t?Posted by 81gems
Been married almost 20 years.
I see a lot of bad advice on this thread by people who divorced, or never got married and only knew others who were also divorced.
Marriage is a tremendous balancing act and a huge sacrifice. People these days, and 10 years ago, 5 years ago, etc. don’t take the time to really get to know one another on deep levels. They don’t know how to talk to each other, can’t admit mistakes, don’t help the other person grow along with them. If you read that and think it’s not your “job” to help your spouse grow into the best versions of themselves don’t get married.
If you go into a marriage thinking it’s a “starter” one or that divorce should be easy fix don’t get married. If you want to keep your finances separate, you obviously don’t have enough faith or trust in the other person so, yeah, DON’T GET MARRIED! It really is that simple, yet people are too stupid to understand.
The question of “did you make mistakes in the marriage” is no different than “did you make any mistakes in life?” Seriously, who ever told you marriages should be mistake free? That sexual attraction is a give, and that love will always ooze? Who told you passion never wanes? Who told you marriage didn’t require work?
Married couples need to be able to compromise, give of themselves even when they don’t want to. Most people suck at marriage and can’t see staying in it for the long haul, so they bail. They don’t stop to problem solve. Too busy, disinterested, or selfish to try and repair damage.
It takes a hell of a lot of a lot of stuff to be married and most kids today have the wrong idea about what marriage should do for THEM. So yeah, most people are too ignorant to be married.
There is no one thing that “works” on its own. But years ago, my husband told me “it works if you want it to.” He’s right. But the “want” requires hard work, patience, compromise, dedication from BOTH people involved. If this isn’t something you’re prepared to do, DON’T GET MARRIED!
I’m going to go out on a limb and say your husband has made A LOT of mistakes.click to expand
Posted by virghostWell I suppose we *could* look at marriage the way you do; merely a legal institution or some crap like that.Posted by 81gems
Been married almost 20 years.
I see a lot of bad advice on this thread by people who divorced, or never got married and only knew others who were also divorced.
Marriage is a tremendous balancing act and a huge sacrifice. People these days, and 10 years ago, 5 years ago, etc. don’t take the time to really get to know one another on deep levels. They don’t know how to talk to each other, can’t admit mistakes, don’t help the other person grow along with them. If you read that and think it’s not your “job” to help your spouse grow into the best versions of themselves don’t get married.
If you go into a marriage thinking it’s a “starter” one or that divorce should be easy fix don’t get married. If you want to keep your finances separate, you obviously don’t have enough faith or trust in the other person so, yeah, DON’T GET MARRIED! It really is that simple, yet people are too stupid to understand.
The question of “did you make mistakes in the marriage” is no different than “did you make any mistakes in life?” Seriously, who ever told you marriages should be mistake free? That sexual attraction is a give, and that love will always ooze? Who told you passion never wanes? Who told you marriage didn’t require work?
Married couples need to be able to compromise, give of themselves even when they don’t want to. Most people suck at marriage and can’t see staying in it for the long haul, so they bail. They don’t stop to problem solve. Too busy, disinterested, or selfish to try and repair damage.
It takes a hell of a lot of a lot of stuff to be married and most kids today have the wrong idea about what marriage should do for THEM. So yeah, most people are too ignorant to be married.
There is no one thing that “works” on its own. But years ago, my husband told me “it works if you want it to.” He’s right. But the “want” requires hard work, patience, compromise, dedication from BOTH people involved. If this isn’t something you’re prepared to do, DON’T GET MARRIED!
Nah, I'm sorry but no. My parents born and raised in a third world country with a lot of unspoken trauma regardless of the times then and now doesn't change the fact how deeply they got to know one another. You may know someone deeply but unfortunately unforeseeable things do happen where the person you deeply knew, changes. Whether it's a temporary or forever change it still impacts a marriage. Damage done, is still damage. Point blank marriage is a contract, a paper signed by two parties stating that they'll be sworn to a life together where they share assets until one of them dies. It does work if you want it to, that's true. I feel like people don't talk enough or bother doing internal work within themselves before dragging someone along for the ride of their life because it can ruin another's spirit for eternity. Marriage is a flex for many, don't know why.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Rania_1498Posted by BumboklaatPosted by Rania_1498Posted by BumboklaatPosted by Rania_1498Posted by BumboklaatPosted by Rania_1498Posted by BumboklaatPosted by bmoon8![]()
This gives a lot of insight. There is a Pluto square Sun and a Pluto opp Sun going the other way. Those types are very hard to let go of and can keep you both locked in. Not exactly a healthy relationship either… would be toxic. You both can bring out each other’s dark sides. Pluto square Venus, too. There is a lot of obsession and you especially feel vulnerable to him.
