Do all Scorpios feel unloved without sex?
Posted by True_Scorp
I know our sign tends to be more sexual, but I'm wondering?
Do any other Scorpios feel like their world is crashing in and their
mate does not love them if they don't have sex at least 2-3 times a week?
I feel like I'm emotionally drained or something?
Any thoughts or ideas?
Wait, a minimum of 2-3 times a week? You need this? Well the only logical question to ask you here is, do you have a sister?
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SC I would suggest you read the commitment cure by Rhonda Findling, it's less than $ 10 and you can download it and read it online. He isn't trying to do anything but waste your time. He's arbitrarily excluding you which means he has no no REAL interest outside of playing games which he is clearly doing.
The ambivalent behavior, the staring but excluding you is driving your scorpio mind crazy. I would suggest avoiding this clown for awhile, maybe even transfering or keeping it strictly platonic work talk.
He's not interested in a real relationship, he wish you weren't either so he could continue to play with you but he must keep his distance as to not lead you on and create drama. I know you girls wish it was this huge mystery why these guys act the way they do but it's not, it's pretty simple once you know ambivalent commitment phobic assclown language.
Sigh...again
Ambivalence (am-biv-e-lens) n. 1. The existence of mixed feelings toward someone or something. Difficulty in reaching a decision.
Ambivalent Man (am-biv-e-lent man) n. Abbreviation: AM. 1. One who exhibits or feels ambivalence toward women. 2. One who plays games. He wants a relationship; he wants to break up. He??s confused, mixed up, inconsistent, and unpredictable. Yet he??s irresistible and easy to fall in love with . . . and almost sure to cause a broken heart.
The Ambivalent Man can be anyone- the cute guy from the office, the hunk from the gym, or the intellectual from the coffee shop. No matter how you define him, there's no denying that it's easy to fall for him- and tough to get over him. He's charismatic and exciting. he says all the right things. Each time he calls, you drop everything to be with him. But just as things start heating up, he pulls away, leaving you wondering what you did wrong.It's not you, it's him!
The ambivalent behavior, the staring but excluding you is driving your scorpio mind crazy. I would suggest avoiding this clown for awhile, maybe even transfering or keeping it strictly platonic work talk.
He's not interested in a real relationship, he wish you weren't either so he could continue to play with you but he must keep his distance as to not lead you on and create drama. I know you girls wish it was this huge mystery why these guys act the way they do but it's not, it's pretty simple once you know ambivalent commitment phobic assclown language.
Sigh...again
Ambivalence (am-biv-e-lens) n. 1. The existence of mixed feelings toward someone or something. Difficulty in reaching a decision.
Ambivalent Man (am-biv-e-lent man) n. Abbreviation: AM. 1. One who exhibits or feels ambivalence toward women. 2. One who plays games. He wants a relationship; he wants to break up. He??s confused, mixed up, inconsistent, and unpredictable. Yet he??s irresistible and easy to fall in love with . . . and almost sure to cause a broken heart.
The Ambivalent Man can be anyone- the cute guy from the office, the hunk from the gym, or the intellectual from the coffee shop. No matter how you define him, there's no denying that it's easy to fall for him- and tough to get over him. He's charismatic and exciting. he says all the right things. Each time he calls, you drop everything to be with him. But just as things start heating up, he pulls away, leaving you wondering what you did wrong.It's not you, it's him!
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Hi Greenfish, I can only give you an idea of what I'd be thinking in this instance. And I've had 2 longterm relationships with Pisces men (although they were a little too sensitive for me :p)
Firstly, I've never had a long-distance relationship. But if I was talking to someone on a daily basis for a year and a half, my feelings for them would have to be very strong. Also, if I had asked you to come visit and you kept making excuses I'd probably take a huge step back and wonder why on earth I was bothering (which seems to have happened in your case). Once that trust has been broken, for a Taurus it can be very hard to get it back to 100% . But if you perservere it could work.
If I were you, I'd continue contact with her. Don't nag her about the way she has reacted; the fact she still has so much contact with you speaks volumes. Send her sweet little messages and remind her of why she fell for you in the first place. You also need to speak to her about why you got 'cold feet'. Open up to her, let her see that you truly want to have a 'proper' relationship with her that is going somewhere in the long term. I'd want concrete answers as to why you reacted the way you did in order to understand. All Taureans need stability and reassurance, especially in relationships, and unfortunately sometimes this is achieved through being Mr/Mrs Nag; all questions need to be answered so that everything can be put in perspective. I doubt the new guy she's dating means as much to her as you do, perhaps she wanted to have some fun and forget about the heartache she was feeling after you refused to go visit her.
