How does Pisces energy (Pisces Sun or Moon) really feel about Capricorn energy (Sun & Moon)?

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What’s your rising

Is the Rising sign the Asc?

I'm on Cafe Astrology and it says Asc.

If so then my Rising is Gemini.

What does that mean for me then?

You previously said Aries was your rising sign?

Yeah that's true. I don't know where Aries Ascendanr came from. Maybe I typed in wrong info somehow because it now says Gemini.

Its on Cafe Astrology.

Think I'll go back and try again.

I think it is Gemini as well. There’s no way Aries energy would have stayed in this situation for as long as you have.

Also, most Cap women would not put up with this shit and would have walked moving on. I know this is true of my beautiful Cap niece.

I could also swear that you wrote that your husband left you and called the police on you. Hopefully, you got out of the charge unscathed and fought it?

Sadly no.

I did not come out unscathed. I had a SH*T lawyer who looked and spoke like she had just left university that day and I got burned.

She told me to plead Guilty or I would be in deeper trouble.

4 years after that day, I WANT to fight it.

I should have realised what he was like.

Everytime we had an argument, he took everything further. Never backing down! Ever!

One-Upmanship!

I used to worry that in the future he would take things to Court.

And he did.

All I can say is, I wish Id stayed with my husband before the police etc because I could have protected my child from him.

I can't now. Its 50/50 Custody and I really can't move forward.

I miss my little girl like Hell!

I Hate being a single mum.

I hate my little girl around another woman - I never wanted that especially!

And having never had a family, I regret not fixing things and giving our marriage another chance and giving our Family a chance.

See what happens.

Maybe the shock of losing me to another man Woke my husband Up!

Sometimes it takes a Wake Up call to make us realise what matters!

Sadly for me ..having spent so long shutting myself away emotionally etc from my husband caused him to divorce me.

It wasn't the Pisces guy that caused him to divorce me because in order to divorce for adultery you have to do it within 6 months of finding out.

It was well over a year after he found out.

It was receiving my divorce papers that Woke Me up!

Then the regret set in.

But..as my therapist told me "your husband is emotionally undeveloped. He can't cope emotionally. He was never going to open his mouth and say he Misses you etc because he Couldn't."

So it was Me all along who had to fix this.

And now i can't.

Its all gone.

And I miss my little girl 😥

I should have arranged Couple Therapy 5yrs ago when the Pisces douchebag was pushing me to leave my husband but put Zero effort into building a life with me.

I am a F**KING STUPID IDIOT!

The best defense attorneys are defense attorneys who have worked as prosecutors before.

It sounds like you have some regrets and seriously, life is too short to be living with regrets. You can die tomorrow. So what… you made some mistakes in your decisions/choices. We all have. We all live and learn. Hindsight is much better than foresight.

You sound like a Cap woman I know… she beats up on herself for working under the table for many years and not paying taxes/paying into social security, and not having a retirement. She’s stuck in a weird ass relationship unable to leave because of it. Things could be a lot worse for you. Stop beating up on yourself.

I'm glad you said that about Caps beating themselves up.

I can't stop. I can try yes. But i miss my old life and the pain of only having my child 50% of the time hurts like hell!

Many people romanticize the past or think that it was better than their present moments. We could have even taken our past lives (current life lived in decades) for granted. Your past is only there to broaden your perspective, that’s it. It was not better than your present moment, in reality. Look at what you wrote about your ex husband — you two were a mismatch.

I think my past was better.

• Because I'm a,Single mum - didn't want that.

• I'm even more lonely than being married! - Definitely didnt want that!

• I only have my child 50% of the time - it rips my heart to pieces.

• I have another woman around my child - I HATE that!

I miss him making me laugh every day randomly out of nowhere. It was so fun.

I miss his cuddles. On the sofa. In bed before falling asleep, and in the morning when we woke up.

I miss him being there for me when I'm feeling insecure about stuff. I'm a Capricorn so we can get REALLY DOWN about our Worries! My husband always picked me up emotionally and made me laugh when I felt down.

He did lots of little things for me that meant he could spend more time with me.

He did anything to make life easier for me. Little things. Big things.

For example, if something needed fixing on my car, he would fix whatever he Could fix - he's not a mechanic but is very good at diy and good with mending stuff - so that when I got to the garage the cost of the repair was cheaper because he has fixed 1 or 2 things first.

It might sound like nothing to most of you on here but to me it was cute, attractive, and manly. And I loved him for it.

There are loads of other things he did but I'm not going to list everything..but there were a lot of things he did that made me happy.

On top of that he shopped and cooked and cleaned. We both did. I didn't sit there lazy while he did it all.

It was shared.

I'm just pointing out that he did those things. One more example is that on a Saturday before pregnancy, he would drive me to the gym and drop me off and 9.15am ready to teach my class at 9.30am.

