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Jan 22, 2009Comments: 0 · Posts: 1685 · Topics: 53
Queenscorpio --
there must be a misunderstanding. That girl doesn't know about me. She is as innocent as I was.
HE knows since yesterday that I am aware of that letter now. That's all I said.
Yes, he was my boyfriend. He said that at many occasions. He demanded what he wanted from his girlfriend. He was questioning of who the guys on my facebook were. If I was talking to any of them. If I had posts from any of them, he would question why he said what he said. When I got a phone call, he used to stop what he was doing and paying all his attention to my phone calls. He was like the obsessive, possessive boyfriend. I didn't mind, because he told me how much he had dealt with his previous girl cheating on him. So I thought he will feel more comfortable over time with me and he will learn trusting me.
Not sure what you mean by "PR are you assuming?"
If you are talking about P-Angel. She is a pest! She is a neurotic woman who has nothing better to do then putting stories together to manipulate people's minds. That's why I desregard her comments. They should not be taken seriously in the least. She needs therapy. So if you are asking if PA is assuming, yes... she is making up and connecting events in her sick mind.
heavan, you can teach me to sing but i can't learn to be fireproof.
thiggy pudding or green eggs and ham?
i think i'll stick to what works for now.nothing in the demos makes we go ooh, aahh, gotta, gotta, gimmee,gimmee.
VH nice to see there are still some chefs in cali that can cook real food. i gave up on novelle cuisine pretty much as fast as they were inventing it.
hey cut it out! all that snoring is keeping me awake!
Cut the girl some slack. I'm sure it wasnt done malisiously. The majority of what was said wasn't from the web site. She took the points listed and elaborated on all of them atleast. There is no need to bully her, i think she gets it.
I don't agree with the "lists" well not completely...
It is when we get ignored and deprived of attention that we realise how much we crave and need it. That is what makes us work towards keeping that attention and making the relationship work.
We also need our vanity crushed occasionally... Although we like to think the world revolves around us, which it does. We also need to realise that too much vanity makes people hate us and feel insecure in themself. It's not until we are told that we need to get off our royal high-horse that we realise this. Plus we're supposed to be generous not selfish and that means with the feelings of others not just in what we give.
As for control... that needs to be shared. No one wants a weak partner and if they're nothing more than a door mat then that's no fun and makes for one boring relationship.
I think that the do's and don'ts need to have limits or we're never going to have a successful relationship with anyone but the mirror.
I think those lists were created for the people who have that sign to understand themselves rather than for others to understand us. Reading that makes us sound like we're not as great as we like to think we are. The list of "donts" depicts needy, greedy, self-centered, egotistical, selfish, self-absorbed, anal retentive psycho control freaks!
I don't feel like i am like that but i could probably find behaviours and things i do that would make others perceive me that way. Maybe we all need to have a good hard look at ourselves and be aware of all of this...it would probably make ourselves and those around us easier to be with and aid in getting lots of attention, poistive attention, not the bad kind.
Sorry.... for being so dramatic. xoxo
yeah, cleaning in cat talk means they love you, rubbing their body against your legs means they own you.
I think they might seem untrustworthy sometimes because they change their minds and because they give indirect answers. But i think they're honest people but they genuinely dont know the truth about what they feel.
For example when they like a girl...then change their mind...then change it back again. The girl is going to find it difficult to trust him not to change his mind again and isn't going to feel very secure in the relationship.
As for indirect answers.... If you ask a Libra a question they usually contradict it. I do love you and want to be with you...BUT...I'm not ready for committment. This leaves a partner insecure as it translates into... he wants me, but he doesnt...? Does that mean he wants to see other people? etc....
Ok well I guess it would seem pretty obvious by the hints...but you know how Gems can be very wishy washy and misleading sometimes (I know for sure) so it's just very confusing...see she has a son like 7 years older than me, and is about a year older than my mom...(not that it would matter I guess lol) but also, sometimes I can be such a flirt and kinda get infatuated with some friends here and there...and quite honestly I don't know how to feel, I mean I am bisexual, and think she's great to be around, but with all the circumstances and questions I'm just afraid of seeming like the freak or the one that's crushing if I come out and just see how she really feels...it's like so much subtly to me and it's driving me crazy, not necessarily in a good or bad way though lol Do you think maybe I'm just thinking wishfully? I know you guys think it's obvious and all, but it's just all pretty awkward considering my mom and her went to high school together and like everyone knows everyone that we associate with, so I just really want to make sure I got my cards laid out before I jump to any majorly wrong conclusions! thanks =)
i think most virgos have a hard time believing something that wonderful is actually happening to them, that is why they mistrust it. its not that we thing we are unworthy, it is just that we understand how rare, genuine love is, and so we poke it, nudge it, move it around and look at it from all sides just to make sure we are not getting the wool pulled over our eyes.
because the thing is, inside certain virgo males i believe is the 'lovesap' he's the guy who once won over will do anything for you, scale any mountain, cross any sea, and take any challenge just to be with you. he's the guy that will sing to you in public, or get down on one knee in front of his friends to tell you he loves you.
this of course is all contrary to the carefully crafted cool james bond like exterior (yes sean connery is a virgo)which we work hard to show to the rest of the world, lest they somehow get the idea we are all actually a bunch of neurotic head cases deep down. so you can expect that he is going to make very sure before he disarms himself to you (surrender is not a virgo word).