Few things instantly stand out
Squared moons(jupiter connection sag/pisces) superficial connection
Incompatible mars to her venus (why she is confused)
I wouldnt go too far into farther planets as they didnt know each other for years im assuming.
I've known him since 2014
Because we have mutual friends.
We started dating
Last december.
Before dating
He was alot nicer.
Let say the few first dates too
He was super nice.
O then yes what bmoon said can apply. I notice a few incompatibilities as far as outer (long term) planets which could mean your timings are off. Age gap or different focus on life and long term goals.
As a man tho i will tell you he likely wants sex. But his expression is not getting you to open up. So from there you can take it to the emotional level (moon) and its also causing clashes or misunderstanding.
You do have good sun energy so it can probably be seen as a missed opportunity for something good or nice. But moon venus and mars energy is persistent and cardinal so even if you guys give it a chance annoyances and misunderstadings will likely keep happening
Thats purely based off astrology tho. Except for him wanting sex cause which guy doesent lol
Yes you’re right
Everything you said is accurate.
Happen sometimes where I feel judged or misunderstood by him.
To be honest I don’t understand him either.
It happens. Maybe with time you can clearly judge. But as guys we pursue sex. Especially Taurus lol
I noticed that
Because he didn’t stop asking
I felt the obsession the last few days before the block comes along.
Ah yes the frustration of not being able to get it and the ensuing obsession. I too have some taurus and scorpio energy to know how that feels
Isn’t sad ?
He prefer lust over love ?
🤔
Some men find love through sex
Base chakra >>> heart chakraclick to expand
Posted by Lula_Posted by Rania_1498Posted by -CapriquariusPosted by Rania_1498Posted by -Capriquarius
Tbh after 10 months of dating I would feel friendzoned. And if you don't feel it just let it go. I don't see anything bad from his side, it's normal that if someone loves you want to have sex with you.
But never tried to show emotions
Or connect emotionally with me.
But what is for you showing emotional connection? He said he loves you. He spend 10 months dating exclusively only you. I think those are kind of emotional connection signs.
I don’t know if it’s only me.
He can disappear for weeks.
Happened sometimes when I try to contact him
And he doesn’t reply or text back.
I don’t know him deeply..
He doesn’t share much about his life.
I even once asked him what does he do for a living
He quickly changed the subject & didn’t want to answer.
I gave him time and space
And I was very patient with him.
I can’t go into more details.
All I can say
That after 10 months I feel that I don’t really know the person.
He's probably dating other girls! LMAO at his shady ass and can't even tell you that he's unemployed? Thank God you didn't sleep with this shady loser.click to expand
Posted by Rania_1498I don’t think too many men are aware of this?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Rania_1498Posted by BumboklaatPosted by Rania_1498Posted by BumboklaatPosted by Rania_1498Posted by BumboklaatPosted by Rania_1498Posted by BumboklaatPosted by bmoon8![]()
This gives a lot of insight. There is a Pluto square Sun and a Pluto opp Sun going the other way. Those types are very hard to let go of and can keep you both locked in. Not exactly a healthy relationship either… would be toxic. You both can bring out each other’s dark sides. Pluto square Venus, too. There is a lot of obsession and you especially feel vulnerable to him.
Few things instantly stand out
Squared moons(jupiter connection sag/pisces) superficial connection
Incompatible mars to her venus (why she is confused)
I wouldnt go too far into farther planets as they didnt know each other for years im assuming.
I've known him since 2014
Because we have mutual friends.
We started dating
Last december.
Before dating
He was alot nicer.
Let say the few first dates too
He was super nice.
O then yes what bmoon said can apply. I notice a few incompatibilities as far as outer (long term) planets which could mean your timings are off. Age gap or different focus on life and long term goals.
As a man tho i will tell you he likely wants sex. But his expression is not getting you to open up. So from there you can take it to the emotional level (moon) and its also causing clashes or misunderstanding.
You do have good sun energy so it can probably be seen as a missed opportunity for something good or nice. But moon venus and mars energy is persistent and cardinal so even if you guys give it a chance annoyances and misunderstadings will likely keep happening
Thats purely based off astrology tho. Except for him wanting sex cause which guy doesent lol
Yes you’re right
Everything you said is accurate.
Happen sometimes where I feel judged or misunderstood by him.
To be honest I don’t understand him either.
It happens. Maybe with time you can clearly judge. But as guys we pursue sex. Especially Taurus lol
I noticed that
Because he didn’t stop asking
I felt the obsession the last few days before the block comes along.
