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Mar 24, 2006Comments: 163 · Posts: 6615 · Topics: 326
You Are A Social Butterfly
You truly love all of your friends.
And your motto is "the more, the merrier"!
Making sure everyone's included is your mission. You love getting to know your friends' friends.
You always prefer a group of ten to a group of two. You think large groups have the best dynamic.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
"Perhaps he was not as committed as I was and I somewhere along the course I could not notice his game playing."
What the hell?
Just because an experience is over, doesn't mean he was playing games with you ... for 3 years, you felt special, you felt important.
You know, nothing is suppose to be forever ... life is about experiencing, enjoying and living to the fullest .. and then the experience is over.
We're suppose to have these so we have fond memories when we look back to see how we paved our road of life.
If you view every relationship as if it's suppose to be forever, in which it cannot be, and so this makes you wallow in this kind of gloom .. then this is all you will be able to see when you look back on your life.
Alls you will ever see is pain.
Why not walk away from this with your head held high, and your heart filled with happy memories of what you two shared?
Wouldn't that make your life worth more to live for?
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Feb 22, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2787 · Topics: 83
I'm a little late, but I've tried the Christian thing, the Atheist thing, and the Agnostic thing, and I find that on average, it's all the same shit from day to day. Therefore religion, and anything other than living day to day and dealing with stuff how it comes, is utterly useless to me.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
Things end .... all things end, even the very breath we take.
Relationships with one person aren't suppose to be life-long ... this is why we see so many people in this same kind of distress you are in right now .... because instead of enjoying their moments, they are instead worried to death about counting time.
For 3 years, he made you feel wonderful ... isn't that something worth remembering, rather than this misery you are in now because you counted time rather than embracing moments?
And in reality ..... it's all speculation. Look how you've let yourself get right now .. completely emotionally out of control .. and without any proof of truth .. at all.
Think about that .... would a man really want a woman who is so insecure that she would allow herself to freak out over what could be nothing?
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Feb 22, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2787 · Topics: 83
I think I'll continue being Agnostic though. There's nothing like being free from dogmas, ya know?
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Feb 22, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2787 · Topics: 83
21. You're too focused on the booze (or unfocused) to do any of the previous 20.
Over the years i've met so many Scorpions, Crabs and Fishes that fall so short of their (alleged) positive traits that i can't help but wonder if the 'power' of water signs in general is exaggerated.
...and that's coming from a Pisces.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
I agree, lk ... and it's very frustrating when women get theirselves all bent out of shape emotionally like this when it was only an imagining, a want ... without actually doing anything to get, and just hoping that it will all catch up one day. Because inevitably, we see exactly what we see here .. a broken heart because it jsut doesnt' work that way. A woman cannot trust in hopes that another's heart will catch up ....... two hearts are either one, or they are not ... they cannot be one in fantasy, and this be a foundation for a woman's heart to feel safe.
This always is so messed up.
They were friends, and the only thing to do now to make the past 3 years worth it ... is to change perspective.
Certainly, there was something in this experience worth honoring, worth remembering, worth loving ....... and then grow.
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Jan 22, 2009Comments: 0 · Posts: 1685 · Topics: 53
Some are trouble makers on here.