Hope this helps a little bit. I hope it works out for you
Firstly, I've never had a long-distance relationship. But if I was talking to someone on a daily basis for a year and a half, my feelings for them would have to be very strong. Also, if I had asked you to come visit and you kept making excuses I'd probably take a huge step back and wonder why on earth I was bothering (which seems to have happened in your case). Once that trust has been broken, for a Taurus it can be very hard to get it back to 100% . But if you perservere it could work.
If I were you, I'd continue contact with her. Don't nag her about the way she has reacted; the fact she still has so much contact with you speaks volumes. Send her sweet little messages and remind her of why she fell for you in the first place. You also need to speak to her about why you got 'cold feet'. Open up to her, let her see that you truly want to have a 'proper' relationship with her that is going somewhere in the long term. I'd want concrete answers as to why you reacted the way you did in order to understand. All Taureans need stability and reassurance, especially in relationships, and unfortunately sometimes this is achieved through being Mr/Mrs Nag; all questions need to be answered so that everything can be put in perspective. I doubt the new guy she's dating means as much to her as you do, perhaps she wanted to have some fun and forget about the heartache she was feeling after you refused to go visit her.
Hope this helps a little bit. I hope it works out for you
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call me weird, but i LOVE learning lol!
You may be weird, but if that is the case I must be very weird. I have a FB friend from school who doesn't even remember me, but everytime we chat it is all about politics etc. I learn a lot from him and it's really cool.
Then why it is said that scorpios were libra in past gives so they forgive libra mistakes and so and so ?tell me how to shed off one sign and get another in next life ?
Posted by meila
The only people
~close~ to me is my Virgo husband and my Sag (but more Taurus) best friend, Troi. Literally,
it stops there. They're the only people I allow myself to become "vulnerable" around
.
I don't see anything wrong with that - the nly people I'm close to are my Gemini bf and Cancerian sister.
Exactly, GS. We do all deal with things differently. I'm on the other end of the scale - completely over-emotional. I cry over the thought of loved ones dying, and whenever I got upset as a kid, my mum was always at me "Don't be sooo melodramatic", "You're not a character in a novel you know, no prince charming is gonna turn up amd rescue you". I often envy people who have more controll over their emotions, but I don't think you are all cold hearted because you don't go flying off into a squalling mess everytime something upsets you. I do think it's funny to get mad over a game though
Exactly. Nicely put Lady M
Ha ha!!! I will Archer! I've had my questions answered and there's no point holding on to it, doesn't do either of us any good
Shockingly, I sort of feel the same way about Gems. They are the sign of "Communication" but for some reason, I'm just not as fond of Geminis like the typical Aqua is supposed to be.
Don't get me wrong, I have some Gem. friends but I keep them all at a distance. They are good people but they've usually got a little TOO much going on & personality that I just decide not to try to decode or figure out. They're fun to be around & are good entertainers, but other than that, I don't have alot of trust for them. Sure, alot of Geminis are big flirts BUT I don't believe that it's possible for someone to steal a man from me, unless he was never mine to begin with, so I don't label them (or anybody, for that matter) as a "man/woman stealer."
I have known alot of Gems. to be dishonest & vindictive during times when someone is threatening to walk away and/or stray from them. I don't see this lying and/or manipulative side of them on the forefront; no, it takes certain situations to bring this side (if it's even there) out of them. And this is the side that I do not like b/c they have no shame in showing this side with the look on their faces like "Yeah, that's right! I did it!"
Don't get me wrong, I have some Gem. friends but I keep them all at a distance. They are good people but they've usually got a little TOO much going on & personality that I just decide not to try to decode or figure out. They're fun to be around & are good entertainers, but other than that, I don't have alot of trust for them. Sure, alot of Geminis are big flirts BUT I don't believe that it's possible for someone to steal a man from me, unless he was never mine to begin with, so I don't label them (or anybody, for that matter) as a "man/woman stealer."
I have known alot of Gems. to be dishonest & vindictive during times when someone is threatening to walk away and/or stray from them. I don't see this lying and/or manipulative side of them on the forefront; no, it takes certain situations to bring this side (if it's even there) out of them. And this is the side that I do not like b/c they have no shame in showing this side with the look on their faces like "Yeah, that's right! I did it!"