What Body of Water Are You?
You Are a Pond
You are modest, pleasant, and reliable. You are content and confident.
You are harmonious and caring. You truly like other people for who they are.
You are a very genuine, humble person. Because of this, you're very approachable.
You are soft-spoken and a bit sensitive. Your mild personality is a refreshing change for people.
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Jesse you don't have to hide your post, women feel like you all the time, we ALL struggle with what to do and how to do things that in our own best interest, your a beautiful woman and if this guy can't see that your the ONE then that is not your issue, don't own it. He's dating so now you know were he stands, NUFF SAID, don't start CONVINCING him that your the right choice, I know finding out deflated your ego but don't go there, just get up, open up your planner/date book and start dating again, don't allow him to be the only option.
The attitude that would be in your best interest is to have CONFIDENCE, and you do that by knowing those other 2 women don't stand a chance compared to you and to show him that your the better option through your actions (words have little weight with a man) you can't push a man into seeing your the better option, I will send you something later to explain more about what I mean, read it, digest it and use it. It's not about him, it's about YOU, you have to put you first no matter what a man is doing and saying and they do and say all kinds of things and some of those things are confusing and double sided but no matter what you always have to have BOTH of your feet planted firmly on the ground especially when he's doing and saying something you may not like. Don't make him feel he's more important than anyone else, just go out, enjoy your life and know that you do have options because if you don't know you do then you will be at the mercy of your feelings and emotions and ALL KINDS OF MISTAKES ARE made when a woman doesn't have both her feet planted firmly on the ground in reality. If you talk things out not knowing what you want, that just creates more confusion and he will eventually step away from you and the confusion your carrying.
If your not sure it's best to do nothing, say nothing until your clear about what you want and even once you gain clarity respect that he may not be there with you yet and go live your great life, continue to have lunch and coffee dates, continue to live a great productive life and let him find his own way and if for some reason he's not ready your life will have not stopped b/c of it, you won't feel so deeply discouraged and disappointed b/c you won't have all your eggs in his basket.
The attitude that would be in your best interest is to have CONFIDENCE, and you do that by knowing those other 2 women don't stand a chance compared to you and to show him that your the better option through your actions (words have little weight with a man) you can't push a man into seeing your the better option, I will send you something later to explain more about what I mean, read it, digest it and use it. It's not about him, it's about YOU, you have to put you first no matter what a man is doing and saying and they do and say all kinds of things and some of those things are confusing and double sided but no matter what you always have to have BOTH of your feet planted firmly on the ground especially when he's doing and saying something you may not like. Don't make him feel he's more important than anyone else, just go out, enjoy your life and know that you do have options because if you don't know you do then you will be at the mercy of your feelings and emotions and ALL KINDS OF MISTAKES ARE made when a woman doesn't have both her feet planted firmly on the ground in reality. If you talk things out not knowing what you want, that just creates more confusion and he will eventually step away from you and the confusion your carrying.
If your not sure it's best to do nothing, say nothing until your clear about what you want and even once you gain clarity respect that he may not be there with you yet and go live your great life, continue to have lunch and coffee dates, continue to live a great productive life and let him find his own way and if for some reason he's not ready your life will have not stopped b/c of it, you won't feel so deeply discouraged and disappointed b/c you won't have all your eggs in his basket.
Lazy is when a woman CHOOSES to not do what's in her best interest, being lazy is chunking all values aside and allowing bad treatment instead of moving on to the man that can do the job, your not being lazy, your being confused and that will change once you gain your inner confidence and strength back...all that chivalry ie blow drying your hair etc makes a woman weak inside, she wants to throw caution away and chase and convince...you can't do that
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"If he has got it into his head that you are playing games with him...." ~ missmorals
...He will never be yours.
...He will never be yours.
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Hi,
I told a Cancer man I was interested in back in Nov that there was a good possibility I may move to another city for a while. Since then the "chase" has been off, but he still emails me. He had to work extra hours and make up time for a trip he went on so I didn't see him nor did he ask me to go out but he'd still email me and tell me he was busy or just check in. So I haven't seen him for a month and a half. Recently he came to see me in a show and came to the cast party I h ad invited him to. Anyway, afterwards, we talked by my car, he gave me hug, said goodnight, then said that he'd see me soon, or see me around. I took this to mean (forgive me guys) guy speak for "it was nice but I won't call or write anymore." The next day I get an email from him with compliments on the show and thanks for the ticket, he'll pay me back the next time he sees me.. He said he enjoyed hanging out and to take care.
I guess what Im asking is how should I behave? He doesn't call me, just emails. We really haven't hung out as friends, only romantic partners. Im afraid that if we hang out as friends I may lose him but ...thats the way it goes I guess.
Should I stop replying to him? I know that Cancers are not that direct and I know astrology isn't everything but any advice would be great. Thanks so much!
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Lizzie
I told a Cancer man I was interested in back in Nov that there was a good possibility I may move to another city for a while. Since then the "chase" has been off, but he still emails me. He had to work extra hours and make up time for a trip he went on so I didn't see him nor did he ask me to go out but he'd still email me and tell me he was busy or just check in. So I haven't seen him for a month and a half. Recently he came to see me in a show and came to the cast party I h ad invited him to. Anyway, afterwards, we talked by my car, he gave me hug, said goodnight, then said that he'd see me soon, or see me around. I took this to mean (forgive me guys) guy speak for "it was nice but I won't call or write anymore." The next day I get an email from him with compliments on the show and thanks for the ticket, he'll pay me back the next time he sees me.. He said he enjoyed hanging out and to take care.
I guess what Im asking is how should I behave? He doesn't call me, just emails. We really haven't hung out as friends, only romantic partners. Im afraid that if we hang out as friends I may lose him but ...thats the way it goes I guess.
Should I stop replying to him? I know that Cancers are not that direct and I know astrology isn't everything but any advice would be great. Thanks so much!
Still Learning
Lizzie
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Posted by enfant_terrible
Also our preferences and definition of what's feminine and what's masculine are based on preferences that all mammals have. These are things that were developed long before we even were fully evolved to human beings. If you take the animal kingdom, there are patterns in terms of behaviour that makes women attract men and vice versa. So there is a given masculinity and feminity in our social code, only once put in a civilized society, it becomes something along the lines of push-up bras and leg-shaving. Now that's a different discusssion altogether.
And please don't say "but we're not animals", yes we are. We're not Gods, that's for sure.
i'd have to disagree with that. paleoanthropologists have found strong evidence that the social organization of early humans was very different from what it is today. the family unit of mother (as caretaker), father (as provider), and child is a fairly recent development in terms of evolutionary history.
i wouldn't say that we're not animals, because we are. but we're also different from other mammals for a number of reasons. one of those is our brain. so, i may want to hunt down and strangle someone who cuts me off when i'm driving. but i'm not going to do that, because even if my instinct tells me to, that doesn't make it the right thing to do.