Okay in my defense, now that some time as gone by and I;ve given it some thought my behavior was totally iritic and impulsive yes. I should of known better to go to his house knowing there was a child there but I was driven by emotion and not logic. In reality what I was trying to prove to this individual is that I was serious about him and taking things further. I was trying to calm his fear of falling in love etc. I assumed with our in depth conversations we had that if he would of felt that I was unsafe for his child/children to be around that he would of stopped things from progressing. I also thought since he mentioned multiple times about stopping by my house sporadically that he wouldn't of mind. I also never asked or mention to meet his child.
In all honesty I've had my time wasted by so many men who just wanted a chat buddy and not make things real I was worried that this was happening again. He would confuse me by telling me how he wanted to see me all the time and wished I was closer so he could see me how he missed me etc, how he should just stop by unannounced how I was perfect for him but when ever I would ask when we would see each other again his replies where always ?I dunno?. I was afraid that since 4 weeks went by that if we didn't see each other I would have been out of sight out of mind so to speak.
I'm not desperate just don't want my times wasted. My time is very valuable meaning I am also a single parent I work two full time jobs I just was trying to weed the garden so to speak. Didn't want to be only his emotional life line, I want something real.
Well its Thursday and still nothing from him, lol guess I scared Mr Virgo away
On Sunday when I left his place I did call him to apologize if my behavior freaked him out and things seemed normal, he didn't seem upset or anything like that. Now you guys got me contemplating if I should call again to give a more thorough explanation of my behavior. Or would that be pressuring him?
As a 40 year old horny female, I've found only younger guys can keep up with me, so I choose younger guys to date. I have been with a 30 year old for almost a year now and the sex is awesome. So, I will definitely stick with younger men.
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Dec 08, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 2929 · Topics: 207
well this is not 4 me its 4 sum 1 else a girl who was dating a scorpio. but he went to the millatary and she doesnt want to do the long dis thing. any ways he has sun scorp,moon cap,,merc scorp, venus scorp, mars libra.. and she is a virgo
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Dec 08, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 2929 · Topics: 207
well they were about to marry i forgot to tell that part but she did do what u said now he is back still trying to get back at her... u think she should tell him again.
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Sep 18, 2008Comments: 1 · Posts: 4899 · Topics: 99
I'm still shaking. SHEEET.
Why thank you sagittarius89 =)
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Nov 30, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 3480 · Topics: 90
yeah Id disappear for a while and make him wonder here YOU got to...if he's so inclined