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Sep 18, 2008Comments: 1 · Posts: 4899 · Topics: 99
I'm too lazy for revenge. It's also childish. But I will make sure to not bother with that person or protect myself from him/her from than on. < And I see that as just common logic.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
"I suppose he likes to be in control and dominant, so me initiating sex would mess with that. Like we will just be watching tv or hanging out and all of a sudden he has a boner..and is begging for me to get busy on it. thats usually how it happens. im not happy with that, because its too predictable and boring for me."
YOu say things like the above, and other stuff about how degrading he is of a person in the bedroom towards you .... and for 15 pages, have also been defending a territory to suggest that you really don't have a problem being with him.
It's very suspect to me that you are all about sex with this man .. just watching tv and jumping his bone at his convenience, and the only thing that bothers you about this kind of disrespect is that it's getting boring for you.
It's also very suspect that you would spend 15 pages defending the sugardaddy claim ..... why would you do that? Odd ......
This whole thing .. is just wierd.
But, mainly, what I want to say is that you've spent this entire time judgeing and trashing the mother of his children ... and then have the audacity to get your horns up over someone else's judgement of a situation in which you choose to publicly display for other peoples opinions.
That makes you a hypocrite .. big fucking time.
Just because a person has no job or education .... it doesn't mean they don't have value, and who the fuck do you think you are to say that she has no value?
She is a mother ... that is more valuable than any job or any type of education .... she has value to her children.
And you can't see that ^^^^^^^ ... you think that role in her life is useless ...... and that judgement you have of her, BA, makes you the one out to be the actual loser in this scenerio .... and it also means you aren't beautiful.
When you grow up ... I hope you will come back to dxp and read this ... maybe then you will have found your self-worth.
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Nov 30, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 3480 · Topics: 90
None of you will believe this but my Virgo has come back bigger and stronger than ever before after I had that talk with him, after I said I cant do what we were doing without any commitment.
WTF???
Today he showed his vulnerable side like Ive never seen before, he opened up and wants to have me in his life but wants to take it slow...(like he wasnt before LOL)....I can do slow as long as I know he's interested.
He wants me over and wants to cook for me, that bike ride in the hills, going to check out wineries will become a reality but next week he has invited me for a night in watching DVD's, some red wine and cheeses (we both loooooove cheeses) to enjoy.
Yes Im in utter disbelief...I was totally honeset with what I wanted and he's come back with this? Im over the moon!!!
He said although he's still struggling with his own demons, he doesnt want me to feel that he doesnt care for me, that he's keen on rebuilding his life and hopes I'll be patient during his evolvement.
OMG, OMG, OMG!!!
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
"I LOVE ME SOME PISCES!!!! Well, the Pisces on this board for now...."
Yeah, that's only because you felt like 2 Pisces were taking a side with you on the Virgo board earlier today ... which is actually in error. YOu think this is what happened, because you don't know any better.
Pisces people don't take sides .... a concept in which I can clearly see from reading the thread on the Virgo board, you have no awareness of this concept, and actually think we side with people.
And I know this because when people came in to talk ... you attempted to persuade people not to talk to or listen to another member here .. leokitten.
You'd be wise not to do that again when talking to Pisces people, if you have any desires of gaining the Piscean respect ... because we don't take sides. If you have a problem with another member, don't try to tell a Pisces how to judge that persons character.
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Feb 29, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 1789 · Topics: 62
ahhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
cap guys are ummm....intense haha. i learned my lesson the hard way!
Chatz, I am so happy for you..I have hope lol..its funny b/c I want to do the same with one Im dealing with that contacts me after bieng MIA for awhile(long distance), he sends me an IM today(which he had stopped doing once he got comf with me)anyways, he was being a flirt, say that when he comes back into town he will look me up so we can hook up..i told him he hadnt bothered to come see visit me. well, i didnt express this, but i got pissed, if he thinks im gonna be a bootie call when he comes to my city..i dont know what he wants, they are so confusing. after disappearing, i think he is trying to test the waters, b/c he doesnt know where i stand. i do want to have the TALK, like u did to clear things up. dont know if it will work for me, but if he does want something he better shape up, if not he is OUT!! NO FWB, long distance for me.
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Jan 07, 2009Comments: 305 · Posts: 14219 · Topics: 239
"why do so many people on here have a problem with you or your 'drama'?"
this says nothing. people can be wrong. and we have different type of people on dxp. some are critical of the others.
Of course LK is consistent and dedicates time to discusses her point with you (Mars, Venus and Mercury in Virgo). But you did the same. If it was out of proportion, then it was for both of you.
I actually have the same concerns about your situation as furryLeo and P-Angle have.
But we are nobody. You will check why you actually started these questions about his behaviour, why you every now and then seperate, why you dated somebody else, things like that.