While he was gone he would do the weekly shop, go home, put it all away, do any housework that needed doing.

Then he'd come back to the gym to pick me up, and wed go home together. I walked into our house to find everything done while I've been teaching 😊😍

I never asked him to do any of this. He just did it.

So by the same token, if he was out at a work function on a friday night, I would also get everything done and ready for him coming home so he can come back and relax etc.

Its normality I'm talking about. The day to day.

This all may sound BORING AF but its the day to day life with my husband I was craving.

NORMALITY. The life we had together.

How long were you two together and how long have you been broken up?

Why do you ask?

Its hard to say when we broke up.

He booked a holiday to Centre Parcs in Nov 2016 to try and save our marriage. I may have mentioned this on this,thread. But he spent the entire 5 days with his Mouth SHUT!

Even when I spoke to him.

It caused arguments while we were there. It basically destroyed any chance of our marriage being repaired.

It was the last time we were in bed together.

I was angry with him every night and lay there ranting at him (while he lay there in Silence AGAIN!), It was out of frustration with him being silent every day. It drove me nuts!

Anyway..frighteningly 8 months later, July 2017 I received Divorce papers!

All I wanted from my husband was words of love. To let me know VERBALLY he cares for me and loves me.

His Silence drove me CRAAAAZY!

Made worse by having to hold my pain in all day because our 2 1/2 year old was there so I couldn't say anything. I just chatted normally about what we were doing. Eg having dinner "how's your meal? Mines delicious. Would you like some?"

Silence! It was painful! And heart-breaking as our little girl was happy smiling and babbling away oblivious to the situation.

So to answer your question simply..

I guess it was over from July 2017.

But then I guess it was truly over, once I moved out of the family home in June 2020 - during Covid.

That's when it truly sunk it that its over.

Deep down I never wanted this..divorce etc.

I wanted what I being saying in my recent thread here.

So now I'm heartbroken and full of regret.

Hence..I've been in therapy for about 2yrs.

I just want my old life back.

But it's gone 😔

And I never arranged Couple Therapy.

It seems fresh.

Aries silence - maybe he was trying to process things and evaluate. He also may have been putting thick walls up to you. Not excusing the behavior, just giving insight. If it drove you nuts and made you act out more — walls would have been put up. Some people misconstrue it as not caring, but it is instinct, self protection, and self preservation that takes over.

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If dxp kindly consider this, it would really benefited non-confrontantional users like me on this site.

it's arguable, a non confrontational person is actually more likely to use a sock puppet to express their grievances. If that is the main thing the sockpuppet does then that means the frequency at which the real person is confrontational is very low

confrontation is still a major stress to them but a mask provides a bit of a buffer. I always feel a slight decrease in psychological stress when I wear a hoodie and shades

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I wish there was a "mute all Caps" checkbox . I would click that bitch so fast

Guess you don't want to be my friend anymore

My Cap dom :

I think of you more as a long-distance Aquarius lover

Oh my... Right, I should know what's going on since the day you showed me your DUCK! LOL

Never thought I’d say this…. but, that’s one pretty duck 😄

I can't stop looking

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If something goes wrong for you what feeling do you gravitate towards usually? and which of your placements do you think is responsible? (give it an astrological twist 🙄) Do you have a habitual feeling that you tend to fall into a lot?

Posted by Hamsthetics

It's amazing how some people on here potraying me as some kind of snake or evil mastermind while in fact i'm not even that good in english or taking any of you remotely serious. Heck, sometimes i don't even bother to replying my threads. But whatever i guess.

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If dxp kindly consider this, it would really benefited non-confrontantional users like me on this site.

it's arguable, a non confrontational person is actually more likely to use a sock puppet to express their grievances. If that is the main thing the sockpuppet does then that means the frequency at which the real person is confrontational is very low

confrontation is still a major stress to them but a mask provides a bit of a buffer. I always feel a slight decrease in psychological stress when I wear a hoodie and shades

I shan’t debate your supposition as a general statement as I’m sure it is true for some, but the above argument begets some serious questions I much rather not delve into right now.

Regarding the OP, however, for anyone even remotely familiar with his/hers posting history, will, if not agree, than at the very least understand as to why some would find a company of Tsetse fly far more delightful than theirs.

That being said, I must give credit where credit due for I am yet to come across someone…anyone… who has fine-tuned the aggressive passive aggression into an art form as s/he has. The refinement of their delivery of mockery and underhanded compliments is truly poetry in motion. And if I had any use for any of it, I’d be in awe! With all that, inadvertently, comes a degree of comic relief only s/he can deliver, hence my initial response.



Side note to no one…thank you for giving me the opportunity to present my TED talk of the day. 😍

It is an art form, but the bad kind. Keep doing TED talks, I'll bring the punch and cookies. 😊

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