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Jul 30, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 6247 · Topics: 51
hahahaha yea sorry I didn't read this last page why is a book or movie required to gain self-respect?
it's a common theme, counsellours counsel you via books, hell people come on to dxp for different insights or gain confidence to make moves which amazes me!.... bottom line is no matter how you read or hear about it never drop your instinct or common sense, it is the only protection we have...
Confidence is like butter, it melts away when the heat is on
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Jul 30, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 6247 · Topics: 51
I told him I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and that 13 years was something worth fighting for. This girl that he with is younger, has no idea what it takes to make a marriage work. They have been together for one year, how can he want to marry her?
so got a few questions for you...
- you started dating as practically kids, never seen anyone else or have much experience of anything else, right?
- you have grown up to become different people than you were at 17, it's a fact of life, needs change, requirements change, has this changed for 2 of you and you're trying to hang on due to the amount of time you put in?
- has the 13 years relationship being very blissful?
- do you think because you were together for 13yrs that qualifies you better as a marriage candidate than someone he has known for 1yr? I didn't think love was that organised?
- stand back and read what you write again as an observer for a second, is this how love is? most of the things you write is really about what you want, do you see that?
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Hikoro,
I just read your post!!!!!!!!..it is unbelievable but his birthday is 7th of september and he has a very dominant mother and a passive father
wow!! i am suprised
and he told me the same thing: "if I say yes, it is because I want to"
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Jul 30, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 6247 · Topics: 51
They aren't in a committed relationship .... yet
exactly, if it doesn't work out, you're horny and broke! who wants that!?
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Lol she did have that dum look to her face put im use to it my best friend and couple of other guys i know that are pisces have that dum look to lol. and they have the worst memory my god y can't pisces people remmber anything. gssss but she acted dum to that is why we were not good match.