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Posted by clarra
I am married to a Scorpio man in an arranged marriage. It been six years, and from day one he's emotionally cheating on me. He still continues to obsessively stalk a girl he was interested in years ago before we met. She was his first love but he didn't end up marrying her. He told me he was toxic and agreed when his parents forced him to marry me. During a fight, he confessed that he regrets giving up on her. I hoped he would move on with time, but it's gotten so bad that if she posts something online, like having fun or traveling, he becomes extremely upset ruining the entire day. I hate that her account is public. We also have a child so why is he still obsessed with her? I've caught him going through her socials late at night so many times over the past six years and it never lessened. Now I feel like I'm obsessed with her and stalking her too. I hate myself, Can you imagine he downloads her public playlists from spotify and listens to the songs she listens to in the car when I am sitting right next to him? It hurts so much and he thinks I don't know it’s hers. She's on his mind too much he listens to her favorite music, eats at her regular places that she posts and even follows some of her male friends on Instagram because she’s single. I'm scared what if she finds out and reciprocate she used to like him in the past? What will he do when he has this level of obsession with her? How can I make him get over her? She appears happy so why can't he move on too? We’re not children. he is 32. He pretends to be happy but I know he is emotionally cheating.
Posted by BadderBunnyCheating takes two people indeed, but they are the cheater and the cheated on! What he does is a classical example of (emotional) cheating.
He isn't emotionally cheating, he's obsessing. Cheating takes two people and this woman appears to be living her life and unbothered as fuck. I wish I had some good advice for you, but sounds like divorce isnt an option. You knew before having a child there was someone else he was in love with, children don't fix marriages. Hopefully the other woman will get married and he will move on. Until then, I guess you will have to learn to compartmentalize your feelings and treat this marriage like the business arrangement it is.
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