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Posted by meowbelleeJudging by that alone she makes a terrible wife and a terrible mother. Some people should just not have children.Posted by pooface222Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by pooface222Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by pooface222Posted by Dastard2020Posted by pooface222Posted by TotallyFakeName
😅 I kept thinking ppl were being a little harsh & immature calling her pooface but no that’s literally the name she chose 😭 smh
And you?
TotallyFakeName fir a Totally Fake Person with Nothing Useful to offer in this discussion!
So I'm smph at you!
Smph stands for Shaking My Pooey head!
Jeez! Pointless comment from a truly pointless person!
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There's nothing useful that will get through your dumb, thick skull anyway.
😂
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You should know - TotallyFakeBRAIN! 🤣🥰
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Hmmm What does he say is the reason for staying with her?
What is he afraid of?
Hi..
Thanks for your message 😊
He said last year "I'm a coward." This was in person after working out in the gym together.
So..
This year - also in person (but in bed), - I reminded him that he said that ("I'm a Coward"), so he replied.."Don't hold that against me please."
I replied "I'm not. But I am agreeing with you. Because you're still with Her."
I also told him I Love You. He said it back.
A few days later he calls me at 3am semi-drunk, crying, and telling me over and over "I Love You."
Bottom-Line...he's a coward. But in terms of what he's afraid of, I don't know. I have asked him. He said "You are more than I ever wished for."
I've read about this in relationship articles, apparently a man can be afraid of how much he wants a woman.
I'll try and find the article..
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A have a suspension you like this set up yourself or afraid of rocking the boat of what you do have with him yourself. Otherwise you would already know what he is afraid of about this.
The fact of the matter is, I'm a coward isn't a real answer.
What are the actual concerns for him with leaving his current "wife/life"?
Emphasize on wife/life part.
Because one of the core qualities of real partnerships( long term marriages & S/O) is the ability to discuss the uncomfortable stuff, real deep shit.
You really want movement on this, talk to him about what he is afraid of. Those infears and insecurities. All you got to do is listen and ask questions. To allow him to open up without risk of judgment on your part. Its about him not you.
Be prepared for things that might upset you, a lot of back and forth between you, her, and consequnces of leaving the marriage for himself.
Because this is about fear and risk on his part.
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Hi..😊
I know exactly what you mean. I totally understand the risks. You know why? I took those risks myself.
Fear & Risk.
And even if this Pisces guy never existed and I left my marriage to be on my own, I'd still be feeling depressed because Married or Divorced my (Aries), ex-husband is the same.
Do As I Say, Or Else.
I still feel like I'm married to him because I'm still having to give him what he wants, his way, or he threatens me with court!
Anyway..
We're (me and Pisces) starting to have deep conversations like we used to, but more about his insecurities and how he deals with them.
Yesterday when he called, he literally told me he using Ghosting. He also knows its wrong.
He said to me "its what I do. Its how I cope. And I know I shouldn't."
Its actually his ghosting - while I was still married - that caused a serious communication problem! I couldn't just go to his place and talk to him because he lives with his partner and I was married. So when he ghosted me, in the past it was horrible!
I'm aiming to take it further and let
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The real victims in this situation are the daughter and ex husband. Your earlier posts said that he caught u cheating on him w the Pisces in his house while he was away at work. You didn’t want to leave but had no choice but could have him back if just said something, your posts contradictoryclick to expand
Posted by meowbelleeI'm not playing armchair psychologist when I say this: she's giving covert narcissistic and histrionic vibes. Just the vibes. Not making a diagnosis.Posted by Dastard2020Posted by meowbelleePosted by pooface222Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by pooface222Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by pooface222Posted by Dastard2020Posted by pooface222Posted by TotallyFakeName
😅 I kept thinking ppl were being a little harsh & immature calling her pooface but no that’s literally the name she chose 😭 smh
And you?
TotallyFakeName fir a Totally Fake Person with Nothing Useful to offer in this discussion!
So I'm smph at you!
Smph stands for Shaking My Pooey head!
Jeez! Pointless comment from a truly pointless person!
click to expand
There's nothing useful that will get through your dumb, thick skull anyway.
😂
click to expand
You should know - TotallyFakeBRAIN! 🤣🥰
click to expand
Hmmm What does he say is the reason for staying with her?
What is he afraid of?
Hi..
Thanks for your message 😊
He said last year "I'm a coward." This was in person after working out in the gym together.
So..
