Nasty Astrology - Aries
"...i know but she didnt give a fuck anymore. I didnt know what to do. i tried everything to be cool with it all but it was impossible. Dont hold that shit against me, i was young and very very hurt"
^THIS is the virgo psyche...
i beat myself up for 16 years. no one is more remorseful than i. i'm the one who lost the love of my life. i'm the one who was provoked to fight and ended up in jail. i'm the one who had to overcome all of these obstacles. i know where i went wrong, i'm better now, so don't judge me for my past.
^this your point? if so, f-that! you don't get the right to demand what others should hold against you. let me put it in a different perspective...
imagine that you fought dude, he fell, hit his head on the pavement and died instantly. involuntary manslaughter.
although you could explain how/why/what, how DARE you tell his fam/friends that in effect, they need to get over it. that that was then, this is now so "don't hold it against me."
how shitty of you would that be?
virgos figure that when they're ready to move on, because they've flogged themselves enough mentally, no one can punish them worse than themselves. and yet, when they hear the harsh words from someone other than themselves, for the FIRST time, they get defensive, they self-pity and blame even further. eventually they won't be able to deal with the REAL critique, will become dismissive and run.
sometimes facing the people you've hurt doesn't end in a hug. sometimes it ends in the person making you feel worse than when you started. remember, 16 years for you, day ONE for them. a coward runs. a mature man/woman stands in the shame and owns it...until.
you brought up your neighbor. how many people had a first love breakup that hurt? how many of them stalked their ex to the point of a restraining order and assaulted the alleged bf/gf and ended up in jail?
you are so self-absorbed, your ego is just THAT large that you think your pain justifies your behavior. as if your love was more/better than what people have been feeling throughout the course of history.
based on your logic, the type of person that gets you is a dude who choked the life out of his ex. see, he loved her SO MUCH and he just wanted to..., so don't hold it against him.
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^THIS is the virgo psyche...
i beat myself up for 16 years. no one is more remorseful than i. i'm the one who lost the love of my life. i'm the one who was provoked to fight and ended up in jail. i'm the one who had to overcome all of these obstacles. i know where i went wrong, i'm better now, so don't judge me for my past.
^this your point? if so, f-that! you don't get the right to demand what others should hold against you. let me put it in a different perspective...
imagine that you fought dude, he fell, hit his head on the pavement and died instantly. involuntary manslaughter.
although you could explain how/why/what, how DARE you tell his fam/friends that in effect, they need to get over it. that that was then, this is now so "don't hold it against me."
how shitty of you would that be?
virgos figure that when they're ready to move on, because they've flogged themselves enough mentally, no one can punish them worse than themselves. and yet, when they hear the harsh words from someone other than themselves, for the FIRST time, they get defensive, they self-pity and blame even further. eventually they won't be able to deal with the REAL critique, will become dismissive and run.
sometimes facing the people you've hurt doesn't end in a hug. sometimes it ends in the person making you feel worse than when you started. remember, 16 years for you, day ONE for them. a coward runs. a mature man/woman stands in the shame and owns it...until.
you brought up your neighbor. how many people had a first love breakup that hurt? how many of them stalked their ex to the point of a restraining order and assaulted the alleged bf/gf and ended up in jail?
you are so self-absorbed, your ego is just THAT large that you think your pain justifies your behavior. as if your love was more/better than what people have been feeling throughout the course of history.
based on your logic, the type of person that gets you is a dude who choked the life out of his ex. see, he loved her SO MUCH and he just wanted to..., so don't hold it against him.
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sorry, that my message is all messed up but i still hope u will post me suggestions 2 help me win back my Virgo or just let go of em
^^LMAO That is so random. Hilarious.
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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLovedPosted by james tate
who got married I been out in the barn testing the whisky I make I may be blind
Tate!! You left me at the alter you drunken bastard!!!
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I have a feeling you could have found him at the local pub lol
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sounds to me your jealous of those pretty pedicured honeys with there pink ponchos and flossy glossy lips?... it's okay tubby, heavier weights and more reps equals bigger muscles so you can crush there tiny heart shaped heads
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Posted by VirgoHeroPosted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLovedPosted by james tate
who got married I been out in the barn testing the whisky I make I may be blind
Tate!! You left me at the alter you drunken bastard!!!
I have a feeling you could have found him at the local pub lolclick to expand
What!? I aint trackin his drunk ass down on my wedding day!
Oh wait..... Im "broked" no wedding for me.
*sulks away to the corner*
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Posted by satori
Right. We learn through our experiences what is right for us individually. I'm not judging or on a campaign to stop others from getting married, so I don't understand why I am being labeled crazy for not wanting to.
I know that all relationships take work, whether you live together or apart, but I just value my space and freedom so much and I find that living apart just works for me. I may change my mind someday but I highly doubt it.
Yep! To each his own and for his/her own reasons.