So I met a girl...
Ok..its doing something quirky..sorry..we are attention seekers..better!!
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im too busy to be depressed. too busy, too much to do, too much i want to achieve... buckling just makes things harder. and really it only takes a little bit of effort and a small attitude adjustment for me to feel good again.
and a good reminder... the only thing i can control is myself and i damn well better have myself under full control.
it is a work in progress
and a good reminder... the only thing i can control is myself and i damn well better have myself under full control.
it is a work in progress
"Ladies, the op pretty much reaffirms what I've been saying this whole time. There ain't nothing wrong with going out there and getting strictly ass."
Nothing wrong, but you must make it clear to the other party. Else it's a karmic thing.
"op must be getting tired of relationships not working out..."
More like, getting tired of not being able to get out of a relationship that sucks.
Like LLLTBL and RTF mentioned, the best relationship one can have is with themselves. Best not to get involved before you create your own success.
Nothing wrong, but you must make it clear to the other party. Else it's a karmic thing.
"op must be getting tired of relationships not working out..."
More like, getting tired of not being able to get out of a relationship that sucks.
Like LLLTBL and RTF mentioned, the best relationship one can have is with themselves. Best not to get involved before you create your own success.
"spica, Im sure it made a lot of sense to you to focus on relationships when you were younger, so if you had this freedom to follow your heart and do what you wanted to do at the time which is the essence of being young...WHY THE REGRETS?? The only regret I would have is if I had spent my youth in fear of trying things, instead of actually doing them, so as long as you dare to LIVE and EXPERIENCE, why does it matter?
Same thing goes to all of those who agree with the "regret" idea."
Because I have been a fatalist since young. Hard to believe.. I don't believe in randomness. Regrets because certain things, if done a certain other way, would have led to better outcomes. Some mistakes are way too huge to make a U-Turn.
Same thing goes to all of those who agree with the "regret" idea."
Because I have been a fatalist since young. Hard to believe.. I don't believe in randomness. Regrets because certain things, if done a certain other way, would have led to better outcomes. Some mistakes are way too huge to make a U-Turn.
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Posted by WinterBorn
Since more women have become pilots, it's now commonly referred to as the 'flight deck'.
When it's an all female flight crew it's referred to as the "box office"
Posted by DyTryin
I love to party with SAGs, but marry one? No way!
All that yakkin' would get real old, real fast...
I don't mind the yakkin... enjoy it actually, especially while riding. What's funny is, she hates writing emails. If she includes a single small sentence consider yourself lucky.. but in PERSON? She can talk your head off, LOL. Her husband is even worse, heh. I think he just likes to hear his own voice or something. He can't stop even when he's sleeping according to Sal... she says he carries on and on while sound asleep... but she can never make out what he's saying, heh.
"I don't think that you need 'experience' to be a good boyfriend or girlfriend. All you need is to have good intentions & a consideration for your partners feelings, and similar relationship goals is helpful too.
Sometimes that 'experience' makes people bitter or disheartened, if anything."
I agree with this. But of course, its the norm for people to be worried they'll be left on the shelf, and so the "hurry" to find someone, anyone. Just so they can experience something. Thats where the problem lies. You want to EXPERIENCE something, but that would be at the expense of the other person. So that is how messed up relationships start out, and they usually end terribly because the one who's been hurt, goes on to hurt the new person, and it goes on like a red tide. . .
"then on the flip side, for women there's like this "age limit". it seems like girls who don't settle down at an early age are viewed as damaged goods. "
I think damaged goods are those who've been in too many relationships they have lost sight of themselves..
"Meh. I'm 22. I just got engaged...And we've been together since I was 19 and he was 20. I'm in my dream career path and he's going to college to work on his, we don't prefer to go out and party, we have good friends, and I just bought a house. I think that's all rather mature for people my age But in most circumstances, I would agree with you, just certainly not in all."
You move really fast. . .
Sometimes that 'experience' makes people bitter or disheartened, if anything."
I agree with this. But of course, its the norm for people to be worried they'll be left on the shelf, and so the "hurry" to find someone, anyone. Just so they can experience something. Thats where the problem lies. You want to EXPERIENCE something, but that would be at the expense of the other person. So that is how messed up relationships start out, and they usually end terribly because the one who's been hurt, goes on to hurt the new person, and it goes on like a red tide. . .
"then on the flip side, for women there's like this "age limit". it seems like girls who don't settle down at an early age are viewed as damaged goods. "
I think damaged goods are those who've been in too many relationships they have lost sight of themselves..
"Meh. I'm 22. I just got engaged...And we've been together since I was 19 and he was 20. I'm in my dream career path and he's going to college to work on his, we don't prefer to go out and party, we have good friends, and I just bought a house. I think that's all rather mature for people my age But in most circumstances, I would agree with you, just certainly not in all."
You move really fast. . .
Posted by Cusp Of MagicPosted by spica
And regarding people maturing early - but that is logically impossible. There is no relationship school of life. Peoples' brains mature at somewhat the same rate.
I disagree with this. Your age is just a number. It does not determine your maturity as I know people who are in their 30s and 40s and you would think they would be wiser than someone in their mid 20s but that is not always the case. People learn and handle experiences differently and not everyone do so at the same rate. One person can have 1 relationship early in life and realize from that relationship exactly what they need and want from that point on and don't settle until he/she gets it. Others continue to get in relationships for various reasons continuing to make the same mistakes over and over again. Most people would think at a certain age you wouldn't still be making the same poor relationship choices but as I said maturity doesn't come with age, it comes from experience and some need less/more experiences that others to 'get it' and some never do.click to expand
Well, what you mention is just theoretical.
I am not speaking of WISDOM but the ability to handle relationships.
I believe that a real relationship begins when people have begun their careers and have started to be financially sufficient.
Posted by Layna
The thing is, I would have wanted to spend all my time with him and whatnot if I did not have a few years of experience in playing the 'hearing ear' for boys and girls alike in relationships. One too many guys told me of how they don't like how demanding, possessive, over-bearing, or clingy their girlfriends are so I kind of... got 'tuned'?
Oooo... you are one of those too...
I spent the majority of my teenage years being the "ear and shoulder" for so many girls who put me in the friend zone and refused to see me as the ideal guy for them, based on their complaints of course.
I would imagine you probably went through something similar.
Or maybe it's just because I'm treating him like how I want to be treated: to be given a lot of freedom, have 100% placed on, etc.
How enthralling, I think we ought to do a thread on your Natal chart, should be interesting.
Or maybe I unconsciously used reverse psychology on him. -grins-click to expand
... Manipulation?!
From innocent little VIRGO you?
Never!!!
LOL
Hey Cappie -
I'm not really experienced enough to give opinion on other's charts - still learning myself. Astro.com is a great place to start. It will let you put in both of your's information and do a comparison.
Just looking at the placements briefly - I think his Sag moon could be a challenge for you and your Scorpio moon could be too watery at times for his Aries fire. Definitely go to astro.com for more details - heck just google "sag moon" or "scorpio moon"...Venus and Mecury very important as well.
I'm not really experienced enough to give opinion on other's charts - still learning myself. Astro.com is a great place to start. It will let you put in both of your's information and do a comparison.
Just looking at the placements briefly - I think his Sag moon could be a challenge for you and your Scorpio moon could be too watery at times for his Aries fire. Definitely go to astro.com for more details - heck just google "sag moon" or "scorpio moon"...Venus and Mecury very important as well.
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