This year - also in person (but in bed), - I reminded him that he said that ("I'm a Coward"), so he replied.."Don't hold that against me please."
I replied "I'm not. But I am agreeing with you. Because you're still with Her."
I also told him I Love You. He said it back.
A few days later he calls me at 3am semi-drunk, crying, and telling me over and over "I Love You."
Bottom-Line...he's a coward. But in terms of what he's afraid of, I don't know. I have asked him. He said "You are more than I ever wished for."
I've read about this in relationship articles, apparently a man can be afraid of how much he wants a woman.
I'll try and find the article..
click to expand
A have a suspension you like this set up yourself or afraid of rocking the boat of what you do have with him yourself. Otherwise you would already know what he is afraid of about this.
The fact of the matter is, I'm a coward isn't a real answer.
What are the actual concerns for him with leaving his current "wife/life"?
Emphasize on wife/life part.
Because one of the core qualities of real partnerships( long term marriages & S/O) is the ability to discuss the uncomfortable stuff, real deep shit.
You really want movement on this, talk to him about what he is afraid of. Those infears and insecurities. All you got to do is listen and ask questions. To allow him to open up without risk of judgment on your part. Its about him not you.
Be prepared for things that might upset you, a lot of back and forth between you, her, and consequnces of leaving the marriage for himself.
Because this is about fear and risk on his part.
click to expand
Hi..😊
I know exactly what you mean. I totally understand the risks. You know why? I took those risks myself.
Fear & Risk.
And even if this Pisces guy never existed and I left my marriage to be on my own, I'd still be feeling depressed because Married or Divorced my (Aries), ex-husband is the same.
Do As I Say, Or Else.
I still feel like I'm married to him because I'm still having to give him what he wants, his way, or he threatens me with court!
Anyway..
We're (me and Pisces) starting to have deep conversations like we used to, but more about his insecurities and how he deals with them.
Yesterday when he called, he literally told me he using Ghosting. He also knows its wrong.
He said to me "its what I do. Its how I cope. And I know I shouldn't."
Its actually his ghosting - while I was still married - that caused a serious communication problem! I couldn't just go to his place and talk to him because he lives with his partner and I was married. So when he ghosted me, in the past it was horrible!
I'm aiming to take it further and let
click to expand
The real victims in this situation are the daughter and ex husband. Your earlier posts said that he caught u cheating on him w the Pisces in his house while he was away at work. You didn’t want to leave but had no choice but could have him back if just said something, your posts contradictory
Judging by that alone she makes a terrible wife and a terrible mother. Some people should just not have children.
She's an embarrassment to her daughter.
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She keeps playing victim and shows 0 accountability 💀that’s the real problem, and then says how her life is sad and people be mistreating her. It’s always some else’s faultclick to expand
Posted by Dastard2020Funny coming from the person who secretly saved my pics and posts for over a decade. You are such a fucking hypocrite and lier isn't not even funny. Even though it is LMAO! The fact you know you suck and are a terrible person, but refuse to admit it makes it even better imo. 🤣Posted by meowbelleePosted by Dastard2020Posted by meowbelleePosted by pooface222Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by pooface222Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by pooface222Posted by Dastard2020Posted by pooface222Posted by TotallyFakeName
😅 I kept thinking ppl were being a little harsh & immature calling her pooface but no that’s literally the name she chose 😭 smh
And you?
TotallyFakeName fir a Totally Fake Person with Nothing Useful to offer in this discussion!
So I'm smph at you!
Smph stands for Shaking My Pooey head!
Jeez! Pointless comment from a truly pointless person!
click to expand
There's nothing useful that will get through your dumb, thick skull anyway.
😂
click to expand
You should know - TotallyFakeBRAIN! 🤣🥰
click to expand
Hmmm What does he say is the reason for staying with her?
What is he afraid of?
Hi..
Thanks for your message 😊
He said last year "I'm a coward." This was in person after working out in the gym together.
So..
This year - also in person (but in bed), - I reminded him that he said that ("I'm a Coward"), so he replied.."Don't hold that against me please."
I replied "I'm not. But I am agreeing with you. Because you're still with Her."
I also told him I Love You. He said it back.
A few days later he calls me at 3am semi-drunk, crying, and telling me over and over "I Love You."
Bottom-Line...he's a coward. But in terms of what he's afraid of, I don't know. I have asked him. He said "You are more than I ever wished for."
