Nasty Astrology - Capricorn
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This must be a JOKe so I'll laugh HA HA HA! I did liek the part though that said "they are the JONESES" lol so cute!
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IMO he poses no threat to you, he's aloof, distant, he's towing the line by never crossing the line, so the more he sits there giving of himself and going under the radar you fall passionately in love, he seems like he understands the art of seduction, yes it's a good technique many and when I say many, I mean many men and women are learning and applying to relationships. Trust me your not in love, you are being seduced LOL, it's okay though, it's not a bad thing, you get to let go and feel something you were unable to feel through out your life, he made it safe for you to feel love, I think he's a great person for giving you that gift but again I caution you and encourage you to explore how seduction seduces the mind into believing it's love. I just see you falling with nothing to catch you and you will deeply disappointed, you do not want your first love experience to be a horrible hurtful one, so back up, go google the art of seduction, buy the book if you have to and be mindful about calling this love.
I know how you feel, I have experienced what your experiencing back in the day, I was being seduced unbeknownst to me, I loved it but I got hurt but then I dunno we became good friends and still are. People now days are keenly aware of others resistance to love and relationships, so many people are guarded with themselves it's hard to penetrate anothers high walls they put up so some understand that it's better to walk the line, don't choose and let the other person choose him/her, it's a pick up artist technique men use as well, they go under the radar, they never qualify themselves, they just show up be the great friend, make you feel understood and accepted, but make sure to NEVER reveal emotional displays that make a woman THINK because once a woman begins to think about a man saying I love you, I want you, need you THE DYNAMICS OF THE RELATIONSHIP SHIFT, it's no longer easy and effortless, so for the most part men like him never show loving type emotions because of this shift, he let's her shift it and they do this until the woman begins to question how she feels about him and then she begins to ADD her feelings onto his behavior, she's in love and he's not...I know it's hard for you not to believe it's love but IMO given the patterns you have shared with us, he's manipulating you into feeling love because if it was love you wouldn't be the ONLY ONE feeling it.
I know how you feel, I have experienced what your experiencing back in the day, I was being seduced unbeknownst to me, I loved it but I got hurt but then I dunno we became good friends and still are. People now days are keenly aware of others resistance to love and relationships, so many people are guarded with themselves it's hard to penetrate anothers high walls they put up so some understand that it's better to walk the line, don't choose and let the other person choose him/her, it's a pick up artist technique men use as well, they go under the radar, they never qualify themselves, they just show up be the great friend, make you feel understood and accepted, but make sure to NEVER reveal emotional displays that make a woman THINK because once a woman begins to think about a man saying I love you, I want you, need you THE DYNAMICS OF THE RELATIONSHIP SHIFT, it's no longer easy and effortless, so for the most part men like him never show loving type emotions because of this shift, he let's her shift it and they do this until the woman begins to question how she feels about him and then she begins to ADD her feelings onto his behavior, she's in love and he's not...I know it's hard for you not to believe it's love but IMO given the patterns you have shared with us, he's manipulating you into feeling love because if it was love you wouldn't be the ONLY ONE feeling it.
When one person feels something for another person but that ONE person is unavailable it means that someone is doing something to the person falling in love to create a feeling of love. It's intoxicating and many women get hurt over it because to her it's real, to him its just another woman being seduced....
Now I'm not accusing him of this technique, but it feels quite familiar and similiar to what I have experienced and other women have experienced that I help, maybe it's not what he's doing, but it sure seems like it to me.
Yeah Tiki youre right!!! Ive noticed that dynamic you mentioned and it has totally thrown me for a loop these days. People are extremely extremely guarded these days. Im used to one thing and now the whole script has been flipped! Where Im at women no longer want love, relationship, oneness yada yada. They just want one night stands!!!! Im totally blasted by this from being so used to the other way around. Now its like "put stars in her eyes". I think its the damn music out nowadays. Ive turned down exactly 6 different obvious come ons because all the girls are now acting like Plies, Beyonce, Kanye, Weezy and all the other hustlas. Im telling you.....that damn music is hypnotizing!! I cant get with it because there is too much disease running around, but if some things were cured Id definitely be a ...ahem...whore.
Are you experiencing anything like this with your girlfriends? BTW I think Sex and the City got us too.
Are you experiencing anything like this with your girlfriends? BTW I think Sex and the City got us too.
That makes a ton of sense actually. I mean, I was sort of shocked and am still trying to figure out if I feel quite as strongly as he does. He also said to me that he'd say it more but doesn't want to scare me away. I suspect that it's because of a past situation that I told him of where my ex said the L word to me way to early in the relationship (in my opinion at least), but it's not the same with him. I don't doubt his feelings for me or anything. He's truly a great guy and I think that you're very right krysrenee, you should so write a book. lol
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And those other dynamics.......
Its nice to see what yall think. Because we look at it a different way. Alot of my guy friends have gone through this right here.
