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Nov 07, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 439 · Topics: 11
^^^ That is pretty much what I got out of starfish's statements.
I always treat people very well, probably better than some of them deserved to be treated honestly. I just dont always get the same treatment back. I agree that there has to be a balance in there some how and it not all be one sided.
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Nov 08, 2006Comments: 37 · Posts: 4746 · Topics: 283
((Chocolate chip cookies))
sunrise or moonlight?
2 consecutive female Sec. of state, both scorpios, during the biggest economic and political collapse in confidence since 1874.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
"Believe it or not, I am not attacking anyone. I am commenting on the issue and people??s reaction to the issue"
Why would this be said with a believe it or not clause, as if to suggest that someone other than yourself has used this adjective as a description of behaviour, and might think it is happening?
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Aug 31, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 10616 · Topics: 40
it means they are no different then all the men that collapsed the economy since 1874
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
If I look at it objectively, I think the trade off is she doesn't have good sense of self-esteem. She always thinks guys are really nice even when I am thinking this guy is a complete jerk. Heard of gaydar? She is missing Jerkdar. (She has a lot of issues around relationships but I think she overlooks the genuine guys because she is afraid of being smoothered in a relationship and worried about getting into a longterm relationship while her best friend, who really wants one, is still single. A lot of dynamics. To many to get into on this message board.)
One of the arguments I made to my aquaintence who had spent all his time reading The Game, etc was that I have never heard a girl proclaim a man she first met and interested in as being a jerk. Women always say, "OMG! I met this guy! He is so nice/sweet! .... blather ... blather ... blather." No matter how big of a jerk the guy ends up being, it ALWAYS starts with a girl thinking he is nice. *shrug*
I think what some men have and some men DON'T have is confidence. Confidence is attractive.
It is so weird because I know so many truly sexy, attractive, well-spoken, well-educated, ambitious, successful women who are funny, intelligent, and good natured yet single. I don??t really know that many men I could put in that category. It is really a shame.
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"I have witnessed overweight and very average looking men pick apart swimsuit models. As much as some people try to deny certain realities of life, these women would have been WAY out of their legue. An obese man is probably not going to wind up with a swimsuit model for a partner without something else (money/power or something else) factoring in."
So have I .. I've also witnessed women who tear apart men thinking they deserve to be princesses just because they are breathing.
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
P-Angel
Stop splitting hairs and making issues where there are none. You cannot control which words I use and how I chose to express myself. I refuse to walk on eggshells because you cannot look at anything with any sort of objectivity.