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He'll never want you for anything but for what you allow yourself to be to him. If you give in to being his "F buddy" just for the sake of being in his company, then understand that once you give in, you can NO longer complain about how he doesn't want to get serious with you. What you see is what you get. This guy not only TOLD you how he felt, but he also SHOWED you also. And like mama said, when a man shows you (not tells you) who he is, believe him. He's only being himself & he'll treat you the way you allow him to treat you. Giving in or doing things that your heart naturally won't allow you to do is not going to change his mind about you. He made the decision in his head that he couldn't see you as anything more than a friend & he expects & I'm sure it probably bummed him out that you might not have been the woman he wanted you to be, but at the same time nothing will stop him from approaching or embracing the next "eye candy" that comes his way so you should remember that the next time you find yourself thinking of 1,000 ways to try to wheel him back in.
In his mind, any possibility of the 2 of you growing to be anything serious, is over. In your mind though, you may not want to let go & hey, that's okay. You're human. But don't take yourself through these emotional rollercoasters if what you REALLY want is not going to be the result at the end of the day. You probably know what it's like to have someone cling to your so much & not be able to take the hint. And no matter how much that person begs and/or pleads with you, it won't matter b/c once you've made the decision that that person isn't good enough or isn't your "cup of tea" there is nothing THEY can do about it. So put yourself in his shoes. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck girlie!
In his mind, any possibility of the 2 of you growing to be anything serious, is over. In your mind though, you may not want to let go & hey, that's okay. You're human. But don't take yourself through these emotional rollercoasters if what you REALLY want is not going to be the result at the end of the day. You probably know what it's like to have someone cling to your so much & not be able to take the hint. And no matter how much that person begs and/or pleads with you, it won't matter b/c once you've made the decision that that person isn't good enough or isn't your "cup of tea" there is nothing THEY can do about it. So put yourself in his shoes. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck girlie!
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I have friends in the army too..but they aren't killing machines, they are doing other worthy things such as engineering, humanitarian efforts etc..
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You have to admit soldiers nowadays are mostly recruited from the deprived areas, lack of real education, no hope in hell of achieving something in life...The army play on this and also offers them all those things so they go for it..little do they know that they are being used as puppets and just basically programmed into killing..why do you think most of them are totally psychotic and mentally screwed by the time they get out of it!...
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What is called a "French kiss" in the English speaking world is known as an "English kiss" in France.
What is called a "French kiss" in the English speaking world is known as an "English kiss" in France.
? But I have a question too - why do people think that ALL there desires must be met, be it with one partner or multiple partners?
This is the question isn't it? I wonder this too. I find women in particular guilty of this thinking and it makes me a little crazy. They give up their whole lives then wonder why their partners don't make them feel complete. They start over analyzing the man. Then they start with the relationship *tawks*. I feel this way when you do this. I feel that way when you do that. Why don't you ever do this? Why don't you do this more? yadda, yadda ... Instead of realize the reason why they are feeling so bad is because they gave themselves up to pursue the relationship. They expect the relationship to fill all the gaps in their lives.
This is the question isn't it? I wonder this too. I find women in particular guilty of this thinking and it makes me a little crazy. They give up their whole lives then wonder why their partners don't make them feel complete. They start over analyzing the man. Then they start with the relationship *tawks*. I feel this way when you do this. I feel that way when you do that. Why don't you ever do this? Why don't you do this more? yadda, yadda ... Instead of realize the reason why they are feeling so bad is because they gave themselves up to pursue the relationship. They expect the relationship to fill all the gaps in their lives.
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FIRST of all, the teapot idea was just that, an IDEA! SECOND, it was a SUGGESTION for v-day NOT for their date this weekend, which is pretty clearly stated in the exchanges Denny and I wrote last evening.
FINALLY, my main objective was to get him out of the flowers and candy (yawn) thing of v-day and think about something more personal that shows he's been listening to her, as little sparrow has also mentioned.
Anyway, I just want him to relax and have an awesome time getting to know her. I think he sounds like an awesome and genuine young man, so that's what I want the young lady to see too.
FIRST of all, the teapot idea was just that, an IDEA! SECOND, it was a SUGGESTION for v-day NOT for their date this weekend, which is pretty clearly stated in the exchanges Denny and I wrote last evening.
FINALLY, my main objective was to get him out of the flowers and candy (yawn) thing of v-day and think about something more personal that shows he's been listening to her, as little sparrow has also mentioned.
Anyway, I just want him to relax and have an awesome time getting to know her. I think he sounds like an awesome and genuine young man, so that's what I want the young lady to see too.