Scorpio guy got problems with jealous Scorpio girl
It is, especially if you aren't doing anything wrong..
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good question libra! anyone else??
I could see that LK, and that it would be beneficial to her .. however, that isn't how this suggestion came across.
It was presented with a begrudging against him attitude to suggest it be done to secure some kind of punishing him for it because he did this.
Intentions .. that's what makes karma.
If she did tell her, and it came from a place of punishing him .. then this telling to her would come out as trying to gain some kind of vindication.
Of course, it was BA who suggested it .. and she is one who thinks the mother of her SugarDaddy's children is useless and is besides herself that this woman still has a relationship (shared parenting) with her man who likes to fantasize about fucking a child when she rides him.
So, with a person like that .. it really isnt' surprising that BA would counsel this woman on telling the other lady out of spite.
It was presented with a begrudging against him attitude to suggest it be done to secure some kind of punishing him for it because he did this.
Intentions .. that's what makes karma.
If she did tell her, and it came from a place of punishing him .. then this telling to her would come out as trying to gain some kind of vindication.
Of course, it was BA who suggested it .. and she is one who thinks the mother of her SugarDaddy's children is useless and is besides herself that this woman still has a relationship (shared parenting) with her man who likes to fantasize about fucking a child when she rides him.
So, with a person like that .. it really isnt' surprising that BA would counsel this woman on telling the other lady out of spite.
The Virgo and I have been broken up for 11 days now. We have been strictly No Contact so far, but have recently run into each other a couple of times. He will not make eye contact with me, and when I get nervous around him, I find it easiest to pretend that he isn't there. Our communication was not very strong when in the relationship. Now a Scorpio is rapidly moving in on him (even in front of me!) while simultaneously asking me to hang out with her. It has gotten to the point where our social spheres have been upset by him hanging out with her. If I don't address the issue(s) with him, I have a feeling that we will lose each other forever, so I have decided to talk to him tomorrow to get some closure and clear things up. I think that my No Contact policy with him made him believe that I am not and will not be interested in a friendship (or more) with him in the future, which I still consider a possibility (although one that is quickly fading if this Scorpio sticks around).
What is the best way for me to relate to him? I am concerned that he made assumptions about what I wanted out of our relationship when he returned to the States, and that these assumptions were much less flexible than the reality of what I considered our situation to be. I would like to clear up what my intentions were prior to the termination of our relationship, discuss what is going on between us now-- healing and hopefully no longer being awkward in social situations-- and find a way to leave the future open. How do I approach the subject of the Scorpio without seeming threatened or jealous?
What is the best way for me to relate to him? I am concerned that he made assumptions about what I wanted out of our relationship when he returned to the States, and that these assumptions were much less flexible than the reality of what I considered our situation to be. I would like to clear up what my intentions were prior to the termination of our relationship, discuss what is going on between us now-- healing and hopefully no longer being awkward in social situations-- and find a way to leave the future open. How do I approach the subject of the Scorpio without seeming threatened or jealous?
LMAO treetrunking? never heard no shyt like that...had to yahoo that one, but u dead on with that
Well I must say that I'm a Sag and I will NEVER date or be in a relationship with a Sag again...NEVER!!!!!!!!!
oh iight, good looking out. the point was made though
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I pray you end up like your deranged dead mother, only a nutjob could produce a piece of trash like you.
uhm yeah that statement wasn't called for....
uhm yeah that statement wasn't called for....
Yeah, most sag men are fucking crazy. I dated one and my twin brother is one. They cheat like their is no tomorrow and are too free to understand that people love them.
Saggirl, is this that same cancer guy from before? Maybe if you already cut off contact with him you should delete him from your friends so he doesn't see what your doing if you think it effects him that much. That way he can move on.
Saggirl, is this that same cancer guy from before? Maybe if you already cut off contact with him you should delete him from your friends so he doesn't see what your doing if you think it effects him that much. That way he can move on.
The first thing you need to do before talking to him is to actually change your perspective to incorporate the truth.
In reading the above, the impression is left in my mind that you DO feel threatened by the Scorpio ..
"my No Contact policy with him made him believe that I am not and will not be interested in a friendship (or more) with him in the future, which I still consider a possibility (although one that is quickly fading if this Scorpio sticks around)."
His feelings for you changed, cancer chic, whether it was somethign that happened in England, or something that happened during the holidays when you were visiting his family, or something that happened before he left for the UK .. who knows .. but, what is known is that he told you unequivocally that he no longer has these feelings for you.
And I'm sorry .. I know that hurts .. but, it is also life.
People change.
So, though, I understand your need to talk to him for closure .. at the same time, you cannnot speak to him about wanting closure if what you are wanting is for the relationship to go back to what it was, because then this talk is actually a set-up, a trap you lay for yourself, so that when he doesn't speak of wanting to be with you again ... your feelings are going to get hurt.
Because you don't want to hear that he isn't feeling you any longer .. you want to hear that he is.
And you do feel threatened by the Scorpio woman, or you wouldn't have said what you did in the quote above about if she wasn't in the picture.
You asked ..... How do I approach the subject of the Scorpio without seeming threatened or jealous?
And it isn't your place to ask about the Scorpio, he broke up with you, he told you that he isn't into you in that loving way anylonger .. so, it's not your business what he does in his private life.
If you don't like the Scorpio woman wanting to talk to you about him, then you should remove yourself from her presence in private settings so she can't ask you.
But, you can't talk to him about her ... and if you do, you can't do it without sounding jealous or threatened .. because you are jealous and feel threatened.
I'm sorry that his feelings changed for you, and left you feeling so horrible ... but, you cannot chase a man whom doesn't want you, Cancer chic .... don't lower yourself to that desperation.
In reading the above, the impression is left in my mind that you DO feel threatened by the Scorpio ..
"my No Contact policy with him made him believe that I am not and will not be interested in a friendship (or more) with him in the future, which I still consider a possibility (although one that is quickly fading if this Scorpio sticks around)."
His feelings for you changed, cancer chic, whether it was somethign that happened in England, or something that happened during the holidays when you were visiting his family, or something that happened before he left for the UK .. who knows .. but, what is known is that he told you unequivocally that he no longer has these feelings for you.
And I'm sorry .. I know that hurts .. but, it is also life.
People change.
So, though, I understand your need to talk to him for closure .. at the same time, you cannnot speak to him about wanting closure if what you are wanting is for the relationship to go back to what it was, because then this talk is actually a set-up, a trap you lay for yourself, so that when he doesn't speak of wanting to be with you again ... your feelings are going to get hurt.
Because you don't want to hear that he isn't feeling you any longer .. you want to hear that he is.
And you do feel threatened by the Scorpio woman, or you wouldn't have said what you did in the quote above about if she wasn't in the picture.
You asked ..... How do I approach the subject of the Scorpio without seeming threatened or jealous?
And it isn't your place to ask about the Scorpio, he broke up with you, he told you that he isn't into you in that loving way anylonger .. so, it's not your business what he does in his private life.
If you don't like the Scorpio woman wanting to talk to you about him, then you should remove yourself from her presence in private settings so she can't ask you.
But, you can't talk to him about her ... and if you do, you can't do it without sounding jealous or threatened .. because you are jealous and feel threatened.
I'm sorry that his feelings changed for you, and left you feeling so horrible ... but, you cannot chase a man whom doesn't want you, Cancer chic .... don't lower yourself to that desperation.