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@Solo
Ok so lets talk about policy, I live in California at least for the next 4 months.
Currently in public school, there are laws that prohibit educators from notifying parents if your kid changes their name or pronouns.
All of the High schools in the town that I live have a healthcare clinic inside of the high school, they sign all these kids up for Medical-Cal and now they have free healthcare down the hall from Algebra. and these kids can get any medical care without the knowledge or permission of their parents paid for by the state. Including Hormonal Birth Control, more awesome laws.
You see where this is going? I see where this had good intentions to solve problems, but you are creating more problems. And I just don't think that what the government should be for.

Currently in public school, there are laws that prohibit educators from notifying parents if your kid changes their name or pronouns. ----- yeah this is something that I'm unsure about. To "turn kids in" could hurt them if their parents are those kinds, but also maybe it could cause undue influence to "try it out" tho I'm not really sure, just a personal thought. Ultimately I think it's on the parents to be on top of their childs health though and should know about that kinda stuff going on before school would ever be aware.
All of the High schools in the town that I live have a healthcare clinic inside of the high school, they sign all these kids up for Medical-Cal and now they have free healthcare down the hall from Algebra. and these kids can get any medical care without the knowledge or permission of their parents paid for by the state. Including Hormonal Birth Control, more awesome laws. ----- idk about a school but this doesn't sound bad to me? What is any medical care, ANY ANY? I don't see contraceptives being provided to a teenager that wants them as a bad thing. And kids are a wide range and we know how much they differ year to year.
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If the government gives my kid prescription drugs without my knowledge or approval, I'll be the first one to support the civil war.
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Can you cite me this? The only thing that I've found is on College Campuses.
But also, I'll just add in that if it was public schools, you say you'd start a civil war over that - lets keep it in the context of contraception since that's where it seems to be - So you'd rather your kid get pregnant or knock someone up? You can say "my kid won't do that" but we know kids are kids. You'd rather your kid have unsafe sex than safe? Kids have sex at school and shit, you're not gonna be around all the time.
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Well, with the prevalence of super resistant STDs floating around and some very interesting increases of HIV 1/2, the folks protesting having open access to clinics/resources (in schools or otherwise) are going to be very upset and SOL when their child's reproductive organs rot away.
As a former high school teacher - I saw and heard some very interesting things going on when the students didn't think I was paying attention. Kids are NOT angels anymore, and if you think yours are: you're in for a shock. There's a reason schools have metal detectors and video cameras EVERYWHERE except the restrooms - and even that could change soon, and probably should.
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Yeeeeerrrrp or they'll blame their kids for sinning and tell them that it's a consequence from God. People were fingering/sucking/fucking under the stairwells at my high school. A lotta kids I knew had already had sex in MIDDLE SCHOOL. And I went to a good school! Like there were no daily fights or anything like that. Stuff popped off but it generally wasn't often. People were more likely to come in drunk and off drugs and fuck than fight.

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@Solo
Ok so lets talk about policy, I live in California at least for the next 4 months.
Currently in public school, there are laws that prohibit educators from notifying parents if your kid changes their name or pronouns.
All of the High schools in the town that I live have a healthcare clinic inside of the high school, they sign all these kids up for Medical-Cal and now they have free healthcare down the hall from Algebra. and these kids can get any medical care without the knowledge or permission of their parents paid for by the state. Including Hormonal Birth Control, more awesome laws.
You see where this is going? I see where this had good intentions to solve problems, but you are creating more problems. And I just don't think that what the government should be for.

Currently in public school, there are laws that prohibit educators from notifying parents if your kid changes their name or pronouns. ----- yeah this is something that I'm unsure about. To "turn kids in" could hurt them if their parents are those kinds, but also maybe it could cause undue influence to "try it out" tho I'm not really sure, just a personal thought. Ultimately I think it's on the parents to be on top of their childs health though and should know about that kinda stuff going on before school would ever be aware.
All of the High schools in the town that I live have a healthcare clinic inside of the high school, they sign all these kids up for Medical-Cal and now they have free healthcare down the hall from Algebra. and these kids can get any medical care without the knowledge or permission of their parents paid for by the state. Including Hormonal Birth Control, more awesome laws. ----- idk about a school but this doesn't sound bad to me? What is any medical care, ANY ANY? I don't see contraceptives being provided to a teenager that wants them as a bad thing. And kids are a wide range and we know how much they differ year to year.
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If the government gives my kid prescription drugs without my knowledge or approval, I'll be the first one to support the civil war.
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Can you cite me this? The only thing that I've found is on College Campuses.
But also, I'll just add in that if it was public schools, you say you'd start a civil war over that - lets keep it in the context of contraception since that's where it seems to be - So you'd rather your kid get pregnant or knock someone up? You can say "my kid won't do that" but we know kids are kids. You'd rather your kid have unsafe sex than safe? Kids have sex at school and shit, you're not gonna be around all the time.

