Why do Scorpio's act like nothing happened?
yeah. the problem is that we internalise things way too much. it's like a form of denial really - by ignoring it, we don't have to deal with it. just bury it away and hope that it goes away too. it's not good though - this inability to confront issues, cos internalising it is only bad for ourselves in the long run. that's one of the ways we sting ourselves.
i regret not speaking up when i needed to in the past but it doesn't happen now i'm older. i think you can sometimes learn to take the risk of appearing 'weak' and to let someone know how you feel because it's the fastest way to dissolve a bad situation without causing too much emotional damage.
scorpios must learn to talk about their fears. that is one of our lessons. in doing so, we can confront them but we can't if they are just stuck away at the back of our minds somewhere.
i regret not speaking up when i needed to in the past but it doesn't happen now i'm older. i think you can sometimes learn to take the risk of appearing 'weak' and to let someone know how you feel because it's the fastest way to dissolve a bad situation without causing too much emotional damage.
scorpios must learn to talk about their fears. that is one of our lessons. in doing so, we can confront them but we can't if they are just stuck away at the back of our minds somewhere.
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As a Virgo man, I've never gotten the "slow route" to work, neither the "friendship".
I always end up being the "good friend, she doesn't want to loose, who is perfect for her"
So all my relationships I had to conjure up in a bolt of fast moving lightning. Make my intentions known early and go for goal.
I always end up being the "good friend, she doesn't want to loose, who is perfect for her"
So all my relationships I had to conjure up in a bolt of fast moving lightning. Make my intentions known early and go for goal.
Yes I have seen that before, good to be reminded of it though. I also didn't agree with the bit about tact. I am very tactful - thought perhaps I was fooling myself but my manager said after a (false) complaint once, "I knew you couldn't have said anything like that - you are the least likely person here to ever hurt somebody's feelings."
Of course, I'm 48 now - perhaps I left a trail of destruction behind me in my Twenties which I was too tactless to notice at the time!
I've succumbed to a lot of the Virgo inhibitions and fears through my life, but no more... I have always seen myself as a work in progress - I accept myself for who I am, but always strive to be more 'myself'. (Scorp Rising?)
And I am an actor! Love it!
Of course, I'm 48 now - perhaps I left a trail of destruction behind me in my Twenties which I was too tactless to notice at the time!
I've succumbed to a lot of the Virgo inhibitions and fears through my life, but no more... I have always seen myself as a work in progress - I accept myself for who I am, but always strive to be more 'myself'. (Scorp Rising?)
And I am an actor! Love it!
Fantastic contribution.
Posted by Gingerscorp
One of the house's here in town has already been on A Haunting on the discovery channel. It was so creepy because when I first moved here I had NO clue about it and I was walking by the sucker every night alone. Then I see it on TV as being extreamly haunted and I'm like "Um wait a min. I know that house."
There are ghost tours and things like that alot here. We get alot of people from all over the States that come here to go one the tours and stay at the haunted Bed and Breakfast places.
Look up Atchison Ks. It's also the birth town of Ameila Earhart and a Lewis and Clark camping site. There is alot of hisory here. We have alot of old mansions and crap like that. My guy and I are looking for a new house and we're both nervous that we'll get one that is haunted.
WOW! i was just looking at some of the stuff on the internet. the houses there are extremely bueatiful. it's amazing, it seems like it would be like living in point pleasent, w. va. now that town has a shrewed past tho lol. my 6th great-grandfather is barried there and ppl claim he is the responsible for the town being cursed, since his death. his name is Chief Cornstalk of the Shawnee tribe. we didn't even know we were related to him until my grandmother did a geneology on our family.
i wouldn't be worried about moving into a haunted house. but i've also, had a handful of experiences and it just doesn't scare me anymore. once, i lived in a house, where my migraine meds would come up missing all the time. i would find my perscription bottle in places i would never dream of putting it. in the same house, i dealt with something that would mess with my son, alot. also, my daughter claimed that she used to play with a boy named "bobby". i was freaked out then cuz it was my first experience with all of it. the things that my son would go through were really horrible. he was under a year old, and would be down for a nap. i would hear him screaming for the other room. i'd run to him and as soon as i opened the door there would be this really grotesquely tall man looming over him. i'd go other there and the man would just disappear into thin air. sometimes at night, i would go outside after the kids were in bed and i would see this same man pacing the house. as soon as i would get inside, he would be gone.
then i lived in a house that used to house slaves and i would always see this guy sitti
sitting on some old stairs that ended in a wall. i assume there used to be a door there at one point. it was taken out and it just looked like someone had just put a wall with siding up. i would see him sitting there and i would say something to him and he would just disappear. it only happened a few times tho. i thought i was outa my mind with house before and this one. but i had witnesses that saw the same things.
another house i lived in was haunted, but nothing serious. just things would be moved or i would "feel" someone there and turn around and no one would be there. or i would hear someone using the bathroom or kitchen and i was the only one there at the time.
the house i live in now is haunted also. in the basement, you will smell perfume and hear a lil girl laugh. when i'm down there something will play with my hair. upstairs, you always hear someone walking around, but there's no one in the house but you.
LOL! i guess you could say that i've learned to live peacfully with them.
another house i lived in was haunted, but nothing serious. just things would be moved or i would "feel" someone there and turn around and no one would be there. or i would hear someone using the bathroom or kitchen and i was the only one there at the time.
the house i live in now is haunted also. in the basement, you will smell perfume and hear a lil girl laugh. when i'm down there something will play with my hair. upstairs, you always hear someone walking around, but there's no one in the house but you.
LOL! i guess you could say that i've learned to live peacfully with them.
Posted by starsapphire91
hi rockchick10110!
i believe that if it's in god's plan for me to be with someone in life, then i will, and it will happen when god wants it to, so i really have nothing to do with it.
I remember when I was a young teenager and living at home with my parents .... and my sisters room smelled really bad.
My sister never changed her underwear ... and the crotchitosis was quite nausiating.
Even my mother couldn't get her to change them .... she said that god told her what to do and if he wanted clean ones on her ass .... only then would she change them.
I have to disagree with the beach setting. First of all, we're born in the winter. Also, we're usually too busy to be found sunning on the beach and most caps I know are more indoorsy people. I would ham it up and have them dress up in business attire and glasses (of course) with several different technological devices. Maybe typing on a laptop while talking on the cellphone and drinking Starbucks while sending a fax.
This is good advice guys ;]
I think the girl's night over is a great idea. Like I said; he's wonderful, and I just want to keep it that way. (without the relationship losing its luster of course lol)
I think the girl's night over is a great idea. Like I said; he's wonderful, and I just want to keep it that way. (without the relationship losing its luster of course lol)
Hey FLeo, you comments got me tickle pink. Not to be rude...but your reactions to a comment made by P-Angel is way loooong and that got me tickled.
You are definitely a fire sign. haha...Cos' if I were you, I couldn't be bothered. Who cares? I need not explain to anybody where my relationship lies with my hubby. And that's probably why Taureans are boring. haha...
Back to the topic...on how to impress a Pisces. I think it's the same way you impress other people or other signs...the answer is don't need to. haha...Just be yourself. If it's meant to be, then it's meant to be. It's better to be in love with someone who like the way you are.
You are definitely a fire sign. haha...Cos' if I were you, I couldn't be bothered. Who cares? I need not explain to anybody where my relationship lies with my hubby. And that's probably why Taureans are boring. haha...
Back to the topic...on how to impress a Pisces. I think it's the same way you impress other people or other signs...the answer is don't need to. haha...Just be yourself. If it's meant to be, then it's meant to be. It's better to be in love with someone who like the way you are.