Which planets are most important to you?
Well honestly, I feel that I can truly identify with my Moon, venus & Mars. When I read about my Moon, venus & Mars I felt like those 3 things told the most truth about my personality & what I stand for. So I assume that it's the same for others.
When I meet a man, I pay more attention to his Moon, his Venus & his Mars because those 3 things alone will tell me a little bit about how he is in his relationships with others as well as how he deals with himself. Those 3 things pretty much summed me up (Even though my Saturn & Mercury was true too) so I'm assuming that if I know those 3 things about someone, I'll have a pretty good idea about them from an astrological standpoint
When I meet a man, I pay more attention to his Moon, his Venus & his Mars because those 3 things alone will tell me a little bit about how he is in his relationships with others as well as how he deals with himself. Those 3 things pretty much summed me up (Even though my Saturn & Mercury was true too) so I'm assuming that if I know those 3 things about someone, I'll have a pretty good idea about them from an astrological standpoint
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The message boards i frequent the very least are Food, Pets, & Travel.
The message boards i frequent the very least are Food, Pets, & Travel.
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Im beginning to think that virgs and scorp are very similar, except they are earth and we are water. It's as if we need each other. The water needs somewhere to go, and the earth needs the water to grow.
oh hey, a rhyme.
I have to say, I love talking to virgos.
Im beginning to think that virgs and scorp are very similar, except they are earth and we are water. It's as if we need each other. The water needs somewhere to go, and the earth needs the water to grow.
oh hey, a rhyme.
I have to say, I love talking to virgos.
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Avril Lavigne is also a Libra so who r these fine creations....
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I really don't see this being in any way about the Pisces or what he's feeling (or not feeling, as the case may be). This seems to be more about you. Let's take this point by point...
1) had a short lived 3 month romance with him, and fell deeply in love. on the very night that he was moving in with me, we had a disagreement over something silly, and me being an aries, sent him packing
This sends up massive alarm bells for me. I'm all about true love and the like, but there's a huge difference between being caught up in the throes of a new relationship and being in love. Also, you moved in with each other 3 months after you started dating? That sounds more like a person who desperately needs affirmation and is terrified of being left, not someone who is in love.
2) i could barely stand his evasive personality. it drove me insane
Yep. That's love alright.
3) he seemed incapable of showing his feelings. but yet was so caring
wtf?
4) it's unexplainable. there was this deep connection without words..i thought.only once in eleven years has he said he loved me.
This just seems to verify for me that this is about you projecting your neediness and selfishness onto another person. It's not about him. It's about you feeding your desperate need to be loved. I'm not a Pisces, nor am I an expert on one. I can say, though, that love is reciprocal. Love doesn't hurt and love doesn't fuck with your mind. This isn't love. This is some serious dysfunction.
5) within six months i met and was about to marry my rebound guy
Call me crazy, but do you see a pattern here? You meet Pisces and 3 months later you move in together. You meet Rebound Guy and 6 months later you're about to marry him. Again, this isn't about love. This is you having low self-esteem and being terrified of being left.
6) i know it took all he had to do these things cause all of it was so far out of character for him
And you didn't accept what he offered? Again, this just reaffirms that what you felt towards him wasn't love, but neediness and manipulation.
This is also making me think that if you chose the Pisces over the rebound guy, you'd be on here today posting in whatever forum the rebound guy's sign is saying "I left the man who loved me for this evasive Pisces who drives me insane." No matter what you chose or what you do, it will never be enough to fill that hole inside you.
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1) had a short lived 3 month romance with him, and fell deeply in love. on the very night that he was moving in with me, we had a disagreement over something silly, and me being an aries, sent him packing
This sends up massive alarm bells for me. I'm all about true love and the like, but there's a huge difference between being caught up in the throes of a new relationship and being in love. Also, you moved in with each other 3 months after you started dating? That sounds more like a person who desperately needs affirmation and is terrified of being left, not someone who is in love.
2) i could barely stand his evasive personality. it drove me insane
Yep. That's love alright.
3) he seemed incapable of showing his feelings. but yet was so caring
wtf?
4) it's unexplainable. there was this deep connection without words..i thought.only once in eleven years has he said he loved me.
This just seems to verify for me that this is about you projecting your neediness and selfishness onto another person. It's not about him. It's about you feeding your desperate need to be loved. I'm not a Pisces, nor am I an expert on one. I can say, though, that love is reciprocal. Love doesn't hurt and love doesn't fuck with your mind. This isn't love. This is some serious dysfunction.
5) within six months i met and was about to marry my rebound guy
Call me crazy, but do you see a pattern here? You meet Pisces and 3 months later you move in together. You meet Rebound Guy and 6 months later you're about to marry him. Again, this isn't about love. This is you having low self-esteem and being terrified of being left.
6) i know it took all he had to do these things cause all of it was so far out of character for him
And you didn't accept what he offered? Again, this just reaffirms that what you felt towards him wasn't love, but neediness and manipulation.
This is also making me think that if you chose the Pisces over the rebound guy, you'd be on here today posting in whatever forum the rebound guy's sign is saying "I left the man who loved me for this evasive Pisces who drives me insane." No matter what you chose or what you do, it will never be enough to fill that hole inside you.
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8) we have seen each other a handful of times as well.
That's totally how I act when I'm in love with someone. I get married, I have children "in hopes that the relationship would end" and then I let 11 years go by with only sporadic contact with the object of my affection.
