~DEBATE TIME~
i never said that physical attraction is unimportant. my point was that it's just one component of overall attraction. i've met people i've considered physically attractive but i wouldn't date them because of other attributes. get it?
for some reason, a lot of people seem to think that it's the most important thing. i disagree with that.
"wheels, it's said that couples who have been married for a long time, still find their partners physically attractive, even at 70."
ok, and if we dissect physical attractiveness, what is that comprised of? purely physical. youth - wrinkle-free, taut skin. slimness - flat belly, visible muscle mass. you're telling me that someone who is active is going to adhere to those standards at 70? i don't think so. if their partners find them physically attractive at that age, it's because they appreciate other aspects of them that affect their image of them as a whole.
for some reason, a lot of people seem to think that it's the most important thing. i disagree with that.
"wheels, it's said that couples who have been married for a long time, still find their partners physically attractive, even at 70."
ok, and if we dissect physical attractiveness, what is that comprised of? purely physical. youth - wrinkle-free, taut skin. slimness - flat belly, visible muscle mass. you're telling me that someone who is active is going to adhere to those standards at 70? i don't think so. if their partners find them physically attractive at that age, it's because they appreciate other aspects of them that affect their image of them as a whole.
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your friend he wants too. lol
but I'm guessing you two banter and debate back and forth.
am I correct?
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your friend he wants too. lol
but I'm guessing you two banter and debate back and forth.
am I correct?
and being Aloof is what we do especially if we are trying to figure out another person before they can figure out what is going on with us.
Its true we get tagged as Womanizers because we get bored easily with current love interests
not when we have destroyed them physically but when we have conquered them mentally.
wow that does sound jerkish oh well I can only be me.....anything less would be a crime against nature. lol
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