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'I'm unclear why your sisters are treating you this way when it was the step-mother who was harsh about their husbands ... how is that relative to you?'
Im kinda unclear myself, When I first talked to them the same night we had a date set, they were complaining about this and I told them both to chill out and I would get it sorted. I talked to my mom and she agreed to allowing their husbands to come, 10m later I get a phone call saying Im not welcome to call, email, etc.. Both of their husbands have cheated in the past and both of them are just all around dead beats, and this was why my mom initially said they couldnt come. Beyond all this, there is just a resentment between my sisters and mom and Im just kind in between.
Im kinda unclear myself, When I first talked to them the same night we had a date set, they were complaining about this and I told them both to chill out and I would get it sorted. I talked to my mom and she agreed to allowing their husbands to come, 10m later I get a phone call saying Im not welcome to call, email, etc.. Both of their husbands have cheated in the past and both of them are just all around dead beats, and this was why my mom initially said they couldnt come. Beyond all this, there is just a resentment between my sisters and mom and Im just kind in between.
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i'm not sure i understand the question.
HELLO!!!???
YOU are the woman!.. It is up to YOU if things would get slow or fast...
haha! You try being that way to an alpha Virgo male and see how far you get
I've cooled things down a bit but he didn't like it, he still doesn't like it lol. Today, I'll have to see his frown, always that frown recently, lol. I think I may pass on it for today.
YOU are the woman!.. It is up to YOU if things would get slow or fast...
haha! You try being that way to an alpha Virgo male and see how far you get
I've cooled things down a bit but he didn't like it, he still doesn't like it lol. Today, I'll have to see his frown, always that frown recently, lol. I think I may pass on it for today.
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LOL @ Wheels,
look at OFA word or my original word, however you want to take it -- it will all meet in the center anyway
look at OFA word or my original word, however you want to take it -- it will all meet in the center anyway
"I think the number one thing that scares us away from any relationship is when our freedom is being threaten."
true for me.
"You know, like I can't do anything that I want anymore, my attention can't be on anything else but the guy in my life.
I think Aqua mooners take having their own lives seriously."
same comment as above.
ok, i think i see what you're getting at. do you mean how can we achieve sustainability of romantic relationships when we value our personal freedom so highly?
true for me.
"You know, like I can't do anything that I want anymore, my attention can't be on anything else but the guy in my life.
I think Aqua mooners take having their own lives seriously."
same comment as above.
ok, i think i see what you're getting at. do you mean how can we achieve sustainability of romantic relationships when we value our personal freedom so highly?
---Hmm that doesn't sound very healthy...You should still be able to have your own life, especially so early on in the relationship!
You're telling me! I know, so I'm feeling a bit stand-offish at the moment. I was with him Saturday and Sunday, have not called yet because I'm feeling good that we were together but also uneasy at his reaction when I had to leave ... after stopping me twice ..
You're telling me! I know, so I'm feeling a bit stand-offish at the moment. I was with him Saturday and Sunday, have not called yet because I'm feeling good that we were together but also uneasy at his reaction when I had to leave ... after stopping me twice ..
ok, i think i see what you're getting at. do you mean how can we achieve sustainability of romantic relationships when we value our personal freedom so highly?
YES!!!!
Look, I'm not a leo okay, so I'm not that smooth with my stuff but yes that what I meant hehe
YES!!!!
Look, I'm not a leo okay, so I'm not that smooth with my stuff but yes that what I meant
hehe
uhmmm hmmm all true mystic dreamer. They want to share everything with you when they are really into you. Even things you would rather not know.
"Look, I'm not a leo okay, so I'm not that smooth with my stuff but yes that what I meant"
hahaha. well, i can identify 100% with how you feel your aqua moon affects you in relationships. for me, i find it necessary to state my priorities. right now, that means education before all else because it will help me achieve my goals. that is the #1 reason that i need "space" in relationships at this point in my life. if a potential partner can't understand that and demands too much of my time, then it will only end up in frustration and heartache. i'm sure to some it may seem "cold", but i'm just not willing to compromise my chances at professional success for anything less than a sure thing, relationship-wise. if you know what i'm saying.
hahaha. well, i can identify 100% with how you feel your aqua moon affects you in relationships. for me, i find it necessary to state my priorities. right now, that means education before all else because it will help me achieve my goals. that is the #1 reason that i need "space" in relationships at this point in my life. if a potential partner can't understand that and demands too much of my time, then it will only end up in frustration and heartache. i'm sure to some it may seem "cold", but i'm just not willing to compromise my chances at professional success for anything less than a sure thing, relationship-wise. if you know what i'm saying.