Is this Virgo man gone for good or is he analyzing
It isn't uncommon for people who are self-absorbed to be confused about what is going on with other people ....
"I guess he meant this as a polite way of rejecting me. I was heartbroken but did not show it.
However I do not think that I am ugly."
.. and then you proceed to give description of why you don't think you are ugly, as if this has anything to do with why a person isn't into you.
That is very superficial and extremely egotistical on your part, Taurus lady .. that you would view his feelings for you according to your physical attributes. Feelings that a man has for a woman isn't based on whether she wears size 5 or 16, it isn't based on whether she has smooth skin or blemishes, etc .. yet, when you try to figure out why you were rejected by him on an emotional level, you proceeded to say that you can't figure out why and then described how you look on the outside, as if it was a determining factor for how he should feel for you.
The only way for you to figure this out ... is by first removing your ego from the equation, and to realize that if he does/doesn't like you, it will be a matter of how he FEELS for you, and not how you think he should consider your looks. Once you consider his feelings, rather than yourself .. then you'll understand what this means ..
"He said that he cared a lot about our friendship and I need to understand that."
"I guess he meant this as a polite way of rejecting me. I was heartbroken but did not show it.
However I do not think that I am ugly."
.. and then you proceed to give description of why you don't think you are ugly, as if this has anything to do with why a person isn't into you.
That is very superficial and extremely egotistical on your part, Taurus lady .. that you would view his feelings for you according to your physical attributes. Feelings that a man has for a woman isn't based on whether she wears size 5 or 16, it isn't based on whether she has smooth skin or blemishes, etc .. yet, when you try to figure out why you were rejected by him on an emotional level, you proceeded to say that you can't figure out why and then described how you look on the outside, as if it was a determining factor for how he should feel for you.
The only way for you to figure this out ... is by first removing your ego from the equation, and to realize that if he does/doesn't like you, it will be a matter of how he FEELS for you, and not how you think he should consider your looks. Once you consider his feelings, rather than yourself .. then you'll understand what this means ..
"He said that he cared a lot about our friendship and I need to understand that."
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sorry about the typo meant to say that he is NOT exclusive right now
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Not me.. My mom and I have the same birthday.
I have to say that I agree. You do just know. I've heard some people say that they were with the person awhile and one day realized they didn't want to live without them. I've also heard people say they knew when they first met the person. Personally, I knew when I met my husband. I was 34 years old, had been in long term relationships before but never had I felt for someone the way I felt for him and yes it was immediate. The first kiss sent chills down my spine. Don't get me wrong, there were problems and break ups but at the end of the day. We always came back to each other.
All I can say is, you don't know how it's going to happen for you. You can meet "the one" but it may time you some time to realize it. Also, I'm not so sure it's only one person either. But the person you do choose, should be the one that you don't see yourself being without. Anything less than that i.e. we're good friends, we get along great or as someone suggested you can tolerate each other. To me, seems like settling. Don't settle, keep looking until you find it. I was 36 years old, when I married (for the first time). I'm so glad I waited for him.
All I can say is, you don't know how it's going to happen for you. You can meet "the one" but it may time you some time to realize it. Also, I'm not so sure it's only one person either. But the person you do choose, should be the one that you don't see yourself being without. Anything less than that i.e. we're good friends, we get along great or as someone suggested you can tolerate each other. To me, seems like settling. Don't settle, keep looking until you find it. I was 36 years old, when I married (for the first time). I'm so glad I waited for him.
Well we can't see the clouds whilst underground, huh Dyar?
From my observations, I could say quite a few of Superheroes behave like Virgos.
Dr. Manhattan [Watchmen]
Cyclops [X-Men]
Hannibal Lecter [Silence of the Lambs]
Jason Bourne [Bourne movies] - He actually has his birthday in September on one of the files shown
The Transporter - Jason Statham is an awesome Virgo
Edward Cullen [Twilight]
Spawn
Kratos [God of War]
Cloud Strife [Final Fantasy VII]
Squall Lionheart [Final Fantasy VIII]
Just my personal opinion, I am curious to learn whom you all find are Virgo like.
Dr. Manhattan [Watchmen]
Cyclops [X-Men]
Hannibal Lecter [Silence of the Lambs]
Jason Bourne [Bourne movies] - He actually has his birthday in September on one of the files shown
The Transporter - Jason Statham is an awesome Virgo
Edward Cullen [Twilight]
Spawn
Kratos [God of War]
Cloud Strife [Final Fantasy VII]
Squall Lionheart [Final Fantasy VIII]
Just my personal opinion, I am curious to learn whom you all find are Virgo like.
It's based on your preference, to me you can't beat the charisma of a cancer. They're beautiful at first site, but whenever I have tried to date one it never works!!
I once went out with another Librian and yes he cheated, in fact he cheated on other gf's too. I also cheated on past bf's...we were younger then teenagers in fact. Dont know if that hasmuch to do with it?!?! Never cheated on my marriage partner in 20 years...
Food for thought. My BFF is a Saggy woman. Her best friend is her horse... and I'm her Best horse buddy. Her husband is a Cappy BTW.
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I wondered the same thing. I'm a Taurus rising but I don't feel it at all. Nada. Zip. I wondered if I'm not a Taurus/Aries cusp rising. How do you know if you are close to the cusp? I'm really curious about this.