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Feb 05, 2009Comments: 0 · Posts: 2019 · Topics: 27
Come out come out where ever you are!!!
Where ya at girl?
"you were quiet? so you were shy. or you were analysing the situation."
Actually both... I guess it's a Virgo thing to analyze and over-analyze anything that's new to us. But there was one time when he asked me to hang out with his friends and at that time I declined the invitation. I had to explain to him that I was shy especially meeting a whole bunch of people at the same time. I hope he didn't think I was a snob for declining because I truly did want to meet his friends.
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Jan 22, 2009Comments: 0 · Posts: 1685 · Topics: 53
He annoys me with his clean freakish ways ...
1- Number one Rule: Don't sit on my bed with Day clothes on!
*I get slowly pushed off from the edge of his bed with his strong legs. Then reminded of "Number ONE Rule!"
He is ALWAYS in bed sleeping, by the way, even if he expects me to meet him at a certain hour. So hard to escape the Rule#1.
2- I get ordered, "wash your hands!", when I enter his apartment.
*Duh. Do I need to be reminded?
3- We both wash vegetables and fruit with soap, but he inspects mine. (we both are a bit on the nutty side, but he beats me)
4- Before a kiss he demands, "brush your teeth thoroughly!". He washed his brush with soap yesterday before brushing his teeth. Then I watched his process... lol... curiosity to his methods.... there was no spot inside his mouth unbrushed, even up to underneath his tongue was cared for with extreme attentiveness.
I said that's a first time for me to see such disinfecting method and advised to keep his brush in salt-filled water rather. But Sheesh... interesting how he comes up with these things.
5- many more clean freakish habits but his apartment is not super clean at all.
So I wonder, how CAP man ever dares to have sex with a woman and if he was ever disgusted by one? He says "YES"... I feel disgusted by dirty women.
Is "cleanliness" a common trait in cappies or is this particular one living on the edge?
Hard to keep up with this guy. I may stop the kissing process completely if he continues behaving this way.
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...tell me you are writing about my situation?
Because if you are in the same situation that is fucking creepy.
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Jan 22, 2009Comments: 0 · Posts: 1685 · Topics: 53
He will always juggle with the idea that you may cheat on him too. Give him a valid explanation of why you cheated on this ex guy. I hope you have a good reason to tell and convince scorp man that he has nothing to worry about.
Believe me, we can be paranoid and he will check on every little detail on you to catch the moment if you ever start cheating on HIM. Disloyalty is a big no no for us. I prefer that I'm told boldly that it ended. It hurts but that's what we appreciate: honesty! It hurts way more when we find out someone has played with us. To me, that is an insult to my intellect. I will think you thought I'm stupid. So we rather prefer to face the hard truth.