friends w benefit, arranged marriages, poly...
I understand the culture all too well.
No, you will neither be happy nor satisfied. And these men get to have their cake and eat it too. I see it all day through out my family. They get older and instead of the mid life "buy a fast car crisis and divorce for some young hot thing" ...they just marry or date another young hot thing and keep doing so because they can.
This is not a culture you will be happy with in the long term and you will never be the only woman, nor will you be his "main". Be sure to get him tested regularly as well as yourself and NEVER EVER get pregnant.
No, you will neither be happy nor satisfied. And these men get to have their cake and eat it too. I see it all day through out my family. They get older and instead of the mid life "buy a fast car crisis and divorce for some young hot thing" ...they just marry or date another young hot thing and keep doing so because they can.
This is not a culture you will be happy with in the long term and you will never be the only woman, nor will you be his "main". Be sure to get him tested regularly as well as yourself and NEVER EVER get pregnant.