Do all Scorpios feel unloved without sex?
I am like that. First love of course....but I need physical also.
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Well today i was just going about my day and he would not stop looking over at me, staring then looking away quickly when i would look up and catch him and he has said that he doesn't want to be a "ucnt"...and that apparently he feels guilty for inviting all our work mates to his place on the weekend ...but not me. This apparently explains his staring lol....for what the whole 9 months?...and then he started trying to get my attention again. Talking about pointless crap and trying to get near me....i just don't know what he is trying to do.lol
Thanks for your comments 
Archer - he instigated a talk about 2 weeks ago asking if I would mind him calling me his gf. I said yes, as we'd already said that we wouldn't see other people. This is not something he does a lot it seems, he hasn't had a gf in years, he says he's just had casual flings and the occasional girl he has liked a lot has not been interested in taking it further. This girl...he says it was years ago that they slept together and to be honest it's none of my business anyway, I don't need or want to know the details, as long as it's not been when he's with me. Which from his actions, I'm positive it hasn't.
What got me so prickled about the whole situation was his constant nagging about being honest and then he does the exact opposite. In my opinion, he should never have mentioned it, I wouldn't bring up about people that like me as it only upsets your partner and can bring on bouts of jealousy.
He definitely doesn't like confrontations, that was apparent when I was talking to him. He finally rang me last night and said that he was upset because he's put in so much effort (which he has) to show how much he likes me and that by me questioning him about this girl it made him feel unappreciated.
Archer - he instigated a talk about 2 weeks ago asking if I would mind him calling me his gf. I said yes, as we'd already said that we wouldn't see other people. This is not something he does a lot it seems, he hasn't had a gf in years, he says he's just had casual flings and the occasional girl he has liked a lot has not been interested in taking it further. This girl...he says it was years ago that they slept together and to be honest it's none of my business anyway, I don't need or want to know the details, as long as it's not been when he's with me. Which from his actions, I'm positive it hasn't.
What got me so prickled about the whole situation was his constant nagging about being honest and then he does the exact opposite. In my opinion, he should never have mentioned it, I wouldn't bring up about people that like me as it only upsets your partner and can bring on bouts of jealousy.
He definitely doesn't like confrontations, that was apparent when I was talking to him. He finally rang me last night and said that he was upset because he's put in so much effort (which he has) to show how much he likes me and that by me questioning him about this girl it made him feel unappreciated.
it has nothing to do with being shallow..i am often like that,,i hang out a lot with some friend,,then bam im off to other stuff,i may not call for 2 weeks or something,,then i call up and we hang out again.,
Its that we get bored,,and need space,,i actually often thought when i where younger that the "fault" of theese conflicts where in me,,ive realised that i cut off people who get "different" if not calling them every other day..
Most of my closest friends are sags..they dont mind at all if i dont call for a month or whatever,,but if i call them when gotten back from "hiatus" they are just the same way i left them,,,THATS friendship..try doing that to a scorpio...
so my advice,:dont take it personally..explain to her how you feel and so on..and the thing when you hang out in a croud and she didnt *"see"* you,,was probably because she didnt consider those other people to be as close friends to her as you..so she felt like she had to entertain them in some way.
Its that we get bored,,and need space,,i actually often thought when i where younger that the "fault" of theese conflicts where in me,,ive realised that i cut off people who get "different" if not calling them every other day..
Most of my closest friends are sags..they dont mind at all if i dont call for a month or whatever,,but if i call them when gotten back from "hiatus" they are just the same way i left them,,,THATS friendship..try doing that to a scorpio...
so my advice,:dont take it personally..explain to her how you feel and so on..and the thing when you hang out in a croud and she didnt *"see"* you,,was probably because she didnt consider those other people to be as close friends to her as you..so she felt like she had to entertain them in some way.
Thanks for the advice guys
I think you're right, guys always know about guys. My female friends were a little more like, 'well, she probably does like him, but nothing's happened', where as my guy friends were like, 'yeah, if she was offering it, he took it'. I'm deciding to let it pass this time, but just take a small step back and keep my eyes peeled. His actions show that he thinks a lot about me, he's always wanting to see me, buys me things, makes time for us to do fun stuff together. So I think I need to swallow that Taurean stubborness and jealousy, take a deep breath and not let myself ruin what could be a great thing by being negative. Before this came up, things were brillaint between us.
I think you're right, guys always know about guys. My female friends were a little more like, 'well, she probably does like him, but nothing's happened', where as my guy friends were like, 'yeah, if she was offering it, he took it'. I'm deciding to let it pass this time, but just take a small step back and keep my eyes peeled. His actions show that he thinks a lot about me, he's always wanting to see me, buys me things, makes time for us to do fun stuff together. So I think I need to swallow that Taurean stubborness and jealousy, take a deep breath and not let myself ruin what could be a great thing by being negative. Before this came up, things were brillaint between us.
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SC I would suggest you read the commitment cure by Rhonda Findling, it's less than $ 10 and you can download it and read it online. He isn't trying to do anything but waste your time. He's arbitrarily excluding you which means he has no no REAL interest outside of playing games which he is clearly doing.
