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Jan 07, 2009Comments: 305 · Posts: 14219 · Topics: 239
I think you are talking about polyamie. because for being polygamous you need to afford it financially. And average men cannot afford a second wife. But any average man can afford polyamie because women are confused enough to get along with it.
But why should I want to have a man who is boring enough to seek amusement somewhere else. In my case divorce would be the answer. So he will be monogamous and this in a successive order.
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Jun 11, 2009Comments: 93 · Posts: 4144 · Topics: 109
Okay I admit I'm overthinknig things by bringing up marriage. But if he does back out of plans tonight that would not be cool. People breaking their word is one of mt pet peeves. Besides as I said before, it would indicate his level of interest. Or should I say, lack of interest.
Btw, he still has not called me back. Its been over an hour.
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Jun 11, 2009Comments: 93 · Posts: 4144 · Topics: 109
Tiki and chatz have hit the nail on the head with this one. We have all learned the hard way. My dad used to always tell me when I was in my early 20s, stop making excuses for these guys, if a man wants to be with you he will! There is no I'm too tired, I'm too sick, my dog ate my homework. Lol. Now at 27, it finally clicks. When a man begins making these types of excuses it is safe to say that either he does not want to be in a relationsip or he doesn't want to be in one with that woman. In either case, its best to just go on with life. As painful as it maybe...
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Jun 11, 2009Comments: 93 · Posts: 4144 · Topics: 109
Chrix, I really feel for your situation. But it sounds like you will have to let go of the dream/hope of the virgo and this draining taurus who you are with. Bc (at least as of right now) nothing productive is going to manifest between you and the virgo, keeping in contact with him will only drive you crazy and make it harder to move forward with your life. The taurus man sounds a bit nuts....and I'm not sure you are in a healthy environment by being with someone who imposes himself on you the way he does. Take control of your life and let both of these men go. Just my 2 cents....
Yeah I'm not very clingy and very emotional
He somewhat more clingy than me lol
True most people think I'm cold hearted toward things
I get yell at about that all the time lol
I should be more sensitive to people lol
And I'm not super clingy either
I think some of my traits I notice about cancer is I have a good memory
and I don't go into my shell and be emotional when something goes wrong
I act more like detaching myself, observe, and analysis the person to see what person is like
some part of me act more like the moon libra than the sun cancer lol