I slept with one of my best friends who is a male Sag a few months back.I mostly did it because well he is super hot ,and also I was going through this gnarly breakup with this guy I had been dating and I needed a little you know affection .I felt like I could trust my Sag friend since we had been so close for so long I thought we'd bounce back from it.
the next morning he was sorta holding my hand and being a little too ...i don't know what the word for it was ...a little too nice?a little too more than friendish? So for the sake of our friendship preservation I kicked him out.I said it nicely like,"ok I think its time for you to go, I have a lot of things to do today."
After that my friend got a little odd around me.We would go out to hang out per usual,but I felt like he was making an extra special effort to talk about how hot girls were, and even make out with people in front of me.I wasn't jealous ,but I did think it was odd behavior. One night I passed out at his house and I woke up to him caressing my backside while I slept.I caught him and he tried to pretend he was sleeping.WTF.oh i should backup before we fell asleep he brought up the fact I kicked him out the day after we slept together and he expressed it bothered him.
anyways.
shortly after this all he started hanging out with the last guy I dated a lot ,and not hanging out with me .i wouldnt think it was that odd since they are old friends,except for a little before i slept with the Sag he expressed he had "hated(dudes name) and had for a year".
oh new years he brought my ex to the same party as I was at and proceeded to flirt with me in front of the guy ,and kept asking me why I didnt call him anymore.
WTF?
but then that night he went and slept with this other girl I know. and i hear he has been on a sex spree in general as of late.
then yesterday in the morning he accuses me out of nowhere of trying to make him look lame by posting some picture of him on Facebook or some crap that wasn't even making him look lame , and when i proceeded to get pissed at him for stirring up shit when there was no issue he said he was,"just joking and that he liked the picture". but at that point i was just annoyed bc of all the weird tension between us for a while now and i told him he angered me.then he told me i was blowing stuff out of proportion and "peace".but then 15 minutes later he texted me to be "seriously i was just kidding about being mad".
i don't know if i hate
(cont) or both or what, one thing I know is I am confused by him. I have never dated or hooked up with a Sag ever,does anyone have any perspective on this? I understand maybe i was dumb to sleep with a friend in the first place because it probably placed a weird energy there that didn't need to,but I really almost feel like the sag is trying to punish me for something.
any feedback is appreciated!
Yeah I don't think he liked his family getting in this middle.
Well 2 days later I saw him around, I was talking to someone else, he was just passing by, smiling at staring at me. He actually passed by almost brushing me, his body was leaning towards me.
If he also wasn't having feelings, why else would he talk about us dating and being in a relationship? And when we depart to say goodbye, he would always go for kiss on lips, or just want to make out. The very first time when he went for kiss, I was hesitant b/c I thought of us only as friends, but I went along anyway, and yes it felt good.
These behavior puzzles me.
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haha, thats not true. well, for me at least.
shyaries, dont stress it...i really doubt that girl took it seriously.
blah blah refer to my original post.
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yes i am. virgo girls are the most screwed up group of females you can ever find. Even cappy gals got some standard. Aries male kids are the most annoying, selfish and stubborn of all till they reach their late teens.
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