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His family is still in that country, cappy.
We were watching comedy movies last night online. I did comment earlier that continuously reading those news induce negative emotions in him or could do to anybody. That was to bring awareness to his moods. Yesterday he chose to watch something funny with me. I love seeing him happy. We were laughing so much.
But we do get into these occasional oppositions. We are at a stage, when we both take offence easily from each other, but he is quick to react and I am not used to such reaction. I am used to virgo man. I find his intensity can be exciting; I love his emotions. However, I don't know how to function with him yet without losing my identity. I do want to be a good friend to him, but it's up in the air for now.
So as much as I take his suicide comment seriously, I also believe it is an overstatement to his current moods. I am watchful. I can't offer him to get help at this stage, but I will attempt when face-to-face. He takes offense very easily.
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Oct 08, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 2906 · Topics: 93
Missy: I could've been more sensitive towards the problem & I just flew off the handle about another issue the following day & My virgo friend said it's 70/30 my fault
Now... he got in contact himself last night & just need to lay down a few ground rules in a civilised manner
Okay, he made the first move towards a reconciliation. My advice: Tread lightly when y'all meet and talk, because in my experience, S & V suck at communicationing strong emotional content - especially in the beginning. It gets better, but words tend to get in the way - even after 3 years!
Your body language & tone will matter more than what you say. You can hurt each other more than either of you will let on, but the pain will still be there below the surface...
Remember: If He cares about You, your opinions / attitudes / beliefs matter - he will take them seriously...
Debra can shut me down with a glance, and I can put her in a moody brood with one stupid comment.
But on the bright side: We talk more than we argue, and we laugh more than we fume...
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Oct 08, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 2906 · Topics: 93
I am not in love with her, but I need to make sure my kids are taken care of as I made a commitment...
That's the way I felt for about the last 4 years with LibraEX.
But, unlike the VG you know, I did not flirt with other women. I understand the nature of temptation, and I did not open up that door - for my Daughter's sake.
The divorce was HARD, but LibraEX & I are on speaking terms today because we both honored our commitment to our child.
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Mar 18, 2006Comments: 2 · Posts: 23862 · Topics: 499
Head over heels attraction? Are you willing to settle for less than butterflies?
Hmm, I prefer either one, depending on the situation. I think its better if both people from the same if its a 'head over heels' situation, if not, it can get very weird really quick.
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Dec 02, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 129 · Topics: 12
i now star i just have 2 let it sink n that he aint sqaut (I tend 2 b hard headed at tymes which I no can lead 2 heartache)
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Mar 18, 2006Comments: 2 · Posts: 23862 · Topics: 499
Not because I'm a saint, but because when I commit to someone, I try my best to honor that commitment...
Point taken ...
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