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Jul 19, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 532 · Topics: 30
BTW Zuvis, I like your weed song on your profile, lol.
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Jun 18, 2009Comments: 0 · Posts: 2999 · Topics: 75
a plethora of shoegazing, indie bands. mine included.
Wow...it is amazing reading all these posts. I am also a scorpio who has been hurt in the past who has recently gone out a few times with a cancer male...I was attracted to him right away, and usually don't get that way with people. He was kind of passive and a couple dates he was friendly, but didn't touch me or walk me to my car or open doors, which kind of irked me. Then the third date he came at me with the most passionate and best kiss in my entire life and we made out some at his place...it was heaven...how he touched me...then he disappeared! I emailed and he called later and we went out again, but I was tired and feeling awkward and again, I didn't feel like I meant anything to him or that I was attractive to him because he didn't kiss me. Like the other people posting, it has somewhat been driving me nuts as I don't understand him and maybe he isn't good for me as he did talk about himself a lot...I just don't know if we are all having dating jitters or if he just isn't in to me. I just have not felt like myself, but for a minute before, I was like, this is amazing, but the confusion on my part makes me feel more insecure and less interested. I am 31, he is 32, so it isn't like I want to play games and have been hurt enough and just want a good man.
Although I will say on our last date we had somewhat said we both weren't feeling good/tired and we should reschedule, but I told him if he was feeling better to let me know if not, no biggie, we'd find another time, but here I was expecting to not see him then he suggests going to get a bite to eat. At least before I was all stressed about things, I totally wanted to do do nice things for him and be supportive...I am just a little gived out with other issues going on, and tired, and he knows I don't want to go to fast, but I really don't understand him and if I need to say what I need...as I want to feel loved and protected and adored, but don't know if he is just clueless or uninterested. The mixed signals are driving me batty...and not sure I have the strength right now with other stresses I have going on. Anyway, that is my situation, and it seems if he is truly a cancer, which he seems to be from all the descriptions I read (and his birthday is July 22) that maybe he is just being indirect and I don't know if I need to say something to him or just let him take his time. I really loved being in his arms and being held like that and feeling so erotic and want that again, but he seems a
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Oct 25, 2009Comments: 9 · Posts: 4248 · Topics: 32
I think the major cause was from anorexia.
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
I dont believe he has pulled a disappearing act because he doesnt have to. He is not in any danger of having this become a reality, seeing that you two are both attached in marriages to other people.
This seems like exactly the behavior anyone would display in an extramarital affair. Its all fun until someone gets found out.
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Oct 25, 2009Comments: 9 · Posts: 4248 · Topics: 32
I've been getting into a few Indie bands.