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Oct 11, 2006Comments: 2454 · Posts: 30581 · Topics: 372
I second the Libras and Saggittariuses.
But also Leos are pretty entertaining.
& Pisces are witty.
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Aug 31, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 10616 · Topics: 40
He doesn't want anything, he's basically saying either do the relationship on my terms or it will never happen whereas your attempting to negotiate with 2 parties involved he's only thinking about himself.... men that are real will not confuse you, he will make it clear that he wants to come to a mutual understanding, this guy is just clowning around hoping you will do things his way, he wants you in his life but he doesn't want to do what it takes to keep you in his life, he's lazy.....dead weight
I have helped women with libra men in the past and when the men are stuck they simply make the worst boyfriends on the planet, when they are not ready they will not budge in giving you your fair share of a relationship no matter how pretty no matter how great you are, maybe some others can help you out but from what I can take from it, he's selfish and he's not going to give you the relationship you hope for.
o0o god capppysweetie...no its a different nigga i been left dat boy he was tooo much to handle..but ive been good hangin in derr..and u kno i am a flygrll..hot shit..lmao..HAHA...and star you is so crazii ill try not to...
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Oct 11, 2006Comments: 2454 · Posts: 30581 · Topics: 372
^ what are you talking about?
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
Truth is everyone has their own standards they live by..some can tolerate more than others..as long as you know YOURSELF as a person, what your beliefs, morals, standards are and you stick to them and work together as a team..all is fine..
My dear Virgo friend at work, love her as I do..sometimes what she says and what she actually wants is two different things..for example she will advise on relationships..and if you hear her you would think she is impossible to live with..she has no tolerance for anything..and I personally don't think any man would put up with the standards she demands..however she is with a cancer man who has put her through hell and back. She is still with him after 7 years..I know theres NO WAY I would've put up with the shit she has so far from him, would've kicked him to the kerb many moons ago.....So what one finds unsuitable, another may think it's perfectly fine..
Never judge someone by your own standards..that is what I have come to learn. As a Scorpio that is hard work!..lol
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Aug 31, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 10616 · Topics: 40
He doesnt wanna be in a relationship I just wonder why he wants to keep in touch
because he can and because he know he still has you 100% and if he has you already why work to get you back, the door is open, he can step through any time he wants with no objection on your part you simply text him back to let him know your still WAITING around, no challenge in that so he leaves you hanging, like most men do that don't want anything but a ego boost.
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Oct 11, 2006Comments: 2454 · Posts: 30581 · Topics: 372
I meant you create your own reality as in...
if your the love of your life dies, you CHOOSE to love again or not.
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Mar 23, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 876 · Topics: 65
tiki, its like a sellout, but its not, you think you are being "grown, mature, adult, patient, etc" and allowing them to be themselves, reality is, you are, and that is what it is or it would be more(faster or something) i am not sure i can describe it, i can only tell you, my daughter(college age) expressed a nick name to me for Virgo man and it was D-rail, i shared that w/him. I think he must have finally figured out why he got that for a nick name......ya think? LOL
So much easier from the outside looking in, when its not your emotions at stake. He has emotions at stake too, but, one time i think smarter than the both of us for the both of us, then i realize, no, its his loss and he already regrets what he can not settle within himself, or he would not have told me to keep doing what i was doing and be patient, he has no problem expressing or communicating w/me face to face, its separation times we have that he loses himself in, imo. not wrong or right, no no, its more like, dont know what you dont know and he is trying to figure it all out, what does he want, and that is not wrong, no less, leaves me in the past/behind, which to me, says its not a mutual working relationship.
Its a process we each will grow from and expierence in a different way i believe, and at different ages. NO OFFENSE HERE......TON?
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Dec 01, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 310 · Topics: 27
Well it is not saying he doesn't want me. The man is hot and cold, and I know better I am old enough to see all this for what it is worth, but for some reason I am attracted to the guys who seem to want to play with my head, Not that I like it, I hate it...He never did call back last night when he said he was going to when I said now is not a good time, and no I have not tried to contact him, I ask him on the phone yesterday, do you want to be in a commited relationship or do u want to date other people. He said I don't want to date other people I have been down that road and on and on. I love you very much, but treating me like this is not love and I know that, so I told him I don't think u know what u want.
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
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