The ambivalent behavior, the staring but excluding you is driving your scorpio mind crazy. I would suggest avoiding this clown for awhile, maybe even transfering or keeping it strictly platonic work talk.
He's not interested in a real relationship, he wish you weren't either so he could continue to play with you but he must keep his distance as to not lead you on and create drama. I know you girls wish it was this huge mystery why these guys act the way they do but it's not, it's pretty simple once you know ambivalent commitment phobic assclown language.
Sigh...again
Ambivalence (am-biv-e-lens) n. 1. The existence of mixed feelings toward someone or something. Difficulty in reaching a decision.
Ambivalent Man (am-biv-e-lent man) n. Abbreviation: AM. 1. One who exhibits or feels ambivalence toward women. 2. One who plays games. He wants a relationship; he wants to break up. He??s confused, mixed up, inconsistent, and unpredictable. Yet he??s irresistible and easy to fall in love with . . . and almost sure to cause a broken heart.
The Ambivalent Man can be anyone- the cute guy from the office, the hunk from the gym, or the intellectual from the coffee shop. No matter how you define him, there's no denying that it's easy to fall for him- and tough to get over him. He's charismatic and exciting. he says all the right things. Each time he calls, you drop everything to be with him. But just as things start heating up, he pulls away, leaving you wondering what you did wrong.It's not you, it's him!
The ambivalent behavior, the staring but excluding you is driving your scorpio mind crazy. I would suggest avoiding this clown for awhile, maybe even transfering or keeping it strictly platonic work talk.
He's not interested in a real relationship, he wish you weren't either so he could continue to play with you but he must keep his distance as to not lead you on and create drama. I know you girls wish it was this huge mystery why these guys act the way they do but it's not, it's pretty simple once you know ambivalent commitment phobic assclown language.
Sigh...again
Ambivalence (am-biv-e-lens) n. 1. The existence of mixed feelings toward someone or something. Difficulty in reaching a decision.
Ambivalent Man (am-biv-e-lent man) n. Abbreviation: AM. 1. One who exhibits or feels ambivalence toward women. 2. One who plays games. He wants a relationship; he wants to break up. He??s confused, mixed up, inconsistent, and unpredictable. Yet he??s irresistible and easy to fall in love with . . . and almost sure to cause a broken heart.
The Ambivalent Man can be anyone- the cute guy from the office, the hunk from the gym, or the intellectual from the coffee shop. No matter how you define him, there's no denying that it's easy to fall for him- and tough to get over him. He's charismatic and exciting. he says all the right things. Each time he calls, you drop everything to be with him. But just as things start heating up, he pulls away, leaving you wondering what you did wrong.It's not you, it's him!
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Hi Greenfish, I can only give you an idea of what I'd be thinking in this instance. And I've had 2 longterm relationships with Pisces men (although they were a little too sensitive for me :p)
Firstly, I've never had a long-distance relationship. But if I was talking to someone on a daily basis for a year and a half, my feelings for them would have to be very strong. Also, if I had asked you to come visit and you kept making excuses I'd probably take a huge step back and wonder why on earth I was bothering (which seems to have happened in your case). Once that trust has been broken, for a Taurus it can be very hard to get it back to 100% . But if you perservere it could work.
If I were you, I'd continue contact with her. Don't nag her about the way she has reacted; the fact she still has so much contact with you speaks volumes. Send her sweet little messages and remind her of why she fell for you in the first place. You also need to speak to her about why you got 'cold feet'. Open up to her, let her see that you truly want to have a 'proper' relationship with her that is going somewhere in the long term. I'd want concrete answers as to why you reacted the way you did in order to understand. All Taureans need stability and reassurance, especially in relationships, and unfortunately sometimes this is achieved through being Mr/Mrs Nag; all questions need to be answered so that everything can be put in perspective. I doubt the new guy she's dating means as much to her as you do, perhaps she wanted to have some fun and forget about the heartache she was feeling after you refused to go visit her.
Hope this helps a little bit. I hope it works out for you
Firstly, I've never had a long-distance relationship. But if I was talking to someone on a daily basis for a year and a half, my feelings for them would have to be very strong. Also, if I had asked you to come visit and you kept making excuses I'd probably take a huge step back and wonder why on earth I was bothering (which seems to have happened in your case). Once that trust has been broken, for a Taurus it can be very hard to get it back to 100% . But if you perservere it could work.
If I were you, I'd continue contact with her. Don't nag her about the way she has reacted; the fact she still has so much contact with you speaks volumes. Send her sweet little messages and remind her of why she fell for you in the first place. You also need to speak to her about why you got 'cold feet'. Open up to her, let her see that you truly want to have a 'proper' relationship with her that is going somewhere in the long term. I'd want concrete answers as to why you reacted the way you did in order to understand. All Taureans need stability and reassurance, especially in relationships, and unfortunately sometimes this is achieved through being Mr/Mrs Nag; all questions need to be answered so that everything can be put in perspective. I doubt the new guy she's dating means as much to her as you do, perhaps she wanted to have some fun and forget about the heartache she was feeling after you refused to go visit her.
Hope this helps a little bit. I hope it works out for you
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