: ) Different Virgo
This has happen to me with a libra we know each other in school. never thought of her an any way. than we graduated she was looking so good to me. i made my move we fool around. i didn't know she had a boy friend long distance. she was still in love with him. i had a little feelings for her. over the years i would see her time to time still had feelings 4 her. 3yrs later i called she was single made my move. she said i change it was great but it could never be 
she has problems trouble past the more i try the more she push me away to a point were she did sum thing i could not forgive. i should have known to stop bc astrology but i don't want to live my life like that. she has venus square moon real bad in women. they can't be with people they truely love sum type of fear i guess.
she has problems trouble past the more i try the more she push me away to a point were she did sum thing i could not forgive. i should have known to stop bc astrology but i don't want to live my life like that. she has venus square moon real bad in women. they can't be with people they truely love sum type of fear i guess.Leave Your Feedback
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We get annoyed at each other, we squabble and we make up
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Just a little lovin from a Scorpio. You guys rock!!
He's protective, loving, and for some reason understanding of my watery emotional melt downs. He never wavers. He's always solid as a rock. I've always been the type to take it all on myself but lately I've realized that we are in this together. His worries become mine and vice versa. It's a wonderful thing to have a partner as strong as he is
We get annoyed at each other, we squabble and we make up
Yet he's always there for me. I really love him.Just a little lovin from a Scorpio. You guys rock!!
You are what I refer to as a Thater .. it's been awhile since I talked in here about Thaters. At one time, I talked a lot about them.
And you are one ... you are a Thater. In fact, most people are. I'm what I call a Whater, and being a Whater, it's very difficult for me to understand Thaters.
Whater = see's What is happening
Thater = reacts to That something happened
You react to That something happened, or somebody said or did something. Even in your answer to me, you talked a good line, all serious and mature and shit, like ...
"I believe into talking through problems, instead of hiding your head in the sand waiting for better days to come. And for most I believe that if you are not friends, you will not be able to be so open with each other" ...... when I said what I did, you reacted by saying That.
When in reality .... What is happening in your relationship is totally different because there is no talking through it, no compromises, no openness ..... he stated unequivicolly, he's not going on vacation with you, and he is going with his friends to Maine, whether you go or not.
No talking through this problem ..... you even said, in which I touched on already, that he's had to repeatedly tell you he's not going .. which means you have already attempted to do this talking "That" you think is what is happening here more than once already in order for him to have to keep telling you.
You think the proper way is to be open and talk ..... yet, What is happening here is that you have approached this with him already, more than once, if he's had to tell you repeatedly that he's not going on vacation with you ..... but, because you are a Thater, and cannot see What is happening .... you still believe That you are going to talk to him openly about a problem and he'll reciprocate and converse with you for resolution to a problem.
When in reality, What will happen when you talk to him AGAIN .... you'll piss him off, but, because you are a Thater, you won't comprehend why he's pissed off, you won't understand that it's becaue you are burdening him with being a Thater ... What he'll be pissed off about is that you aren't getting what is happening here, and trying to talk to him about something he already told you he didn't want to do.
It makes you a Thater .... you can only see That talking is suppose to happen .... and no solid grip in reality of "What" is actually happening.
And you are one ... you are a Thater. In fact, most people are. I'm what I call a Whater, and being a Whater, it's very difficult for me to understand Thaters.
Whater = see's What is happening
Thater = reacts to That something happened
You react to That something happened, or somebody said or did something. Even in your answer to me, you talked a good line, all serious and mature and shit, like ...
"I believe into talking through problems, instead of hiding your head in the sand waiting for better days to come. And for most I believe that if you are not friends, you will not be able to be so open with each other" ...... when I said what I did, you reacted by saying That.
When in reality .... What is happening in your relationship is totally different because there is no talking through it, no compromises, no openness ..... he stated unequivicolly, he's not going on vacation with you, and he is going with his friends to Maine, whether you go or not.
No talking through this problem ..... you even said, in which I touched on already, that he's had to repeatedly tell you he's not going .. which means you have already attempted to do this talking "That" you think is what is happening here more than once already in order for him to have to keep telling you.
You think the proper way is to be open and talk ..... yet, What is happening here is that you have approached this with him already, more than once, if he's had to tell you repeatedly that he's not going on vacation with you ..... but, because you are a Thater, and cannot see What is happening .... you still believe That you are going to talk to him openly about a problem and he'll reciprocate and converse with you for resolution to a problem.