Ah yes the frustration of not being able to get it and the ensuing obsession. I too have some taurus and scorpio energy to know how that feels
Isn’t sad ?
He prefer lust over love ?
🤔
Some men find love through sex
Base chakra >>> heart chakra
Yes make senseclick to expand
Posted by Lula_Posted by Rania_1498Posted by Lula_Posted by Rania_1498Posted by -CapriquariusPosted by Rania_1498Posted by -Capriquarius
Tbh after 10 months of dating I would feel friendzoned. And if you don't feel it just let it go. I don't see anything bad from his side, it's normal that if someone loves you want to have sex with you.
But never tried to show emotions
Or connect emotionally with me.
But what is for you showing emotional connection? He said he loves you. He spend 10 months dating exclusively only you. I think those are kind of emotional connection signs.
I don’t know if it’s only me.
He can disappear for weeks.
Happened sometimes when I try to contact him
And he doesn’t reply or text back.
I don’t know him deeply..
He doesn’t share much about his life.
I even once asked him what does he do for a living
He quickly changed the subject & didn’t want to answer.
I gave him time and space
And I was very patient with him.
I can’t go into more details.
All I can say
That after 10 months I feel that I don’t really know the person.
He's probably dating other girls! LMAO at his shady ass and can't even tell you that he's unemployed? Thank God you didn't sleep with this shady loser.
No I don’t think he’s seeing others
Because of many factors.
One of them that we know the Same persons.
And I noticed that he has a very low self esteem.
He never say good things about himself.
You initially stated you didn't know if he was exclusively dating you and now you're saying you don't think he's dating other ppl, OK but his behavior is still shady. Look at his actions Capricorn ha!click to expand
Posted by -CapriquariusPosted by bmoon8Posted by Moloko_vellocet
The dream is about you.
You’re rejecting him so you refuse to see his penis or want to use it.
You don’t see him as a sexual object. You’ve kept him around for 10 months and that’s still not enough for you to be intimate with him.
You see him as a source to feel desired and to never fulfill his desires. You’ve taken away his dick for the sake of your own needs.
You emasculated him.
Why are you playing with him ? Stop talking to someone that wants something you don’t want.
“You emasculated him” - Do I hear an echo here?
Don’t get confused with the length of time that she was with him as quality time spent. There was no emotional connection and he would disappear at times. She requires an emotional connection to be intimate with them. She does have a Pisces moon after all.
I would rather say it's woman thing the need of emotional connection, and rather said Capricorn since I know few of them keeping their virginity till wedding, not Pisces moon. On the contrary, I know Pisces mooners and they don't need that to have sex.click to expand
Posted by -CapriquariusPosted by bmoon8Posted by Moloko_vellocet
The dream is about you.
You’re rejecting him so you refuse to see his penis or want to use it.
You don’t see him as a sexual object. You’ve kept him around for 10 months and that’s still not enough for you to be intimate with him.
You see him as a source to feel desired and to never fulfill his desires. You’ve taken away his dick for the sake of your own needs.
You emasculated him.
Why are you playing with him ? Stop talking to someone that wants something you don’t want.
“You emasculated him” - Do I hear an echo here?
Don’t get confused with the length of time that she was with him as quality time spent. There was no emotional connection and he would disappear at times. She requires an emotional connection to be intimate with them. She does have a Pisces moon after all.
I would rather say it's woman thing the need of emotional connection, and rather said Capricorn since I know few of them keeping their virginity till wedding, not Pisces moon. On the contrary, I know Pisces mooners and they don't need that to have sex.click to expand
Posted by Rania_1498then he's not the one to go after tbh if he stay playing those games even after you tell him to communicate then idkPosted by virghost
My partner isn't a taurus but has sag moon/gem venus and he loves to be all over me. Like touching is huge, so perhaps the dream is indicating that it's not so much that he desires you sexually but intimately. I feel like yes, a lot of see the need for getting close to get sexual but sex is an intimate act. It's a real vulnerable act. He may just be wanting to get closer to you and feel closer to you through touch. Perhaps he feels like you're not taking him seriously and you feeling disrespect and pushing him away is making him feel rejected. If you want to make it work you need to communicate and avoid falling into that social media trap of blocking. *incase I have to state it, I am not saying to go jump his bones to make it better.
He's the one who blocked me everywhere i said.
I didn't block him.
He didn't want to communicate.
I was clear maybe sharp .
But he choose to be rude
Not communicate
& blocked my number
And everywhere in social media.click to expand
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