Lifes hard choices...
Sometimes, friendships can't last no matter how long you've known somebody. Your friend has made some terrible decisions, that he will likely regret in the long run. Hopefully, it won't be too long considering a child is involved.
I would tell him exactly how I feel about what he did, why I became involved and why I did what I thought was right in the situation. This friend of yours seems to have some serious problems, if he truly is an alcoholic. But he is also young...I am assuming he is close in age to you. That is a lot of responsibility to face and a lot of life changes to accept.
I wouldn't shut the door completely on this friendship, but I would make it clear I wouldn't participate in the bad decisions that have been made and that I wouldn't condone them or tolerate them. If he could possibly heal the situation in any way, your support and trust could slowly come back.
I would tell him exactly how I feel about what he did, why I became involved and why I did what I thought was right in the situation. This friend of yours seems to have some serious problems, if he truly is an alcoholic. But he is also young...I am assuming he is close in age to you. That is a lot of responsibility to face and a lot of life changes to accept.
I wouldn't shut the door completely on this friendship, but I would make it clear I wouldn't participate in the bad decisions that have been made and that I wouldn't condone them or tolerate them. If he could possibly heal the situation in any way, your support and trust could slowly come back.
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That's hard to say. You have to kinda be more specific.
I "test" when a situation presents itself. It depends on the situation.
The whole testing thing is really not fair. It's a dirty thing to do. I do it without even realizing it and then I justify it by telling myself I'm doing to see if the person will hurt me in the future depending on if they "pass" or not. It's a form of protection. But in the end it still doesn't make it right. There's been many times that I've realized that I was pushing someone to do something to "test" them and I'd become ashamed of myself and quit being a jerk. It's one of my more shameful qualities.
Off the top of my head ... starting a fight over somthing small just to see how a person would react is a test I've done. Basically it's just to push you emotionally to see what we can get away with and reveal a little more of the things that aren't on the surface.
It's really dumb if you ask me but I'm guilty of it
I "test" when a situation presents itself. It depends on the situation.
The whole testing thing is really not fair. It's a dirty thing to do. I do it without even realizing it and then I justify it by telling myself I'm doing to see if the person will hurt me in the future depending on if they "pass" or not. It's a form of protection. But in the end it still doesn't make it right. There's been many times that I've realized that I was pushing someone to do something to "test" them and I'd become ashamed of myself and quit being a jerk. It's one of my more shameful qualities.
Off the top of my head ... starting a fight over somthing small just to see how a person would react is a test I've done. Basically it's just to push you emotionally to see what we can get away with and reveal a little more of the things that aren't on the surface.
It's really dumb if you ask me but I'm guilty of it
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"HE'S the one who signed up for the dating with you so it's not your fault & shouldn't take you through these emotional rollercoasters just b/c HE can't seem to get his emotions under control."
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"i confronted him about the phone call he got childish and pretended he wasnt himself"
"Later, that evening after I say something about another man bein present in my life"
Krys, apparantly you must be into emotional head-games to fuck with peoples heads also ... because you cannot recognize its presence.
::::::: shakes head :::::::
People are fucked up.
Goddam right she has fault in this emotional rollercoaster ......
"I find out other information, basically about him and other females."
"i confronted him about the phone call he got childish and pretended he wasnt himself"
"Later, that evening after I say something about another man bein present in my life"
Krys, apparantly you must be into emotional head-games to fuck with peoples heads also ... because you cannot recognize its presence.
::::::: shakes head :::::::
People are fucked up.