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@Solo
Ok so lets talk about policy, I live in California at least for the next 4 months.
Currently in public school, there are laws that prohibit educators from notifying parents if your kid changes their name or pronouns.
All of the High schools in the town that I live have a healthcare clinic inside of the high school, they sign all these kids up for Medical-Cal and now they have free healthcare down the hall from Algebra. and these kids can get any medical care without the knowledge or permission of their parents paid for by the state. Including Hormonal Birth Control, more awesome laws.
You see where this is going? I see where this had good intentions to solve problems, but you are creating more problems. And I just don't think that what the government should be for.

Currently in public school, there are laws that prohibit educators from notifying parents if your kid changes their name or pronouns. ----- yeah this is something that I'm unsure about. To "turn kids in" could hurt them if their parents are those kinds, but also maybe it could cause undue influence to "try it out" tho I'm not really sure, just a personal thought. Ultimately I think it's on the parents to be on top of their childs health though and should know about that kinda stuff going on before school would ever be aware.
All of the High schools in the town that I live have a healthcare clinic inside of the high school, they sign all these kids up for Medical-Cal and now they have free healthcare down the hall from Algebra. and these kids can get any medical care without the knowledge or permission of their parents paid for by the state. Including Hormonal Birth Control, more awesome laws. ----- idk about a school but this doesn't sound bad to me? What is any medical care, ANY ANY? I don't see contraceptives being provided to a teenager that wants them as a bad thing. And kids are a wide range and we know how much they differ year to year.
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If the government gives my kid prescription drugs without my knowledge or approval, I'll be the first one to support the civil war.
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Can you cite me this? The only thing that I've found is on College Campuses.
But also, I'll just add in that if it was public schools, you say you'd start a civil war over that - lets keep it in the context of contraception since that's where it seems to be - So you'd rather your kid get pregnant or knock someone up? You can say "my kid won't do that" but we know kids are kids. You'd rather your kid have unsafe sex than safe? Kids have sex at school and shit, you're not gonna be around all the time.
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Here is a list of all the schools with clinics
https://www.schoolhealthcenters.org/school-based-health/sbhcs-by-county/
They call them wellness centers but these are full on clinics run by companies that have many other locations open to the public. The ones in our city are listed as Non-Profit organization, I don't understand that.. nor do i believe that there isn't a financial motivation to these entities. Most of the care given is subsidized by the state, as I understand.
I'm not exactly sure how it works, my kid is 7, every year when I register her for public school, there is a question to opt into free health insurance, and its worded like "if your child need medical care, do we have your permission to use this free health insurance to get your child the help that they need."
So I think once you check that box and sign the registration form, they are good to go to clinic at no cost and if they are over the age of 12 they can do so without your consent.
and I just pulled this off of google regarding CA laws...
Minor consent laws
Minors aged 12 and over can consent to some services without parent or guardian involvement, including sexual and reproductive health, mental health, and drug and alcohol treatment.

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@Solo
Ok so lets talk about policy, I live in California at least for the next 4 months.
Currently in public school, there are laws that prohibit educators from notifying parents if your kid changes their name or pronouns.
All of the High schools in the town that I live have a healthcare clinic inside of the high school, they sign all these kids up for Medical-Cal and now they have free healthcare down the hall from Algebra. and these kids can get any medical care without the knowledge or permission of their parents paid for by the state. Including Hormonal Birth Control, more awesome laws.
You see where this is going? I see where this had good intentions to solve problems, but you are creating more problems. And I just don't think that what the government should be for.

Currently in public school, there are laws that prohibit educators from notifying parents if your kid changes their name or pronouns. ----- yeah this is something that I'm unsure about. To "turn kids in" could hurt them if their parents are those kinds, but also maybe it could cause undue influence to "try it out" tho I'm not really sure, just a personal thought. Ultimately I think it's on the parents to be on top of their childs health though and should know about that kinda stuff going on before school would ever be aware.
All of the High schools in the town that I live have a healthcare clinic inside of the high school, they sign all these kids up for Medical-Cal and now they have free healthcare down the hall from Algebra. and these kids can get any medical care without the knowledge or permission of their parents paid for by the state. Including Hormonal Birth Control, more awesome laws. ----- idk about a school but this doesn't sound bad to me? What is any medical care, ANY ANY? I don't see contraceptives being provided to a teenager that wants them as a bad thing. And kids are a wide range and we know how much they differ year to year.
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If the government gives my kid prescription drugs without my knowledge or approval, I'll be the first one to support the civil war.
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Can you cite me this? The only thing that I've found is on College Campuses.
But also, I'll just add in that if it was public schools, you say you'd start a civil war over that - lets keep it in the context of contraception since that's where it seems to be - So you'd rather your kid get pregnant or knock someone up? You can say "my kid won't do that" but we know kids are kids. You'd rather your kid have unsafe sex than safe? Kids have sex at school and shit, you're not gonna be around all the time.
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Well, with the prevalence of super resistant STDs floating around and some very interesting increases of HIV 1/2, the folks protesting having open access to clinics/resources (in schools or otherwise) are going to be very upset and SOL when their child's reproductive organs rot away.
As a former high school teacher - I saw and heard some very interesting things going on when the students didn't think I was paying attention. Kids are NOT angels anymore, and if you think yours are: you're in for a shock. There's a reason schools have metal detectors and video cameras EVERYWHERE except the restrooms - and even that could change soon, and probably should.

