Cancer being an asshole?
Your absolutely correct about that, I always feel the need to have everything out in the opening, I'm not a mysterious scorp at all. Perhaps that's why we clash so much since he feels the need to keep everything to himself unless I interrogate or pry it out of him.
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I know that Pisces men are very jealous. I never go by what books say about anyone. They are very jealous. I have dealt with a few and trust me, they are very jealous men and they can get a bit scary with it. So be careful.
"Once when I passed my driving test, I said to the examiner "I LOVE YOU "
I think this was the context. Effortless emotion coming out.
I think this was the context. Effortless emotion coming out.
"with their stereotypical need for reassurance and admiration"
Is that ^^^^ your own assessment, or one you read?
Is this about the same Pisces man that you, Virgo, have been chasing for a couple years, trying to get him, while he remains aloof?
Is that ^^^^ your own assessment, or one you read?
Is this about the same Pisces man that you, Virgo, have been chasing for a couple years, trying to get him, while he remains aloof?
I was wondering how my cappies handle breakups, both ways. Do you find yourself trying to "stay strong" and get through it or do you let your emotions out? I find that in the past I get more cold than usual and quite mean. I've never been dumped, so I don't know how the other half lives. Just wondering how you all handle it either way, in general.
Also, there could be three ways. You could end it, she/he could end it or it could be mutual. Seems as though the latter is pretty rare though.
"I believe depressed is a libra?"- The first thing that came to my head after reading was he's a Libra.It's crazy because,it wasn't until now (After being on this site for a few days)that i see Libras ARE WEIRD.lol(I'm a Libra , please don't take offense.)We really are crazy.lol.Perhaps this is why we'd rather be alone.I'd perfer as well to entertain myself. Don't get me wrong,i enjoy a great party,great conversation but it has to be just that.
"I can put on a convincing social "mask" when the need presents itself"-This is pretty much my life.I feel like this whenever I'm around anyone.Maybe this is one of reasons why we choose to stay to ourselves anf feel most comfortable alone.
"Why would I want to waste my time doing those things just to try to "fit in" or to be a team player? Those kinds of people make no sense to me. I just can not figure out why everyone else doesn't feel the same way I do"- My family and friends think I'm depressed or something is wrong with me because i never show up to anything.I just rather not be bothered.It has to be a certain crowd and atmosphere for me to want to be involved. A uncle of mine was upset with me because i didn't want to be in his wedding.It wasn't nothing toward him i just didn't want to. I would've felt comfortable.I don't like to be in situations where all eyes are on me but, i must be the center of attention.Has anyone felt this way?
"*raises glass* To not understanding each other, understanding that we never will, and still being willing to accept the others viewpoint as valid."- CHEERS!!!!To the depressed,lonely weirdos all around the world.(Not 2 weird tho)lol.It's so good to know its "NORMal" to be loner.lol.
"I can put on a convincing social "mask" when the need presents itself"-This is pretty much my life.I feel like this whenever I'm around anyone.Maybe this is one of reasons why we choose to stay to ourselves anf feel most comfortable alone.
"Why would I want to waste my time doing those things just to try to "fit in" or to be a team player? Those kinds of people make no sense to me. I just can not figure out why everyone else doesn't feel the same way I do"- My family and friends think I'm depressed or something is wrong with me because i never show up to anything.I just rather not be bothered.It has to be a certain crowd and atmosphere for me to want to be involved. A uncle of mine was upset with me because i didn't want to be in his wedding.It wasn't nothing toward him i just didn't want to. I would've felt comfortable.I don't like to be in situations where all eyes are on me but, i must be the center of attention.Has anyone felt this way?
"*raises glass* To not understanding each other, understanding that we never will, and still being willing to accept the others viewpoint as valid."- CHEERS!!!!To the depressed,lonely weirdos all around the world.(Not 2 weird tho)lol.It's so good to know its "NORMal" to be loner.lol.
"I was well and truly on his scene before Miss need a lift came along....didnt take her long to have all the boys running around after her....not that I blame her but its just the whole situation...what makes me so sad though is that yesterday she was just walking around like she didnt have a care in the world and she now knows that Virgo and somebody (she doesnt know its me) have been a casualty over this"
Your jealousy over this other woman reeks ...
Pretty much, the only valuable information you could ever have came from a Virgo on page 7 from Nassau when he said ... he needs to be trusted by the woman he cherishes, without that you got nothing he wants.
If you don't trust, Chatz, then you're worthless to him ... instead of causing all this drama over not getting all the attention because Miss need a lift stole him from your ego because she was in transportation need .... why don't you realize that the issue here is yours, not his?
He has done nothing except help another person .... you on the other hand, have by this thread alone, nominated yourself for an Academy Award over it.