Yep. That's love.
9) he will go months without talking to me and then call out of the blue as if he still cares
Maybe he feels sorry for you. It's not love on his part, but just a deep sense of humanity that is responding to another person's pain. It's a guess, but just because he calls you doesn't have to mean it's love.
10) i have even asked if he still wants me to leave my marriage and he has said that he doesn't have "anything for me right now". it's like he doesnt want to break up a happy home or something.
This is more revealing. He's telling you what he feels - he doesn't have anything for you. Instead of taking him at face value, you're creating a fantasy that is all about the reality you'd like to see rather than that which genuinely exists. You're unhappy and you're dreaming of someone swooping in and taking care of it all without you having to exert any agency on your part.
11) then it drives me insane and i say ugly, blunt stuff
Uhhh. Just guessing but maybe that's why he backs off. He pretends that nothing happened in your next conversation (six months later?!?!?!) because he's moved on and isn't all OCD about why you flipped out at the last conversation.
12) i love this man. how do i find out how he feels? am i just someone he calls when he is feeling lonely? does he call just to make sure i am still dangling out there on his line?
This isn't about him. This is about you. You don't love this man. You love the feelings he gives you - something totally different. The reason you're struggling with understanding how he feels is because you don't have the courage to stand up and declare what your needs are and then go figure out a way to have them met. By asking if he's just calling to satisfy some fucked up need of his, you're simply validating your own low self esteem (he could never call because he genuinely likes me).
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8) we have seen each other a handful of times as well.
That's totally how I act when I'm in love with someone. I get married, I have children "in hopes that the relationship would end" and then I let 11 years go by with only sporadic contact with the object of my affection.
Yep. That's love.
9) he will go months without talking to me and then call out of the blue as if he still cares
Maybe he feels sorry for you. It's not love on his part, but just a deep sense of humanity that is responding to another person's pain. It's a guess, but just because he calls you doesn't have to mean it's love.
10) i have even asked if he still wants me to leave my marriage and he has said that he doesn't have "anything for me right now". it's like he doesnt want to break up a happy home or something.
This is more revealing. He's telling you what he feels - he doesn't have anything for you. Instead of taking him at face value, you're creating a fantasy that is all about the reality you'd like to see rather than that which genuinely exists. You're unhappy and you're dreaming of someone swooping in and taking care of it all without you having to exert any agency on your part.
11) then it drives me insane and i say ugly, blunt stuff
Uhhh. Just guessing but maybe that's why he backs off. He pretends that nothing happened in your next conversation (six months later?!?!?!) because he's moved on and isn't all OCD about why you flipped out at the last conversation.
12) i love this man. how do i find out how he feels? am i just someone he calls when he is feeling lonely? does he call just to make sure i am still dangling out there on his line?
This isn't about him. This is about you. You don't love this man. You love the feelings he gives you - something totally different. The reason you're struggling with understanding how he feels is because you don't have the courage to stand up and declare what your needs are and then go figure out a way to have them met. By asking if he's just calling to satisfy some fucked up need of his, you're simply validating your own low self esteem (he could never call because he genuinely likes me).
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One thing I've noticed about people with low self-esteem is that they're incapable of returning the love of the people who love them. This seems to be the case here. Instead of getting down on your hands and knees and thanking God for the remarkable man that has fathered your two children and stuck with your sorry neurotic ass, you're thinking he's worthless because he's shown you the respect you can't seem to show yourself.
You're wallowing in guilt. You're obsessed with the possibilities of a parallel life that doesn't exist. On an on... It's about you.
This is screaming out addiction and/or alcoholism. I'd bet everything I have you either grew up around alcoholism/addiction or are living with it now. You don't need to figure out what your Pisces is thinking. You need to get to a 12-step program and start working on fixing yourself rather than continuing the manipulate the people around you to satisfy your own insatiable neediness.
One thing I've noticed about people with low self-esteem is that they're incapable of returning the love of the people who love them. This seems to be the case here. Instead of getting down on your hands and knees and thanking God for the remarkable man that has fathered your two children and stuck with your sorry neurotic ass, you're thinking he's worthless because he's shown you the respect you can't seem to show yourself.
You're wallowing in guilt. You're obsessed with the possibilities of a parallel life that doesn't exist. On an on... It's about you.
This is screaming out addiction and/or alcoholism. I'd bet everything I have you either grew up around alcoholism/addiction or are living with it now. You don't need to figure out what your Pisces is thinking. You need to get to a 12-step program and start working on fixing yourself rather than continuing the manipulate the people around you to satisfy your own insatiable neediness.
Ctoun you must be a rare cap.
Chatz,
Try to be patient. Y'all work together, and that's a tough minefield for a VirGuy to tiptoe through. For months I fought the urge to start something with my Scorp because we worked in the same building...
Virgs take work seriously (okay, we take everything seriously, but we take work seriously to the umpteenth power!), and he's smart enough to know that if y'all go sour, it's gonna affect the workplace, and that's gonna make him much more hesitant with you than he might be otherwise...
Talking.... Now that is a complete diff thing
I talk in bed a lot... Laff Talk and eat LOL Libra's who don't admit it ar possers LOL
I talk in bed a lot... Laff Talk and eat LOL Libra's who don't admit it ar possers LOL
Keep it simple. Just state the facts. If it was inadvertent, he's not gonna hold it against you until doomsday. Most VirGuys have a long fuse, and some offhand comment ain't gonna get it lit...