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Hopefully you won't befriend anyone like that ever again.
We all go through shit, some of us learn, some don't. Take it as a hard lesson and look for better.
I do notice virgo energy (like yours) likes to sacrifice a lot, even when it's not needed. My girl has Virgo Venus and Pisces moon. She used to sacrifice for the shadiest people. It took me a couple of years of telling her it was wrong until she finally understood.
I even used to be like that to some extent. But now I just see things as a waste of time and cut them out right away.

For sure, I'm definitely getting better. My problem is I need someone to bounce things off, I need someone who has my back 100% that I can be like "hey is this right or wrong?", I'm getting better at making those decisions myself but because I'm so self analytical, I'm constantly making sure I'm doing the "right" thing by other people to the point where I'm kinda not having my own back, I'm working against myself. That's 100% Virgo moon energy 😂
See now your girlfriend has you to bounce shit off and to tell her what's right and wrong, so she can kind of relax with it. When you're on your own you only have yourself to bounce shit off, and if she's like me I'll devil's advocate on myself until I'm exhausted 😂 and I get nowhere.

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@Solo
Ok so lets talk about policy, I live in California at least for the next 4 months.
Currently in public school, there are laws that prohibit educators from notifying parents if your kid changes their name or pronouns.
All of the High schools in the town that I live have a healthcare clinic inside of the high school, they sign all these kids up for Medical-Cal and now they have free healthcare down the hall from Algebra. and these kids can get any medical care without the knowledge or permission of their parents paid for by the state. Including Hormonal Birth Control, more awesome laws.
You see where this is going? I see where this had good intentions to solve problems, but you are creating more problems. And I just don't think that what the government should be for.

Currently in public school, there are laws that prohibit educators from notifying parents if your kid changes their name or pronouns. ----- yeah this is something that I'm unsure about. To "turn kids in" could hurt them if their parents are those kinds, but also maybe it could cause undue influence to "try it out" tho I'm not really sure, just a personal thought. Ultimately I think it's on the parents to be on top of their childs health though and should know about that kinda stuff going on before school would ever be aware.
All of the High schools in the town that I live have a healthcare clinic inside of the high school, they sign all these kids up for Medical-Cal and now they have free healthcare down the hall from Algebra. and these kids can get any medical care without the knowledge or permission of their parents paid for by the state. Including Hormonal Birth Control, more awesome laws. ----- idk about a school but this doesn't sound bad to me? What is any medical care, ANY ANY? I don't see contraceptives being provided to a teenager that wants them as a bad thing. And kids are a wide range and we know how much they differ year to year.
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If the government gives my kid prescription drugs without my knowledge or approval, I'll be the first one to support the civil war.
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Can you cite me this? The only thing that I've found is on College Campuses.
But also, I'll just add in that if it was public schools, you say you'd start a civil war over that - lets keep it in the context of contraception since that's where it seems to be - So you'd rather your kid get pregnant or knock someone up? You can say "my kid won't do that" but we know kids are kids. You'd rather your kid have unsafe sex than safe? Kids have sex at school and shit, you're not gonna be around all the time.
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Well, with the prevalence of super resistant STDs floating around and some very interesting increases of HIV 1/2, the folks protesting having open access to clinics/resources (in schools or otherwise) are going to be very upset and SOL when their child's reproductive organs rot away.
As a former high school teacher - I saw and heard some very interesting things going on when the students didn't think I was paying attention. Kids are NOT angels anymore, and if you think yours are: you're in for a shock. There's a reason schools have metal detectors and video cameras EVERYWHERE except the restrooms - and even that could change soon, and probably should.
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This doesn't justify removing the parental rights.

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Posted by 37OHSSV
I like the male criminals who are saying theyre women and then impregnating the women's prisons.. to me, that's the peak of quintessential gullibleness.