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Posted by Persona_De_CrabBut FR I think she got married and settled down and quit being a horny male as per people I speak to that kept in touch with herPosted by WoolyLabiaPosted by Persona_De_Crab
What happened to Scorched Earth?
One of horniest males I’ve ever encountered
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That's brootal.click to expand
Posted by HateMeNowIloveitNot as much as I should.Posted by Lostthoughts
I get this. Also " I don't trust him" you are full of shit. Do you have any idea the level of vulnerability and consideration and restraint in not pushing you? Dude is litterally thinking of your feelings in regards to his own every single day. You can trust him, he is showing you everyday. Lmao that fact he has feelings for you and not pushing you, while most men would do what in this circumstances?
Here is the issue. If that dude loves you to that extent. Then tell him what he needs to do or change. Otherwise, he has to leave you to break the Familiarity catagory. You lose him.
By your social rules you all so love to play and accept. "The game.",Dude has to disappear. You lose your friendship. You want to keep him in your life?
Set him up with someone just like you, which is obviously what he wants and is looking for, if dude has been holding such a flame for you for years. Sense you care for him so much, how about setting him up with what he wants and is looking for, soneone just like you.
Though that means replacing yourself. Are you the jealous type? Will you get along with her and someone like yourself? Otherwise ya you lose him. You ok with that?
Mixed friendships are very possible depending on dynamic sand maturity level. Part of that is recognizing that possibility of physical intamcy will always be there with genuine feelings and a spark of chemistry. Part of maturity is accepting that and conciously choosing not to act on it.
Anyone who says otherwise, doesn't actually care for or love the other that deeply or much.
Self control and emotional intelligence is the core qualities wisdom and maturity.
Play nice and be considerate with each other and things will always work out in the end.
Either you commented on the wrong post or you dont know as much as you should.
My old guy besty, we will call him J...got a gf and used me to make her jealous. He sang that hinder song "lips of an angel" to me in front of her. I wanted to crawl out of my skin. That was the end of it for me.click to expand
Posted by LostthoughtsIt was pretty terrible, I really liked her. She dumped him and blocked me 😟Posted by HateMeNowIloveitPosted by Lostthoughts
I get this. Also " I don't trust him" you are full of shit. Do you have any idea the level of vulnerability and consideration and restraint in not pushing you? Dude is litterally thinking of your feelings in regards to his own every single day. You can trust him, he is showing you everyday. Lmao that fact he has feelings for you and not pushing you, while most men would do what in this circumstances?
Here is the issue. If that dude loves you to that extent. Then tell him what he needs to do or change. Otherwise, he has to leave you to break the Familiarity catagory. You lose him.
By your social rules you all so love to play and accept. "The game.",Dude has to disappear. You lose your friendship. You want to keep him in your life?
Set him up with someone just like you, which is obviously what he wants and is looking for, if dude has been holding such a flame for you for years. Sense you care for him so much, how about setting him up with what he wants and is looking for, soneone just like you.
Though that means replacing yourself. Are you the jealous type? Will you get along with her and someone like yourself? Otherwise ya you lose him. You ok with that?
Mixed friendships are very possible depending on dynamic sand maturity level. Part of that is recognizing that possibility of physical intamcy will always be there with genuine feelings and a spark of chemistry. Part of maturity is accepting that and conciously choosing not to act on it.
Anyone who says otherwise, doesn't actually care for or love the other that deeply or much.
Self control and emotional intelligence is the core qualities wisdom and maturity.
Play nice and be considerate with each other and things will always work out in the end.
Either you commented on the wrong post or you dont know as much as you should.
My old guy besty, we will call him J...got a gf and used me to make her jealous. He sang that hinder song "lips of an angel" to me in front of her. I wanted to crawl out of my skin. That was the end of it for me.
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Not as much as I should.
Thats actually pretty mean to said "girlfriend".
I stand by the second half of my post though.
That poor girl. Must have been humiliating for her.click to expand
Posted by HateMeNowIloveitSee that last part I hate. That wasn't fair to you or her. I find it heart warming when people bond over that instead.Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by HateMeNowIloveitPosted by Lostthoughts
I get this. Also " I don't trust him" you are full of shit. Do you have any idea the level of vulnerability and consideration and restraint in not pushing you? Dude is litterally thinking of your feelings in regards to his own every single day. You can trust him, he is showing you everyday. Lmao that fact he has feelings for you and not pushing you, while most men would do what in this circumstances?
Here is the issue. If that dude loves you to that extent. Then tell him what he needs to do or change. Otherwise, he has to leave you to break the Familiarity catagory. You lose him.
By your social rules you all so love to play and accept. "The game.",Dude has to disappear. You lose your friendship. You want to keep him in your life?
Set him up with someone just like you, which is obviously what he wants and is looking for, if dude has been holding such a flame for you for years. Sense you care for him so much, how about setting him up with what he wants and is looking for, soneone just like you.
Though that means replacing yourself. Are you the jealous type? Will you get along with her and someone like yourself? Otherwise ya you lose him. You ok with that?
Mixed friendships are very possible depending on dynamic sand maturity level. Part of that is recognizing that possibility of physical intamcy will always be there with genuine feelings and a spark of chemistry. Part of maturity is accepting that and conciously choosing not to act on it.
Anyone who says otherwise, doesn't actually care for or love the other that deeply or much.
Self control and emotional intelligence is the core qualities wisdom and maturity.
Play nice and be considerate with each other and things will always work out in the end.
Either you commented on the wrong post or you dont know as much as you should.
My old guy besty, we will call him J...got a gf and used me to make her jealous. He sang that hinder song "lips of an angel" to me in front of her. I wanted to crawl out of my skin. That was the end of it for me.
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Not as much as I should.
Thats actually pretty mean to said "girlfriend".
I stand by the second half of my post though.
That poor girl. Must have been humiliating for her.
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It was pretty terrible, I really liked her. She dumped him and blocked me 😟click to expand
Posted by LostthoughtsHe says he’s clean and doesn’t drink anymore or do drugs but I haven’t seen him in over a year aside from talking online so idk
Tell buddy one to start working out a little. Doesn't matter what it is, so long as he is pudhing himself. The very act of it does something to peoples physical and mental health. It's complicated why but it works wonders.
He is perfectly capable of finding someone. It's a matter of self esteem and then going to the right places where what you are looking for would be.
It's actually funny. When you are ready for a relationship internally, you glow-up and people start come out the woodwork.
His substance abuse greatly limits him. Likely have to address that when he gets with someone who isnt ok with it or she lets him know thats a issue before dating. Story as old as time🎵
Posted by WoolyLabiaWell then go hang out with him. Get a feel for him then think of which friend could use a man like him.Posted by Lostthoughts
Tell buddy one to start working out a little. Doesn't matter what it is, so long as he is pudhing himself. The very act of it does something to peoples physical and mental health. It's complicated why but it works wonders.
He is perfectly capable of finding someone. It's a matter of self esteem and then going to the right places where what you are looking for would be.
It's actually funny. When you are ready for a relationship internally, you glow-up and people start come out the woodwork.
His substance abuse greatly limits him. Likely have to address that when he gets with someone who isnt ok with it or she lets him know thats a issue before dating. Story as old as time🎵
He says he’s clean and doesn’t drink anymore or do drugs but I haven’t seen him in over a year aside from talking online so idkclick to expand
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