I need help from you Libras!!
sombody lied to you aries women make the libra male sick ask any libra male !bed room boom is as far as it will go period.
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Your man's texting his ex hun.....it can't get more fishy than that.
Remember you did not get to check the outgoing texts. Who knows what he wrote but it seems like he's the one who texts her looking for her.
Remember you did not get to check the outgoing texts. Who knows what he wrote but it seems like he's the one who texts her looking for her.
archer --
I almost thought you are talking of the CAP man I have been involved with lately, but only to realize in the end that 'my' CAP man is not so nice. He forces out my 'brutal' side. And yes..., I fully agree that men need and want a woman who is demanding. Who is ready to drop them at an instant without looking back. It possibly gives them the rush they need to *hunt* you. If you are an easy prey, they get bored.
Will take your CAP's advice in raising up the bar more with mine. Am at the end of my wits and patience with this CAP; he either stays or goes forever.
I almost thought you are talking of the CAP man I have been involved with lately, but only to realize in the end that 'my' CAP man is not so nice. He forces out my 'brutal' side. And yes..., I fully agree that men need and want a woman who is demanding. Who is ready to drop them at an instant without looking back. It possibly gives them the rush they need to *hunt* you. If you are an easy prey, they get bored.
Will take your CAP's advice in raising up the bar more with mine. Am at the end of my wits and patience with this CAP; he either stays or goes forever.
What I was speaking of is not necessarily demanding in the sense of being high maintenance, etc, but being secure and expecting the best...never letting them "slip" or take you for granted.
Bena -- I liked his 'rawness'. A friend of mine calls it a *CHARGED LOVE EPIC*.
Warholian -- I really like this guy, but will not allow myself to love him and I know it will be short-lived.
Missie -- he is driving me nuts too.
Cappy -- I agree that everyone deserves being given the benefit of the doubt. For now am on the watch out...
Tiki -- yesterday I could have fully agreed with you. His cleanliness is not the only control he seeks; there are other issues as well such as honesty of his whereabouts. Everyone has some kind of experience in their lifes and may make decisions accordingly. My daughter tells that she agrees with his actions.
For now I will wait and see, but I will not let myself being commanded by him. He has these strange habits, but he also seems to test me on them of how severely I will "follow" or "object" them. If I follow for too long, he loses respect. If I object, he seems to get a laugh out of things. If I object for too long, he looses his confidence.
So it's a strange balance.
To me he just represents the pure rawness in a CAP. I don't think he can be compared to many. I think he is just the extreme of things. He is addictive, alluring, warm, silly, extremely sexual, sometimes a big liar and sometimes extremely honest where others would stay quiet, but he is also someone you would not want to let get too close to you.
Perhaps I bring out certain feelings and reactions in him... don't know. I don't think he is the same with others as he is with me... I see him like a big child sometimes.
Posted by ArcherPosted by Lady_M
Sounds like my kinda guy
lol ... of course ... you both have a venus in capricorn too ..
I agree, he already bends so easily and think I am such a lovely creature (never mean) ... he has this deep wish to see me really angry and kill him verbally ... but the moment I get angry he becomes quiet .... and for how long you can keep that fiery temper when the other person is just quiet..
haha... it wont work .. may never kill him verbally .. his death wish will go unanswered.... tsk tsk ..
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ps;; this does seeem to work with most men.click to expand
I always forget about the new quote function, lol
Do you think he might be a submissive?
Mystic dreamer --
When I look at him and say, sheesh you don't have to tell me to wash my hands.. or I make a joke out of things, I can see from his face that he doesn't say it to be abusive... it's more like a rule he blurbs out what he has for himself, but also wants to see in others. That's the way I see it.
Lately he stopped telling me to wash my hands... lol...
My shoes have to be left outside. I said, I paid a fortune for my shoes, took a bag and took them in... ha ha ha...
He was just starring at my shoes. I said, get over it... am not leaving them outside.
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Tiki. He's not abusive. That's the wrong word hun. You're making up your own story.
He's a crazy clean freak.
Who the hell orders anyone to wash up right away as soon as they enter the door?
Not even my mom ever did that to me.
When I look at him and say, sheesh you don't have to tell me to wash my hands.. or I make a joke out of things, I can see from his face that he doesn't say it to be abusive... it's more like a rule he blurbs out what he has for himself, but also wants to see in others. That's the way I see it.
Lately he stopped telling me to wash my hands... lol...
My shoes have to be left outside. I said, I paid a fortune for my shoes, took a bag and took them in... ha ha ha...
He was just starring at my shoes. I said, get over it... am not leaving them outside.
Mine turned submissive at many occasions. I got kisses, smiles and "I'm luv'n this'es"....
Don't think it's healthy on the long run though.
But sure try, Lady_M
Little sparrow thank you for your answer! It is funny, I usually was a very decided person and now my libra influences me big time. I find it hard to decide what to cook for dinner and we usually end in deciding "kind of together" which is very sweet.
Last week we made some shopping and I stopped in front of the hobby department and bought some paint, brushes and painting canavas because I knew he has some talent and I wanted him to pursue it. Maybe some of these days I'll post a sample of the result.
Last week we made some shopping and I stopped in front of the hobby department and bought some paint, brushes and painting canavas because I knew he has some talent and I wanted him to pursue it. Maybe some of these days I'll post a sample of the result.
"Yeah I agree it isn't about rejection because most times you know if a person likes you or not (through various ways).
I would never go for a girl if I didn't know first hand that she was into me. It would be suicide and the fear of rejection is just too much for me!"
Fear of rejection stems from how we percieve ourselves, NOT how others percieve US. If you are comfortable with yourself and the choices you make for yourself, it should not matter if others will reject you. If you can be happy alone and still get your needs/wants met, then the fear of being rejected should be non existant. The fear becomes stronger when we find someone who carries or represnts themselves similar to ours because then we attach ourselves to that person. The key to that is to remember not to get so attached to the point you become dependant on them for happiness or entertainment.
Everyone has a fear of being rejected, its normal. We all want to be accepeted for WHO we are, loved and appreciated. Do not choose a partner that will project all of their insecurities onto you or try to bring you down for whatever reason. Those are the people that will drain you physically, mentally and emotionally. Also, try not to place YOUR expectations of someone onto your "potential" because you can miss out on who they really are. I learned this lesson a LONG time ago.....its not fair to the other person and more importantly it is not fair to YOU.
I would never go for a girl if I didn't know first hand that she was into me. It would be suicide and the fear of rejection is just too much for me!"
Fear of rejection stems from how we percieve ourselves, NOT how others percieve US. If you are comfortable with yourself and the choices you make for yourself, it should not matter if others will reject you. If you can be happy alone and still get your needs/wants met, then the fear of being rejected should be non existant. The fear becomes stronger when we find someone who carries or represnts themselves similar to ours because then we attach ourselves to that person. The key to that is to remember not to get so attached to the point you become dependant on them for happiness or entertainment.
Everyone has a fear of being rejected, its normal. We all want to be accepeted for WHO we are, loved and appreciated. Do not choose a partner that will project all of their insecurities onto you or try to bring you down for whatever reason. Those are the people that will drain you physically, mentally and emotionally. Also, try not to place YOUR expectations of someone onto your "potential" because you can miss out on who they really are. I learned this lesson a LONG time ago.....its not fair to the other person and more importantly it is not fair to YOU.