Help! Calling All Cappies
I already told you ... he was playing you ... making you think he was interested, so he could ignore you.
He's not interested in being with you .. he's interested in getting your hopes up, so he can hurt you.
There's no way for us to know what took place to make him stoop to this kind of thing .. only you know that.
And it's a very immature thing to do ... if you have moved on and you know this is over .. then why even put any thought into it, even if it's in the form of curiousity?
He's not interested in being with you .. he's interested in getting your hopes up, so he can hurt you.
There's no way for us to know what took place to make him stoop to this kind of thing .. only you know that.
And it's a very immature thing to do ... if you have moved on and you know this is over .. then why even put any thought into it, even if it's in the form of curiousity?
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But tis true to some extent..apparantly the "asian" countries are emotional..or should I say expressive..I read that somewhere.."
I'm just interested of the pattern really.
"apparantly the "asian" countries are emotional"
If ever that's accurate then it's easy to presume that asian people won't be good leaders!
See the reason why I'm pretty interested of the distribution of different signs?
But tis true to some extent..apparantly the "asian" countries are emotional..or should I say expressive..I read that somewhere.."
I'm just interested of the pattern really.
"apparantly the "asian" countries are emotional"
If ever that's accurate then it's easy to presume that asian people won't be good leaders!
See the reason why I'm pretty interested of the distribution of different signs?
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Bless you dear Looneybird. The boy already knows that he has a very special cancer lady as a granma! Enjoy each precious moment of his childhood. Just donot change your life too much for him. He will not be able to tolerate when once you get him used to slaving for him 24x7 and next he knows you are off when the full moon makes you aware to pursue unfulfilled goals. He wouold be devastated! My dear lady Let him adjust to your routine not the other way round.
Thank you everyone, I appreciate the insight. Certainly I won't judge him based on sign alone. Every individual is just that-- but I do find that our sun sign can be accurate in an overall kind of way.
I tend to be very intuitive, I don't kno if that is a Cappy trait or not, and can tell you that i can already see the lean toward "love-lite" attitude which isn't fair of me to say so early on.... I'm not even certain he is someone I'd pursue... just something I've noticed.
Truth be told, I've met my soul mate- totally the love at first sight thing-- we've been developng our friendhsip for over 5 years now. He too says all the things a gril watns ot hear but when pressed for his true feelings he cops out with "oh it's all just a come on, i didnt mean to lead you on..... ugh. You're rigth, Cappies, at least this one, don't have desire for love that is passionless. ALl that being siad to say I dont know if I wil ever find what I have with my Scorp buddy..... hmmmm maybe this is a post for the scorp boards.
Thank you again!
I tend to be very intuitive, I don't kno if that is a Cappy trait or not, and can tell you that i can already see the lean toward "love-lite" attitude which isn't fair of me to say so early on.... I'm not even certain he is someone I'd pursue... just something I've noticed.
Truth be told, I've met my soul mate- totally the love at first sight thing-- we've been developng our friendhsip for over 5 years now. He too says all the things a gril watns ot hear but when pressed for his true feelings he cops out with "oh it's all just a come on, i didnt mean to lead you on..... ugh. You're rigth, Cappies, at least this one, don't have desire for love that is passionless. ALl that being siad to say I dont know if I wil ever find what I have with my Scorp buddy..... hmmmm maybe this is a post for the scorp boards.
Thank you again!
Thank you everyone, I appreciate the insight. Certainly I won't judge him based on sign alone. Every individual is just that-- but I do find that our sun sign can be accurate in an overall kind of way.
I tend to be very intuitive, I don't kno if that is a Cappy trait or not, and can tell you that i can already see the lean toward "love-lite" attitude which isn't fair of me to say so early on.... I'm not even certain he is someone I'd pursue... just something I've noticed.
Truth be told, I've met my soul mate- totally the love at first sight thing-- we've been developng our friendhsip for over 5 years now. He too says all the things a gril watns ot hear but when pressed for his true feelings he cops out with "oh it's all just a come on, i didnt mean to lead you on..... ugh. You're rigth, Cappies, at least this one, don't have desire for love that is passionless. ALl that being siad to say I dont know if I wil ever find what I have with my Scorp buddy..... hmmmm maybe this is a post for the scorp boards.
Thank you again!
I tend to be very intuitive, I don't kno if that is a Cappy trait or not, and can tell you that i can already see the lean toward "love-lite" attitude which isn't fair of me to say so early on.... I'm not even certain he is someone I'd pursue... just something I've noticed.
Truth be told, I've met my soul mate- totally the love at first sight thing-- we've been developng our friendhsip for over 5 years now. He too says all the things a gril watns ot hear but when pressed for his true feelings he cops out with "oh it's all just a come on, i didnt mean to lead you on..... ugh. You're rigth, Cappies, at least this one, don't have desire for love that is passionless. ALl that being siad to say I dont know if I wil ever find what I have with my Scorp buddy..... hmmmm maybe this is a post for the scorp boards.
Thank you again!
How long it takes depends on the length and depth of their relationship. Also the time he held on to the hope that she would beat this illness...I'm thinking it's Cancer which is what took my love Glenn and 3 other friends. You know in your heart that they are going to die but you never ever believe it even when they do, complete denial!
Another thing to consider is that although we hold these loved ones with high values we dont forget their faults and also understand what we really want out of a new relationship...there are these expectations in our mind to uphold. Almost a check list and we dont want to settle for anything less. BUT in reality it maybe too high a price for most. The fact that you are with him means you meet some, if not alot of those important criteria.
