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Apr 19, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 345 · Topics: 31
Very real stuff Leo kitten!
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
I don't believe that people are idiots, however, I believe that people do idiotic things in life because of confused emotions.
Sometimes, we have to be broken vessels. When we are at our lowest, is when we sometimes realize we need to be mended. It's easy for people to accept pains, then it is to release themselves from these pains.
Sorry if you feel like an idiot .. but, sometimes, feeling like a fool is what is necessary to realize that foolishness exists. If we never error, then how will we know the difference between right and wrong?
I don't think you're an idiot .. however, I do believe that you are putting stock in a man who is not worthy of you, and making an excuse for it by saying it's ok because you are love blind.
To acknowledge the love-blindness is not blindness at all .. it's an awareness to your consciousness to know you have erred in your judgement of him, in the aspect of his intentions with you. To continue making an excuse to allow yourself to sink further into this despair is an idiotic thing to do .. very foolish.
We are suppose to learn in life ... some of our life experiences are in place for this very learning. If a person refuses to look at their lesson and continues to make an excuse as to why they are in grief, using expressions to suggest that thier path is beyond their control and call it "love" ..... then there's no place for your feelings to go except in deeper despair.
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Aug 20, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 794 · Topics: 58
aquas are usually very appealing...
You definitely need to feel confident in yourself. Women come in all shapes and sizes and men might be attracted to one or more of those elements, but it is the entire package including personality and confidence that makes a woman sexy. Especially where an aqua is concerned, personality and friendship are high on the list of traits they admire.
I've dated an aqua playboy as well. They are usually pretty open about it. I wouldn't ask too many questions if I were you, if you are interested in carrying this out further. Why not just ask him if he is seeing anybody else? That's a legitimate question and not a hard one to answer. don't elaborate on why you want to know.
You need to ask yourself though, if you care if he is seeing somebody else? If you do, this question must be asked. If not, or if you are seeing others, don't worry about his actions on the myspace.
Happy Birthday!
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
You will get past this man, and this pain. It may not seem like it because it cuts so deep, but you will.
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
And what if you did have that conversation and she chooses YOU over the dog? How would you ever respect her? Plus you would feel manipulated to stay in the relationship EVEN IF it doesn't work out, because she gave up her dog for you. She would always have weird expectations and probable resentment that you never accepted the dog and she had to give it up.
Better to cut your loses and find a partner whose package you can accept. (hee)
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Oct 22, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 231 · Topics: 26
lol P when I read your post things like a public place came to mind but I promise I will say no more *blush*
I need help with a Taurus woman I was briefly involved with. We went out several times and it was clear that something was developing and then she decided that she wanted to get out. We work together so it made things a little complex. She wanted a clean break including no communication. I went along with what she wanted and then 3 months later she starts saying hi to me. She does it in a very shy way almost to the point where I'd miss it if I weren't paying attention. I sense that she's being careful. I'd like to talk to her but I'm not sure what to say. Any ideas?
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Aug 20, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 794 · Topics: 58
Leo man/Libra woman is so lighthearted and funny and exciting and it just seems like the sun is always shining when the two are together! I used to think it was aqua man/ libra woman, but I'm with you on the Leos. It is like a big magical adventure together, they compliment each other very well.