Capricord Vs Aries - Who Is Mentally The Toughest?
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oh brother
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Same here. Nothing phased me. My parents realized early on that physical punishment didn't work for me.
My mother told me the last time my father ever "spanked" me - he was holding me up by my left arm and hitting my butt so hard my feet were coming off the ground & it really bothered my mom that I didn't even cry (she thought I was one of those freaks that doesn't really feel pain.)
My sister on the other hand...all my parents had to do was yell at me and she'd start crying.
My mother told me the last time my father ever "spanked" me - he was holding me up by my left arm and hitting my butt so hard my feet were coming off the ground & it really bothered my mom that I didn't even cry (she thought I was one of those freaks that doesn't really feel pain.)
My sister on the other hand...all my parents had to do was yell at me and she'd start crying.
Just as I am free to do the same. I understand that for sure 
As far as the feelings this girl might have? I did actually say something of that nature but not so bluntly. I did mention that she is young, vulnerable and because of her neurotic ways (she pops more pills for depression, etc than any person twice her age) she may think there's more to his caring nature than just doing something nice....she is 20, he is twice her age and yes he is doing the typical Virgo thing and being helpful yada yada (I get that) and no I totally believe he wouldnt go there, that nothing has been going on and nothing will go on. He did say "good point" when I raised the above but i did it in a non-accusing way and he did take it on board, in fact I could see that he hadnt thought about it at all how it might be.
I realise that he's still not in the right place and Tiki, Im not deluding myself (not after Mr Libra LOL) but until now he has put so much time into me and us. I doubt he's seeing others but if he is? well yes he does have a right to do that unless/until he makes us exclusive. I wont sit around forever waiting (be assured of that) and realise that perhaps I too need to start dating others again - I dont know, its not something I feel i have to do but you're right, he can take any other woman to bed if that is what he chooses
In regard to knowing the other girl went to lunch with him? well they were walking to his car as I was walking to mine. I know they go their own separate ways once they go there to the shops as they have done time and time again - they normally go out as a group but it happens that the others were offsite so I guess they just carried on as per usual. I didnt make a big point of it.
Im taking myself away from being able to communicate with him every day all day by the communicator tool (its like msn) and perhaps just pulling myself away from him and my feelings towards him as perhaps he really just is being a good friend and enjoys my company when we do see one another. I do wish though, he'd stop giving me mixed signals by wining and dining and buying me gifts and making plans for the future, and wanting me to go here and there with him if he has no intention of seeing this through in the long term. I dont think even he knows what he's doing and how his actions are confusing the hell out of me.
He did say he wasnt seeing anybody else, that he had no intention of it but what men say and do??
As far as the feelings this girl might have? I did actually say something of that nature but not so bluntly. I did mention that she is young, vulnerable and because of her neurotic ways (she pops more pills for depression, etc than any person twice her age) she may think there's more to his caring nature than just doing something nice....she is 20, he is twice her age and yes he is doing the typical Virgo thing and being helpful yada yada (I get that) and no I totally believe he wouldnt go there, that nothing has been going on and nothing will go on. He did say "good point" when I raised the above but i did it in a non-accusing way and he did take it on board, in fact I could see that he hadnt thought about it at all how it might be.
I realise that he's still not in the right place and Tiki, Im not deluding myself (not after Mr Libra LOL) but until now he has put so much time into me and us. I doubt he's seeing others but if he is? well yes he does have a right to do that unless/until he makes us exclusive. I wont sit around forever waiting (be assured of that) and realise that perhaps I too need to start dating others again - I dont know, its not something I feel i have to do but you're right, he can take any other woman to bed if that is what he chooses
In regard to knowing the other girl went to lunch with him? well they were walking to his car as I was walking to mine. I know they go their own separate ways once they go there to the shops as they have done time and time again - they normally go out as a group but it happens that the others were offsite so I guess they just carried on as per usual. I didnt make a big point of it.
Im taking myself away from being able to communicate with him every day all day by the communicator tool (its like msn) and perhaps just pulling myself away from him and my feelings towards him as perhaps he really just is being a good friend and enjoys my company when we do see one another. I do wish though, he'd stop giving me mixed signals by wining and dining and buying me gifts and making plans for the future, and wanting me to go here and there with him if he has no intention of seeing this through in the long term. I dont think even he knows what he's doing and how his actions are confusing the hell out of me.
He did say he wasnt seeing anybody else, that he had no intention of it but what men say and do??
I like your positive outlook! I was using the current economic news as a example. In general, how should Cancerians handle themselves during bad times? Lot of the people coming to Cancer forum are happy to bash Cancerians and assign them lables. They are "mushy", "crazy" and other expletives.
In tough times, be it recession/divorce/health downturn etc, what should a cancerian do to remain strong mentally and emotionally?
In tough times, be it recession/divorce/health downturn etc, what should a cancerian do to remain strong mentally and emotionally?
As I said, I think its best we cut the daily communication out and that way I wont know what he's doing as if he were working somewhere else and Id not have a clue. He's not a bad man and he isnt out to hurt me, he's just not in the right place and still loves his wife very much....I cant compete with a ghost and I shouldnt be threatened by gossip and I need to shake myself up a bit as this is what the office gossip was all about - to cause pain to innocent people.
Im going to keep to myself for a while and allow him to live his life as if I dont exist....we have next weekend which I look forward to but after that? I dont know. I'm sure if he misses me he'll come looking.
Probably doing both of us a favour by keeping a distance for a while.....if there is something with this girl or any other woman? I will give him his space
Im going to keep to myself for a while and allow him to live his life as if I dont exist....we have next weekend which I look forward to but after that? I dont know. I'm sure if he misses me he'll come looking.
Probably doing both of us a favour by keeping a distance for a while.....if there is something with this girl or any other woman? I will give him his space
anybody will cheat if they have no morals.
Chatz, you have every right to be suspicious. He should have told you BEFORE hand what was going on before taking the risk of you hearing gossip from someone else about it.
First of all, I don't believe in the "oh it's innocent" bs. For one, if it was so innocent, then why not tell it? Not saying he has to disclose every single thing and repeat every single conversation he has at work, but when it comes to what could possibly turned into something bigger than it is, he should have gave you the heads-up.
First of all, I don't believe in the "oh it's innocent" bs. For one, if it was so innocent, then why not tell it? Not saying he has to disclose every single thing and repeat every single conversation he has at work, but when it comes to what could possibly turned into something bigger than it is, he should have gave you the heads-up.
It was a joke...don't wanna take it that way. whatever ya kno
Pfft, pi day is for overachieving bastards. Pi approximation day is where it's at.
Pisces: Worst mistake I ever made in my whole entire life (3x over). Plus I'm stuck having to deal with the treetrunk... Ughh!!!
Cheated on me three times, all with so called female friends.
Cheated on me three times, all with so called female friends.
Beautiful....makes you want to be in love.
No 2 is the best feeling in the world!
No 2 is the best feeling in the world!