Aqua bad habits
"I also have the problem with talking to guys and they almost always think I like them. I'll just be nice and having conversations with them because I enjoy talking to them but they get the wrong message! Though they usually figure it out eventually that I'm taken and would just like to be friends."
I've experienced this as well and it has led to a few "dates" but from my experiences, most guys are just occupied with trying to get me into bed.
I've experienced this as well and it has led to a few "dates" but from my experiences, most guys are just occupied with trying to get me into bed.
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No - it doesn't make sense statistically. With billions of people on Earth, there's bound to be many you could be in love with. Now, what are the odds that you'll meet someone you feel is The One? Way too many factors for even a Virgo to calculate!
?wow Fum, you get entangled fairly quickly!?
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First, we know each other a little longer than it may sound. Although how would you define as **knowing someone **?
He had first contacted me last year in April. When things ended with Virgo end of July 08, I agreed to meet him. When things started back working with Virgo, there was no contact until October when things completely ended with Virgo. We had just written each other a few lines here and there. Since October we have been in verbal contact. I left country for a month in November to recuperate from Virgo man and his ex scorp came back into the picture. It was an "in" and "out" thing with his ex scorp. Apparently, she had love bruises around her body by another man. She came to see him right out of the other guy's arms. Later she confessed it, and it was over. December we heavily chatted for hours and hours each time. January 3 we met in person and were pretty much in contact every second day.
I know... it doesn't sound long, but everything seemed right to make the first step with another man after Virgo. There were other men, but I did not want any of them to touch me. He had the right combination. For him I was the first after his scorp and we had the properties to HEAL each other. I could sense his passion and strength.
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First, we know each other a little longer than it may sound. Although how would you define as **knowing someone **?
He had first contacted me last year in April. When things ended with Virgo end of July 08, I agreed to meet him. When things started back working with Virgo, there was no contact until October when things completely ended with Virgo. We had just written each other a few lines here and there. Since October we have been in verbal contact. I left country for a month in November to recuperate from Virgo man and his ex scorp came back into the picture. It was an "in" and "out" thing with his ex scorp. Apparently, she had love bruises around her body by another man. She came to see him right out of the other guy's arms. Later she confessed it, and it was over. December we heavily chatted for hours and hours each time. January 3 we met in person and were pretty much in contact every second day.
I know... it doesn't sound long, but everything seemed right to make the first step with another man after Virgo. There were other men, but I did not want any of them to touch me. He had the right combination. For him I was the first after his scorp and we had the properties to HEAL each other. I could sense his passion and strength.
sweet: But in this strange world the women want the "Dogs".
Yeah, and there's a scientific explanation for it: Women tend to be sexually attracted to men who are risk-takers, and these are generally not Nice Guys. Bad Boys are exciting, Nice Guys are boring. What's a gal to do? Some will fuck the Bad Boy, and marry the Nice Guy, and maybe try to have an occasional Bad Boy on the sly...
Guys do something similar: We want Mama in the Kitchen, and a Porn Queen in the bedroom...
IMHO, long-term happiness for a monogamous couple requires that both are willing to compromise between their desires and the realities of domestic life. What makes it tougher these days is that we've been sold a package of ideas that we can have perfect bodies, exciting careers, mind-boggling sex, etc. - with no responsibilities for our misjudgments & screw-ups...
So in this schizophrenic society, Men can fuck hundreds of women, and that's okay; while a woman who fucks around is a whore...
At least STDs level the playing field! Viruses don't care who's fucking more...
?What do you think you do to encourage attracting these ...?
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I think we can be magnet to a man first through our eyes. I think the guy senses some kind of adrenalin from our inner world. So I play pretty much low-key meeting anyone not to provoke more than I'm willing to give. However in return, we usually pick the undercurrents in a man rather than the outer fa?ade he tries to reflect. Something can draw him to us. I guess we pick the drama? I don't know..
The problem is a scorp's intensity... also in love making that is. Not everyone gets to see that side of us. So the person experiencing our intensity gets allured by it, but also feels threatened.
Then comes the love making to our partner we choose. We merge beyond ourselves to him. We lose ourselves in our partner. He likes it at first, but then he starts misinterpreting.
So it's never really a lightweight fling. At least not with me, because I do care for the person I'm with.
Yeah I think its a bit cool in a way. Its the alpha and omega of all signs.
yay!
As V S O P stated earlier "sex is just sex". Amen... ;}
Nomatter which way the wind blows, cheaters are doing the deed to this day.
Others are probably doing the deed right now as we type away our opinions.
Male and Female have been cheating since the beggining of time.
It's what you do to them at the "end".... ;}
Nomatter which way the wind blows, cheaters are doing the deed to this day.
Others are probably doing the deed right now as we type away our opinions.
Male and Female have been cheating since the beggining of time.
It's what you do to them at the "end".... ;}
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