From experience...I never explained my situation and how I felt to my new man but always kept myself guarded. In hind-sight if I knew I was going to lose him because I hadn't learnt to deal with my past or even openly express my reservations to him, I certainly would have, but that's me. Too late to turn back the clock.
It's harder to get a man to open up but pick the time and try to at least get him to talk to you about her, even if he is explaining how wonderful she was or how frustrating she could be. If he can do this he has your trust. Don't ever feel threatened by her or jealous...
I certainly wouldn't date or see anyone else. If he finds out you are, then you will lose any trust he has for you and him completely. AND NO definietly dont have anything to do with moving her things out of their home, no talk of it from you at all!! That he will do in his own time and only then regardless of ANYBODY'S opinion!
One thing I do appreciate is when people talk about my love Glenn by name, he lived even though he died. He's still very real to me! I seen that when someone dies everybody is too scared to even bring their name up! Me and my friends find comfort in speaking or others speaking their names. They are still very real and a much apart of us!
Hope some of this helps.
Another thing to consider is that although we hold these loved ones with high values we dont forget their faults and also understand what we really want out of a new relationship...there are these expectations in our mind to uphold. Almost a check list and we dont want to settle for anything less. BUT in reality it maybe too high a price for most. The fact that you are with him means you meet some, if not alot of those important criteria.
From experience...I never explained my situation and how I felt to my new man but always kept myself guarded. In hind-sight if I knew I was going to lose him because I hadn't learnt to deal with my past or even openly express my reservations to him, I certainly would have, but that's me. Too late to turn back the clock.
It's harder to get a man to open up but pick the time and try to at least get him to talk to you about her, even if he is explaining how wonderful she was or how frustrating she could be. If he can do this he has your trust. Don't ever feel threatened by her or jealous...
I certainly wouldn't date or see anyone else. If he finds out you are, then you will lose any trust he has for you and him completely. AND NO definietly dont have anything to do with moving her things out of their home, no talk of it from you at all!! That he will do in his own time and only then regardless of ANYBODY'S opinion!
One thing I do appreciate is when people talk about my love Glenn by name, he lived even though he died. He's still very real to me! I seen that when someone dies everybody is too scared to even bring their name up! Me and my friends find comfort in speaking or others speaking their names. They are still very real and a much apart of us!
Hope some of this helps.
You gave him the nookie?
Poor guy. 
Imagine losing a spouse. How did she die?
Imagine losing a spouse. How did she die?sooo, I'll save you the drama that precedes this question and share the points that will help paint the current pic....
I met a scorp 5 years ago and I just KNOW he is THE ONE-- regardless... due to where we were in past marriages and where he is now in current marriage we cannot be together. The desire has always been strong. I have learened from his actions more so than his words that he does love me and when "confronted" with this truth his reply has been "I'm sorry, Im just flriting, i didn't mean to lead you on..." Yes, he HAS said those three words and he meant it. He is not one to throw that phrase about carelessly.
We are as of today, incredibly close best of friends not in a romantic realtionship. He won't leave his wife, I won't ask him to< and I also willnot allow him to take advantage of me, ie have cake and eat it too.
my question is this--- WHYYYYYYYYYYYYY does he keep coming back with the love romance stuff? why? why waste the time, no other hobbies to pursue? do Scorps have need for ego fueling? I know he loves me, HE knows he loves me-- yet he denies it. he will call and say the most beautiful things and wheni say why would you tell someone that if you dont love her he will say, oh it's just a comeon, im sorry if I led you on.....??? then he backs off, thenhe will come bakc and do it again.
I have no hope for anything with this man I just wondered if any other scorps could shed light on this wacky behavior. I mean if he is lookin to treetrunk on the side, he isnt getting that from me.... why not go after someone (and there areplenty) who will? why keep coming back to me and then denying it when full light is shown on how he feels? bizarre.. I've given up trying to understand but if you have a comment im interested in it. thanks Im a cap,not that it matters.
I met a scorp 5 years ago and I just KNOW he is THE ONE-- regardless... due to where we were in past marriages and where he is now in current marriage we cannot be together. The desire has always been strong. I have learened from his actions more so than his words that he does love me and when "confronted" with this truth his reply has been "I'm sorry, Im just flriting, i didn't mean to lead you on..." Yes, he HAS said those three words and he meant it. He is not one to throw that phrase about carelessly.
We are as of today, incredibly close best of friends not in a romantic realtionship. He won't leave his wife, I won't ask him to< and I also willnot allow him to take advantage of me, ie have cake and eat it too.
my question is this--- WHYYYYYYYYYYYYY does he keep coming back with the love romance stuff? why? why waste the time, no other hobbies to pursue? do Scorps have need for ego fueling? I know he loves me, HE knows he loves me-- yet he denies it. he will call and say the most beautiful things and wheni say why would you tell someone that if you dont love her he will say, oh it's just a comeon, im sorry if I led you on.....??? then he backs off, thenhe will come bakc and do it again.
I have no hope for anything with this man I just wondered if any other scorps could shed light on this wacky behavior. I mean if he is lookin to treetrunk on the side, he isnt getting that from me.... why not go after someone (and there areplenty) who will? why keep coming back to me and then denying it when full light is shown on how he feels? bizarre.. I've given up trying to understand but if you have a comment im interested in it. thanks Im a cap,not that it matters.