does this combo go together?
The reason why I'm asking is because this I will say my story.
I moved for guy 2, last june we were having some complications and have been together 8 years. 2 years ago I was living in chicago away from him because he got a new job an had been hiding his friends an didnt let me meet them so I left. I lived at home for a year he always told me it would take him years to get over me but it didnt look like it, because when I came back last year because he begged me into coming back saying he would change one of the girls who hung out with him last year said he got a girlfriend right after we broke up an then she screwed him over an cheated on him, thats karma.
I asked him about it an he said that the girl who told me lied about it an then I told her an she said why would i lie, i met this girl he used to hang out in the parking lot after work with her. Like this girl knew her name an everything.
so after he got dumped by this girl he had another co worker that worked with him that he liked soo much lets call her Kay. Kay had a boyfriend so like 2 years ago he tried to get her too but she never liked him like that. his own sister told me he would take kay out two years ago like she would say how she didnt want to hurt her boyfriend an he would get mixed signals from her. I was so stuck on him for those years like i wanted to date him so bad i never dated anyone i swear on my grandpas grave. little did i know he was dating around an trying to get these girls.
Well last year i moved here, an he promised not to talk to any of these girls he works with because they were giving me trouble an even seeing anyone but me. Last september he made a facebook account because kay had one an i was feeling a little off like something was wrong, an i made a facebook account an seen she had one so i added her on my fake account an i found out he was giving her comments calling her pretty saying how he missed hanging out with her.
and i confronted him about it an while he was picking me up from work an he would cry an scream an start having a huge panic attack that i found out an say he was sorry an i said i was leaving i was packing my stuff going back home to chicago he said please no sorry i wont do it again i was stupid i was just trying to make her feel better because she was going through a rough time with her boyfriend. I didnt mean what i said, thats what he told me. after a while i forgave him. so he deleted his facebook.
I moved for guy 2, last june we were having some complications and have been together 8 years. 2 years ago I was living in chicago away from him because he got a new job an had been hiding his friends an didnt let me meet them so I left. I lived at home for a year he always told me it would take him years to get over me but it didnt look like it, because when I came back last year because he begged me into coming back saying he would change one of the girls who hung out with him last year said he got a girlfriend right after we broke up an then she screwed him over an cheated on him, thats karma.
I asked him about it an he said that the girl who told me lied about it an then I told her an she said why would i lie, i met this girl he used to hang out in the parking lot after work with her. Like this girl knew her name an everything.
so after he got dumped by this girl he had another co worker that worked with him that he liked soo much lets call her Kay. Kay had a boyfriend so like 2 years ago he tried to get her too but she never liked him like that. his own sister told me he would take kay out two years ago like she would say how she didnt want to hurt her boyfriend an he would get mixed signals from her. I was so stuck on him for those years like i wanted to date him so bad i never dated anyone i swear on my grandpas grave. little did i know he was dating around an trying to get these girls.
Well last year i moved here, an he promised not to talk to any of these girls he works with because they were giving me trouble an even seeing anyone but me. Last september he made a facebook account because kay had one an i was feeling a little off like something was wrong, an i made a facebook account an seen she had one so i added her on my fake account an i found out he was giving her comments calling her pretty saying how he missed hanging out with her.
and i confronted him about it an while he was picking me up from work an he would cry an scream an start having a huge panic attack that i found out an say he was sorry an i said i was leaving i was packing my stuff going back home to chicago he said please no sorry i wont do it again i was stupid i was just trying to make her feel better because she was going through a rough time with her boyfriend. I didnt mean what i said, thats what he told me. after a while i forgave him. so he deleted his facebook.
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Posted by Cajunspirit
Virgoking and Virgo07, I too have been subject to this friend zoning crap.
Always ending up as "the friend they would never want to loose".
Yet, at the same time I am the perfect man for them. Virgo men really tend to have almost all the qualities a woman could want in a man, no other male comes close.
I would agree w/ you cajun. I've never really been exposed to a virgo man before, but my boss is a virgo, and he has been a huge mentor to me. Very understanding and willing to look past certain things, and genuienlly wants his employees to succeed. One of my really good friends is a male virgo, and he completely respects and accepts my strong independence. He's the first male, really, to not try and compete with me, try to demolish, degrade, dominate, or feel threatened by it. It's such a relief at times for me, and I don't feel like I have to be guarded all the time.
I have feelings for him, but I also know I fuck things up. I will only keep him as a friend, because that is how much I respect him, and I don't want anything to ruin that. But as far as a partner goes, yes, he exhibits almost all the things that I look for. I don't doubt that it would be all things, but the risk of losing him as a friend is not worth risk, and I am an Aries. Typically, I take on risks as a challenge, but not this one.
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