When in reality, What will happen when you talk to him AGAIN .... you'll piss him off, but, because you are a Thater, you won't comprehend why he's pissed off, you won't understand that it's becaue you are burdening him with being a Thater ... What he'll be pissed off about is that you aren't getting what is happening here, and trying to talk to him about something he already told you he didn't want to do.
It makes you a Thater .... you can only see That talking is suppose to happen .... and no solid grip in reality of "What" is actually happening.
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10. Delusional Donna: Pisces
lol, that's funny ..... probably what makes it most funny is that Pisces people know that it's everybody else who is deluded, but, they think it's us .... and that's funny as shit.
The irony, that is.
lol, that's funny ..... probably what makes it most funny is that Pisces people know that it's everybody else who is deluded, but, they think it's us .... and that's funny as shit.
The irony, that is.
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Christ, I have a bit of insomnia and find out DXP is ALIVE in the middle of the night. Satori, I'm not speaking for Nihi as much as making my own commentary.
I have a Scorp gal that I chased a few years back that still is pretty close to me. From what I've learned from her as well as what some other scorps on DXP have posted, if its a serious relationship, scorps will do everything in their power to keep it together and find a way to make it work, no matter if the means or end result is destructive.
She meets this Gemini who just sweeps her off her feet to the point where he moves into her house with his son. The relationship is pretty hot and heavy so she's totally into it. He's unemployed at this time but she's okay with it as her rose colored "I'm in this amazing relationship" glasses are on. As with any relationship worth having, you try to take the bad with the good. 6 months come and go, he's still unemployed just sitting around her house playing video games. She's having to put more and more expenses on her credit. The relationship is slowly starting to change at this point. Its not as hot and heavy as it used to be. She's starting to feel it take the tone of "taking care" of someone rather than "being involved" with someone.
During the next 6 months, things start to worsen. He's still unemployed, she's had to max out her credit to support them all, and the relationship for him has evolved into "Are you going to be able to take care of this for me?", "I don't want to do this, can you do it for me?", etc etc. They're no longer having sex.
As it stands now, she sold her big house and bought a small house to help stabilize the situation. She's finally understanding what I mean when I tell her when he says "he LOVES her", he really means "He LOVES being taken care of by her". She knows its a lost cause and ultimately a destructive relationship she needs to end but she abhors the idea of "giving up".
Mind you, she's pretty, super smart (lawyer), and really sharp. Strong in her own right, hell she was able to withstand my charming advances at a serious relationship
. But in this situation, was committed to trying to make this relationship work, no matter the cost.
Anyways, none of this is meant to be judgmental so much as to show that I've come to learn Scorps can have a very STRONG propensity to loyalty regarding something they truly care about, even if it is destructive in some manner.
I have a Scorp gal that I chased a few years back that still is pretty close to me. From what I've learned from her as well as what some other scorps on DXP have posted, if its a serious relationship, scorps will do everything in their power to keep it together and find a way to make it work, no matter if the means or end result is destructive.
She meets this Gemini who just sweeps her off her feet to the point where he moves into her house with his son. The relationship is pretty hot and heavy so she's totally into it. He's unemployed at this time but she's okay with it as her rose colored "I'm in this amazing relationship" glasses are on. As with any relationship worth having, you try to take the bad with the good. 6 months come and go, he's still unemployed just sitting around her house playing video games. She's having to put more and more expenses on her credit. The relationship is slowly starting to change at this point. Its not as hot and heavy as it used to be. She's starting to feel it take the tone of "taking care" of someone rather than "being involved" with someone.
During the next 6 months, things start to worsen. He's still unemployed, she's had to max out her credit to support them all, and the relationship for him has evolved into "Are you going to be able to take care of this for me?", "I don't want to do this, can you do it for me?", etc etc. They're no longer having sex.
As it stands now, she sold her big house and bought a small house to help stabilize the situation. She's finally understanding what I mean when I tell her when he says "he LOVES her", he really means "He LOVES being taken care of by her". She knows its a lost cause and ultimately a destructive relationship she needs to end but she abhors the idea of "giving up".
Mind you, she's pretty, super smart (lawyer), and really sharp. Strong in her own right, hell she was able to withstand my charming advances at a serious relationship
. But in this situation, was committed to trying to make this relationship work, no matter the cost.Anyways, none of this is meant to be judgmental so much as to show that I've come to learn Scorps can have a very STRONG propensity to loyalty regarding something they truly care about, even if it is destructive in some manner.