How patience is Aries girl?
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don't bother counting how many times she contacts you or you contact her...the core issue remains on how you are going to handle your ex. all this talk is just lip-service...it makes you look like someone who can't handle himself (not the man she envisions herself to be with)...and the longer you postpone confronting the ex...the more impatient she will be...until she just cuts you off.
if you are even entertaining the idea of having her talk to the gem directly, she will write you off as a wimp. she has no respect for wimps. she may take you up on the offer to talk to the gem, but that is just to satisfy her own ego...at that point your relationship is already dead in her eyes. she is a strong woman, she needs you to be a strong man.
don't bother counting how many times she contacts you or you contact her...the core issue remains on how you are going to handle your ex. all this talk is just lip-service...it makes you look like someone who can't handle himself (not the man she envisions herself to be with)...and the longer you postpone confronting the ex...the more impatient she will be...until she just cuts you off.
if you are even entertaining the idea of having her talk to the gem directly, she will write you off as a wimp. she has no respect for wimps. she may take you up on the offer to talk to the gem, but that is just to satisfy her own ego...at that point your relationship is already dead in her eyes. she is a strong woman, she needs you to be a strong man.
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Hey all, thank you for all the comments and advices, especially Hizaki for asking me to "grow some balls". haha! Thanks. I needed
Hizaki, approaching him and starting a conversation is not too difficult. In fact, let me count, I talked to him 4 times...and out of those four, three I initiated. Talking to him is pretty enjoyable, especially making him laugh. But the difficult part is that I feel pressured talking to him in a work environment with co-workers around. My fear is that others will be able to tell that I'm attracted to him. And the dilenma is that I want him to know I'm interested in being his friends.
And to answer Lady_M's question, I'm closeted...so is he (at least in the office). I'm trying to be as cautious as possible and don't put either of us in jeopardy. I'm not a very outgoing, active and extroverted person by nature and I think the people in my office know that. I'm worried if I get too close with him, others may just be able to tell.
"If you want him, than show it to yourself than you CAN get him and he would be lucky to have you."
Lovable_pisces, I trying to be more confident each day...not just for him but for myself too. I psyched myself up so much for the past month...but I got jelly when I sit him sitting with other co-workers. I dare not to approach him. I probably should just take one step at a time and not expect so much. My improvements are slow but I'm still determine to overcome my confident and security issues as I know that's why I failed so miserly previously with my ex-Pisces crush.
And hi tiki, I'm trying not to use too much of friendster and facebook stuff to communicate. They made me insecure not geting a reply. hee... But it is a good way to get to know people if they are shy. They how my sweet Pisces is getting to know more guys.
P-Angel, your advice is good. He just got back and I should just let it flow. But that's probably my only chance to get to talk to him face-to-face and that's why I'm a bit pissed that I didn't grab the opportunity. My goal is just to get his mobile number but I didn't. He left for his next project and so do I...I may only see him in 1-2 months time. Sad... But I'm glad I got to see him/his back...haha after so long.
Hee...I need to chew on all the advices for a while. I'm leaning towards P-angel's advice of being patient. It's more taurus. haha. We both are busy right now. I want to take it slow...at the meantime have to continue to build my confidence.
Hizaki, approaching him and starting a conversation is not too difficult. In fact, let me count, I talked to him 4 times...and out of those four, three I initiated. Talking to him is pretty enjoyable, especially making him laugh. But the difficult part is that I feel pressured talking to him in a work environment with co-workers around. My fear is that others will be able to tell that I'm attracted to him. And the dilenma is that I want him to know I'm interested in being his friends.
And to answer Lady_M's question, I'm closeted...so is he (at least in the office). I'm trying to be as cautious as possible and don't put either of us in jeopardy. I'm not a very outgoing, active and extroverted person by nature and I think the people in my office know that. I'm worried if I get too close with him, others may just be able to tell.
"If you want him, than show it to yourself than you CAN get him and he would be lucky to have you."
Lovable_pisces, I trying to be more confident each day...not just for him but for myself too. I psyched myself up so much for the past month...but I got jelly when I sit him sitting with other co-workers. I dare not to approach him. I probably should just take one step at a time and not expect so much. My improvements are slow but I'm still determine to overcome my confident and security issues as I know that's why I failed so miserly previously with my ex-Pisces crush.
And hi tiki, I'm trying not to use too much of friendster and facebook stuff to communicate. They made me insecure not geting a reply. hee... But it is a good way to get to know people if they are shy. They how my sweet Pisces is getting to know more guys.
P-Angel, your advice is good. He just got back and I should just let it flow. But that's probably my only chance to get to talk to him face-to-face and that's why I'm a bit pissed that I didn't grab the opportunity. My goal is just to get his mobile number but I didn't. He left for his next project and so do I...I may only see him in 1-2 months time. Sad... But I'm glad I got to see him/his back...haha after so long.
Hee...I need to chew on all the advices for a while. I'm leaning towards P-angel's advice of being patient. It's more taurus. haha. We both are busy right now. I want to take it slow...at the meantime have to continue to build my confidence.
And hopefully I'm who him looking for and one day I can give him happiness. =)
what? not enough foreplay w/dy - you had to come back for more? :-)
LOL, you and your nit-picky bullshit is never ending
Its amazing how you call me the dense one HAHAHAHAHA!!!
Go screw around with someone who actually cares about what you think -- get them all hot and bothered by you ^_^.
LOL, you and your nit-picky bullshit is never ending
Its amazing how you call me the dense one HAHAHAHAHA!!!Go screw around with someone who actually cares about what you think -- get them all hot and bothered by you ^_^.
Cappy! Dude, apparently people never passed U.S. Gov! The parties platformed changed over time!!
lol, Yeah I know
LOL, I've learned that nine times already over the past years of middle school, high school, and college! 
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So .... I'm not sure why people are do "dense" (LOL!!!!) about that but whatever.
lol, Yeah I know
LOL, I've learned that nine times already over the past years of middle school, high school, and college! !!!So .... I'm not sure why people are do "dense" (LOL!!!!) about that but whatever.
i live with a scorp for five years...he was very supportive..but he was possessive...after a while i couldnt stand it....one thing i did love about him....he was very protective of me...that turned me on so much..
"If a hottie that I found super sexy showed undoubted interest in me, even in an annoying and obvious way I would sure as hell go for it However, if it was an average looking gal then desparation would be a turn off ... I know I am shallow."
Hee...I'm not hottie. But I do believe I'm charming person...but just that I'm also a private person...people have to dig a little deeper to see that charm. hehe...
Hee...I'm not hottie. But I do believe I'm charming person...but just that I'm also a private person...people have to dig a little deeper to see that charm.
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I said nothing about pooneys it was greatbull ask him give credit where cridet is due.
I said nothing about pooneys it was greatbull ask him give credit where cridet is due.