real life calling

this is specially a question for Earth girls with their practical intelligence.
what to do if
your Libra bf gives place to a Cancer friend
who comes back from the war
and needs time to adapt to the city life
and messes a little around in his appartment?
On one side we should understand that he is somewhat disturbed from disasters of the war.
On the other hand how long will this go on?
who says which day is the last day and when he should leave?
how to make it easy for the Cancer to leave once we 'v given him the feeling this is home, peaceful secure home?
how to make it easy for the Libra to say no like a "bad guy"?
Have you ever been in a similar situation?
how did you balance between "my needs" and "my brother's needs"?
thanks

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