Virguy cant decide between Taurus and Cancer chick
Well one the Virgo has to take some responsibility for what has happend. No one FORCED him to be in that relationship with that Cancer. Sure, he might've felt guilty & might've been manipulated BUT he can't use that excuse either 10 years from now & then go complaining about why he's not happy. ONE, he needs to realize that no matter HOW MUCH he likes this Taurus girl, that all doors of opportunity aren't always open. If he likes this Taurus girl enough then he'll snatch up a good thing when he sees/finds it. Even a good woman won't stick around & wait forever. So if he sees something good then he'd better snatch this Taurus up while he can b/c if he doesn't, she'll eventually walk away & find someone with the balls to leave the one that makes them unhappy. And by the time the Virgo is finally strong enough to leave, there might NOT be another woman as good waiting around for him or even interested in him. This Virgo guy is throwing all of the blaim for his unhappiness on this Cancer. The truth is, this Cancer girl may be controlling, manipulative & all of that bad stuff BUT the Virgo just enabled her to be all of those things when he didn't have the courage to put her in her place & let her go. He saw the warning signs a long time ago & yet he continued to let the Cancer do things for him. And we all know that ACTIONS speak louder than words. Even though the Virgo was saying, "I don't want you" to the Cancer, all the Cancer was hearing was all the times he'd allowed her into his life. In that case, she heard his ACTIONS more than his words. She (Cancer) assumed that if he (Virgo) didn't really want her as much as he said he didn't, that he would've let go & stopped using her. Well he didn't stop using her & b/c he kept it going, that enabled this Cancer to keep right ahead on & setting traps for him. Either way, it's up to the VIRGO to get it together, grow some balls & decide who controls his life. He HAS to be aware that his happiness & what he could potentially have (Taurus girl) are slipping right beneath his fingers. He has to make the choice now & stop taking advantage of this thing called "time." He can either 1. Let this Cancer girl go (unless she threatens to shoot him if he does so) & chase after who he REALLY wants OR he can 2. Continue to complain & what who is probably meant for him slip from his fingers. If #2 happens, it won't be the Virgo's fault. After a while, none of us can use the same excuse & justification for why we aren't happy.