Why Do Aries Spy?
Posted by ramfishtwinsPosted by Austin_SchillerPosted by i love ewe
so i know that this is gonna sound crazy but i wouldn't care if my boyfriend snooped through my stuff (email, phone, whatevs). i know every other person on earth is violently against it and i should get huffy over something like that but ummm i dont care either way and i wouldn't feel violated. maybe ill change my opinion one day?
I'm the same way.
I don't mind if people snoop through my stuff cuz I got nothing to hide. lol
Even if you don't have anything to hide, isn't it nice sometimes to have something just for you that doesn't need to involve anyone else? Take DXP for an example...my spouse has no idea I'm on it and I tell him a lot about my life outside of him! Although I've never writen anything I wouldn't want him to see, I still like to keep my fetish (LOL) to myself.click to expand
yeah, there are things i keep just for myself but they exist in my head so no amount or snooping will ever expose them. my friends are the other thing i keep for myself but i can control that because my boyfriend isn't gonna call them up and hang out with them when im not around.
i learned at a young age not to try to hold on to anything i didnt want others to find because my mom was a clean freak and she would tear apart my room in a cleaning frenzy. also, this might sound a little morbid but i think what if i die suddenly and people are going through my stuff...i still wouldnt want people to have access to something that i considered so private. this is the reason i dont have diaries
