Opinion dating someone with an almost identical personality to your own
with that being said, i generally feel that people who are looking for peace and happiness don’t wanna play sherlock holmes and spend a lifetime trying to “figure someone out” who is vastly different from them in terms of values, thought processes, behaviors etc
cuz…well…it’s tiring.
i mean it’s cool if you have the energy and time for that sorta stuff but…
i personally think it’s safer to find someone who is similar to you in all the important ways.
but if you’re like TOO similar, you’re gonna be bumping heads a lot too. so i would look for someone who is similar but not too similar.
it really just depends on what you’re looking for tho. you already said you’re not ready to go deep so it doesn’t really matter. date whoever you want.
cuz…well…it’s tiring.
i mean it’s cool if you have the energy and time for that sorta stuff but…
i personally think it’s safer to find someone who is similar to you in all the important ways.
but if you’re like TOO similar, you’re gonna be bumping heads a lot too. so i would look for someone who is similar but not too similar.
it really just depends on what you’re looking for tho. you already said you’re not ready to go deep so it doesn’t really matter. date whoever you want.
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Posted by Jumpin_JupiterNo one wants poop/pee water in the air which is why you're supposed to put the lid down b4 you flush.
When it really all balls down to laziness around the house it's only lazy when women don't put the toilet seat back up after every bathroom visits. Like I be wondering why is it so hard to just simply lift the seat back up for us men when we gotta pee. That really frustrates me. When it comes to that the award goes to women in that aspect.
Also, you have obviously never fallen inside the toilet bowl in the middle of the night when you're half asleep cause someone left the toilet seat up 😡
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I've met some married men who are far from lazy and I've the upmost respect for them, and they usually have very loving and successful relationships with happy women. Unfortunately, they are rare to come by. I do think women can be to blame a little bit for this though, they raise lazy boys by coddling them.
Posted by VenusStellium7I’d have to double check again. I know we have Venus sq Pluto.Posted by borednbeautiful
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Posted by slugIn actuality there really is a reason houses are not equip with two separate gender bathrooms. Because for one thing it requires tile walls to install urinals in men's bathrooms and a lot of houses don't have bathrooms with hard tile walls so we're stuck with nasty toilet commodes. And it takes lots of digging holes in the walls for the pipes and all too so if anybody has urinals in their home bathroom there's a good chance of having soaked up sheet walls and water running on the floor through the walls and burst later. So it takes a whole lot of pipe and tile work for that. But I just be saying that it would be a good idea to have a men's bathroom with urinals at home out of frustration. I know it's not really a good idea.Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by slugPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
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You'd hate me then, I put the lid down as well 😂 it's one of my pet peeves people not closing the toilet lid, it's called a lid for a reason. I don't wanna see the inside of the toilet bowl.
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