I've read about this in relationship articles, apparently a man can be afraid of how much he wants a woman.
I'll try and find the article..
click to expand
A have a suspension you like this set up yourself or afraid of rocking the boat of what you do have with him yourself. Otherwise you would already know what he is afraid of about this.
The fact of the matter is, I'm a coward isn't a real answer.
What are the actual concerns for him with leaving his current "wife/life"?
Emphasize on wife/life part.
Because one of the core qualities of real partnerships( long term marriages & S/O) is the ability to discuss the uncomfortable stuff, real deep shit.
You really want movement on this, talk to him about what he is afraid of. Those infears and insecurities. All you got to do is listen and ask questions. To allow him to open up without risk of judgment on your part. Its about him not you.
Be prepared for things that might upset you, a lot of back and forth between you, her, and consequnces of leaving the marriage for himself.
Because this is about fear and risk on his part.
click to expand
Hi..😊
I know exactly what you mean. I totally understand the risks. You know why? I took those risks myself.
Fear & Risk.
And even if this Pisces guy never existed and I left my marriage to be on my own, I'd still be feeling depressed because Married or Divorced my (Aries), ex-husband is the same.
Do As I Say, Or Else.
I still feel like I'm married to him because I'm still having to give him what he wants, his way, or he threatens me with court!
Anyway..
We're (me and Pisces) starting to have deep conversations like we used to, but more about his insecurities and how he deals with them.
Yesterday when he called, he literally told me he using Ghosting. He also knows its wrong.
He said to me "its what I do. Its how I cope. And I know I shouldn't."
Its actually his ghosting - while I was still married - that caused a serious communication problem! I couldn't just go to his place and talk to him because he lives with his partner and I was married. So when he ghosted me, in the past it was horrible!
I'm aiming to take it further and let
click to expand
The real victims in this situation are the daughter and ex husband. Your earlier posts said that he caught u cheating on him w the Pisces in his house while he was away at work. You didn’t want to leave but had no choice but could have him back if just said something, your posts contradictory
Judging by that alone she makes a terrible wife and a terrible mother. Some people should just not have children.
She's an embarrassment to her daughter.
click to expand
She keeps playing victim and shows 0 accountability 💀that’s the real problem, and then says how her life is sad and people be mistreating her. It’s always some else’s fault
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I'm not playing armchair psychologist when I say this: she's giving covert narcissistic and histrionic vibes. Just the vibes. Not making a diagnosis.click to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by SassyKiwi
I used to be interested in researching marriage indicators and stuff but it all ultimately ends up being some kind of confirmation bias at the end.
I have an empty 7th house (House of Partnerships, marriage house) which just means it’s pretty neutral in being focused in my life. My 7th house is in Gemini. The ruler of Gemini is mercury which is in my 3rd house (House of Communication, rules short distances/immediate environment). So the ruler of my 7th house is in my 3rd house. I ended up marrying someone who had always lived less than 25 mins away from me. I honestly thought I’d never end up with someone locally. Check out which house your 7th house ruler is in!
Oh, wow, this sounds super interesting!
I’ll have to re-read this a couple of times in order to understand though. I am blonde 🤦♀️ 😅
I will have to figure it out and let you know. Thanks.
I think it sounds cool and there could be something to it 🤗
Btw, a woman I follow on Twitter has posted a retweet of her status from 2022. She said in January 2022: I just met my future husband. Watch me retweet this when he proposes!
And I guess he proposed today. Power of manifestation, premonition, intuition, law of attraction or what? ✨ 😀click to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulThe ruler of your 7th house (House of Partnerships, marriage house) in your 2nd house (House of Possessions, money)… a rich husband could be on the horizon! 😄Posted by SassyKiwi
I used to be interested in researching marriage indicators and stuff but it all ultimately ends up being some kind of confirmation bias at the end.
I have an empty 7th house (House of Partnerships, marriage house) which just means it’s pretty neutral in being focused in my life. My 7th house is in Gemini. The ruler of Gemini is mercury which is in my 3rd house (House of Communication, rules short distances/immediate environment). So the ruler of my 7th house is in my 3rd house. I ended up marrying someone who had always lived less than 25 mins away from me. I honestly thought I’d never end up with someone locally. Check out which house your 7th house ruler is in!
Sagittarius is in my 7th house. Ruler of Sagittarius is Jupiter.
Jupiter is in my 2nd house. What could all this possibly mean for me/my soulmate?click to expand
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