They say we dont show our feelings and when we do, it turns into turn-0ff. Turns into needy, turns into not being a real man. Like we have to be specific in our shows of affection. But we dont req
They say they love us for who we are and this and that. But when someone comes along who is just like us, but has nicer car, goes to the lake more, is taller, wears more name brand etc, etc, women start to give little hints of non-interest, all very recognizable being the emotional-display creatures that they are. It has been said that women often go after the most powerful male. The alphas. I guess they cant really ignore something thats obvious....sort of like the allure of diamonds
Its nice to see what yall think. Because we look at it a different way. Alot of my guy friends have gone through this right here.
They say we dont show our feelings and when we do, it turns into turn-0ff. Turns into needy, turns into not being a real man. Like we have to be specific in our shows of affection. But we dont req
They say they love us for who we are and this and that. But when someone comes along who is just like us, but has nicer car, goes to the lake more, is taller, wears more name brand etc, etc, women start to give little hints of non-interest, all very recognizable being the emotional-display creatures that they are. It has been said that women often go after the most powerful male. The alphas. I guess they cant really ignore something thats obvious....sort of like the allure of diamonds
Yes Supercap we all are experiencing this non-sense going on out here to some degree. I'm not into any of it, don't listen to Beyonce or all the other crappy music that is out here, I listened to Anita Baker, Lalah Hathaway, Rolling Stones back in the day type music...wait I did like American Idol Pant's on the ground, look'n like a foo wit yo pants on da ground LMAO!! But yes for the most part people are super guarded and I can't blame them be it man or woman, so many people are using pick up techniques which isn't all that bad given the intentions of the person but who really knows what a persons intentions are these days, it's all pretty confusing but something pulls me in and I want to know more about it and explore it from a distance but nope I'm not into the whole sleeping around all the single ladies put ya hands up liberated crap and I don't blame you for turning down women, who knows what that heffa got. It's out of control out here but fortunataly there are genuine women that want genuine love in the world, they are out there Supercap.
I dont know where women get this notion about men preferring to do the approach. A lot of guys I know would be a lot of happier if there were more women taking initaitive.
I hate how some people say the best relationship material girls are ones who you have to approach. And ones who do arent. What a load of crap.
"Quiet" girls can be just as unhealthy relationship material as the next. AKA my cap ex. With her I literally had to do everything. And she played the biggest head games. Never knowing where I stood with her.
I like women with backbone who show no shame in being attracted to you. I'd rather be with a flirtatious girl who's direct and honest with me, vs a "quiet" one.
I hate how some people say the best relationship material girls are ones who you have to approach. And ones who do arent. What a load of crap.
"Quiet" girls can be just as unhealthy relationship material as the next. AKA my cap ex. With her I literally had to do everything. And she played the biggest head games. Never knowing where I stood with her.
I like women with backbone who show no shame in being attracted to you. I'd rather be with a flirtatious girl who's direct and honest with me, vs a "quiet" one.
I hear females speak of a male not having any ambition.
Females want the doctor, the lawyer, the musician, the politician, the star, the principal, the etc.
Now this is all dandy with me. Really. But How can a female judge a male on his ambition when hers is not the equivalent?
I see lots of housewives, teachers, maids, waitresses, secretaries, stewardesses, Pa's, paralegals, and other sorts on not the very high end of the salary spectrum? Not all, but some women play an ambition game in ordered to set themselves up sweet. But there are women "bread-winners" and I think it important to mention that
Discrimination in the workplace is a factor but not as much as one might think, really only in terms of salary which I think is NOT RIGHT. Yall should get paid just as much or more especially if youre doing a good job!
Now tell me this, why is it that a man will accept a woman in maybe a substantially lower income bracket, but most women will not do the same?
It really does put an unbelievable amount of pressure on us to succeed and drive ourselves crazy to be the best for fear of being left. But after we become the best it is dreadfully lonely at the top.
All Im asking for my beautiful sistas is for a little understanding and match in ambition without the games and finger pointing.
Perfect example...Jay Z and Beyonce. Now THATS a unity. Ambition is matched. Theyre having fun and making power plays. Staying power players. Holding hands in understanding that we are equal.
Females want the doctor, the lawyer, the musician, the politician, the star, the principal, the etc.
Now this is all dandy with me. Really. But How can a female judge a male on his ambition when hers is not the equivalent?
I see lots of housewives, teachers, maids, waitresses, secretaries, stewardesses, Pa's, paralegals, and other sorts on not the very high end of the salary spectrum? Not all, but some women play an ambition game in ordered to set themselves up sweet. But there are women "bread-winners" and I think it important to mention that
Discrimination in the workplace is a factor but not as much as one might think, really only in terms of salary which I think is NOT RIGHT. Yall should get paid just as much or more especially if youre doing a good job!
Now tell me this, why is it that a man will accept a woman in maybe a substantially lower income bracket, but most women will not do the same?
It really does put an unbelievable amount of pressure on us to succeed and drive ourselves crazy to be the best for fear of being left. But after we become the best it is dreadfully lonely at the top.
All Im asking for my beautiful sistas is for a little understanding and match in ambition without the games and finger pointing.
Perfect example...Jay Z and Beyonce. Now THATS a unity. Ambition is matched. Theyre having fun and making power plays. Staying power players. Holding hands in understanding that we are equal.