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Aug 11, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 5176 · Topics: 77
"It is her who needs to make a decision, either continue with this fantasy of his and hers that he is so miserable, desires to be with her, etc., etc., -- but will not leave his wife for whatever reason, or cut him off and go find her own man."
Pathfinder, although I agree with you regarding not continuing to be with someone who isn't available . There are scorp men who will fall for someone outside their marriage, but will not leave for WHATEVER the reason, that sometimes have nothing to do with wether they love their wife or not. I am telling you I have seen it over and over with others signs yes, but my personal experience includes scorp men. Which is a sad state of affairs for him, his wife and family and the other woman. A bunch of drama. Nothing is true in a situation like this!
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Jan 07, 2009Comments: 305 · Posts: 14219 · Topics: 239
"All other things, material comfort, power in society, are ancillary circumstances that usually improve as one achieves one's main goal."
very true. I have realized this many a time.
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On another board I read there is a speculation that "a defect mirror neuron system" can lead to things peopel do without knowing how it would hurt the others.
For example when a guy has a girl friend, creates an Internet profile somewhere and put picutes of his dick on that place or write mocking stuff about his girl. At the same time he is staying with her and she gets pragnant.
Once she finds out what he did, can she love him? after all he had no imagination of how hurting it could be? it was his mirror neuron system which needed to learn it.
There the other people say if she does a simiar thing to him, he will see how disgusting that is. Call it revenge call it giving him a lecture. The reality seems to be very colourful with idiotic stuff, isn't it?
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Jul 30, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 6247 · Topics: 51
oh I see, I'm in the 20s stage where my full attention's on moi and familia... so everytime someone asks why I'm not dating, I ask them why they're dating... that usually ends the conversation...
even your close circle can drain... in fact they can drain more than strangers because there's no limit to what is asked.
I also really believe if you're not complete or know what you can spare, you shoudln't give... someone will drain naturally.
idk, if really content, so why rock the boat?
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Oct 08, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 2906 · Topics: 93
what is pbrain to you?
One of the Adults on DXP. You're not one of them.
start with being honest
Start by pointing to a single time on DXP when I've been dishonest. You can't.
Loyalist Rebel / Outcast / Haffo / Haf-Wit: I think me and hothouselillies have alot of similar traits.
I agree: You two are equally ignorant & pea-brained. Looks like you both went to the same charm school, too.
he got his ass in army for too long
I was never in the Army. I flew jets in the US Air Force.
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Jul 30, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 6247 · Topics: 51
I wonder why you wonder that....
for real