Your jealousy over this other woman reeks ...
Pretty much, the only valuable information you could ever have came from a Virgo on page 7 from Nassau when he said ... he needs to be trusted by the woman he cherishes, without that you got nothing he wants.
If you don't trust, Chatz, then you're worthless to him ... instead of causing all this drama over not getting all the attention because Miss need a lift stole him from your ego because she was in transportation need .... why don't you realize that the issue here is yours, not his?
He has done nothing except help another person .... you on the other hand, have by this thread alone, nominated yourself for an Academy Award over it.
All right! I am with you on Step One all the way. I wonder if our leaders are getting this message though. Since I was 12 years old I have been wearing a button (literally or figuratively) that says OUT NOW... unfortunately it's almost always been apropos. The places we need to be OUT of have varied, but the message is the same. We have finally dragged ourselves out of each place (until now), but more weakened each time. The forces we are ineffectually fighting against will waste away on their own, the stronger and more attractive we (the free world) are. Engaging them directly only strengthens them, as you have so articulately argued.
The one quibble I might have is with the "volunteer" force. I do think maybe all young people (or ALL people) should do a year or two of community service to the country. It would help with unemployment, it would help with all the many tasks that need doing, it would help with the feeling of ownership and participation especially for young people, and it would be a gentle transition from their parents' homes into their own lives. Looking at my 18 year old, she is so burned out with school, but she has no viable choice except to go to college. A year or two out in the world doing community service would do her a lot of good. But the way things are set up now, it would only set her back. If this was expected of everyone (everyone had to do their year or two before they even COULD go to college), not only would it help the kids and the country, but the colleges would be better too because the students would be more mature, more settled down, and ready to study again after a break.
Otherwise, aye to step 1, sure let's hear step 2!
Athena
The one quibble I might have is with the "volunteer" force. I do think maybe all young people (or ALL people) should do a year or two of community service to the country. It would help with unemployment, it would help with all the many tasks that need doing, it would help with the feeling of ownership and participation especially for young people, and it would be a gentle transition from their parents' homes into their own lives. Looking at my 18 year old, she is so burned out with school, but she has no viable choice except to go to college. A year or two out in the world doing community service would do her a lot of good. But the way things are set up now, it would only set her back. If this was expected of everyone (everyone had to do their year or two before they even COULD go to college), not only would it help the kids and the country, but the colleges would be better too because the students would be more mature, more settled down, and ready to study again after a break.
Otherwise, aye to step 1, sure let's hear step 2!
Athena
"I have shown him NO jealousy and that is why I came here...he does NOT know the extent of how I feel right now.
I am hurt, I am angry and Im sorry but if you're in a relationship the normal thing to do is to be able to communicate"
I'm not surprised by this (good eye, VGM) .... it all adds up to the Attention Seeker.
Why would an attention seeker/drama queen actually talk to the other person for purposes of resolving a serious issue?
I mean, if she did that, then there would be nothing to dramatize over because the problem would have been solved calmly ..... through adult communication.
I am hurt, I am angry and Im sorry but if you're in a relationship the normal thing to do is to be able to communicate"
I'm not surprised by this (good eye, VGM) .... it all adds up to the Attention Seeker.
Why would an attention seeker/drama queen actually talk to the other person for purposes of resolving a serious issue?
I mean, if she did that, then there would be nothing to dramatize over because the problem would have been solved calmly ..... through adult communication.
"You say that I should now understand and go and grovel back for this guy ...."
Do you have reading comprehension problems?
I said nothing of the sort ... and every person, except you, who read what I wrote knows full well that I didn't tell you to go grovel to anybody, over anything.
What I said was ... hopefully, he realizes that you were a mistake, but, at least have a lesson he learned from it.
"I dropped off an Easter gift that I had bought almost a month ago now, something very special."
didn't you just say in the other thread yesterday or the day before that you were finished? No more contacting him, if he wants you he knows where to find you? And now, after you were curt to him in that text you wrote about on the other thread, you counter it with a special gift .... when is Easter?
You've made it clear it is over .. so you go and stir him back up with something hand-delivered?
What an attention whore.
Do you have reading comprehension problems?
I said nothing of the sort ... and every person, except you, who read what I wrote knows full well that I didn't tell you to go grovel to anybody, over anything.
What I said was ... hopefully, he realizes that you were a mistake, but, at least have a lesson he learned from it.
"I dropped off an Easter gift that I had bought almost a month ago now, something very special."
didn't you just say in the other thread yesterday or the day before that you were finished? No more contacting him, if he wants you he knows where to find you? And now, after you were curt to him in that text you wrote about on the other thread, you counter it with a special gift .... when is Easter?
You've made it clear it is over .. so you go and stir him back up with something hand-delivered?
What an attention whore.