Thank you P-Angel, I understand how you would see that. I have been a all or nothing type female in the past. I realize that he may have assumed that things would not happen the way they did as fast as they did. I actually love this man. The past males, it has been a deep like or want.
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Nov 21, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 3537 · Topics: 116
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When I go out with my older sister (Taurus)49, she gets on my fucking nerves, she like to sit and look like she is miss diva, like she has all this class, she don't dance, and if she do it is one or two songs, and the rest of the time she is just sitting at the table drinking and talking and soaking up other peoples business, only to turn around the next day and tell it to her other friends. To me she is fake. And I tell her all the time she is an undercover freak, she make people think that she is so bushie, when she is not.
Know me(47) when I go out she tells me all the time "don't cut up" I pays no attention to her because I am going to be me. I dance, get drunk, flirt anything I feel like I want to do. She get's so furious with me, when I go out and party with her. Because that is what I am doing partying!!. She says to me "why you dancing like that" and I tell her to get a grip, she grits on me, and just try and talk down to me because I don't do or act the way she wants me to. My thing is if you say let's party then let's party!!!!.
But at the same time, her friends, always ask her if I am going to be coming to the funtion, because, I get the party going.
So my suggestion to you is, either you go with him and let your hair down some, not all because I don't think you taurus have it in you. No pun intended put taurus, women to me are to stuck up and to bushie always focusing on appearance when out than having a good time.
My sister gets mad at me everytime, but you know, I tell her all the time. "I am not you, and you need to learn to except me for who I am"
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
Its not for everyone. Contrary to what this board may tell you there are aquas in good and loving relationships.
We actively seek the person with the most patience, b/c thats what it all comes down to. SF is right the emotions take sometime to come together, etc...but if its there... its there. You'll know it. SO if you just give up on us we'll chalk it up to once again we're misunderstood and we'll move on and continue to be single or confuse the hell out of someone else until it works. Someone comes along and takes the time to cultivate a good relationship with TIME and effort. Thats why we do the friends first. When your just a friend your taking the TIME to cultivate a deep bond, but once the word relationship is slapped on their everyone (our S.O.) gets jittery, b/c it may not seem like what a relationship should be or what jenny down the blocks relationship looks like from the outside looking in. Expectations..those darn expectations.
Like furry says, her guy just met the right one for him. He probably improved his ways as well after being with her, but the new girl just works.
I am with thelibran on this one. Extended experience with cappy. Married to one for 7 years. My now libra boyfriend married to a cappy for 15 years. Naw my cappy ex in relationship with a libra. How screwed up is that? Some people are simply born to hurt!
Libra and Cappy? A big NONO! And only time will tell. So dare to contradict only if you have a long success story.
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
We must remember that jen's relationship is NOT bad, but I guess its not all that she wants and expects.