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Jan 28, 2010Comments: 0 · Posts: 6890 · Topics: 172
i think you like him but because you're in a committed relationship, you can't pursue the possibilities. but not being able to act on them doesn't mean you can't muse over them.
It's just funny sometimes... It's like I see both sides to everything but at the same time the libra in me has the tendency to want to balance both sides... I tend to think that without the libra rising, I wouldn't seek the balance as much as would have more acceptance of both sides in their current state, instead of trying to balance them... I dunno if this is good or bad... I ask these questions because I'm just learning about astrology, but from what I have read I have found truth in it to a standpoint (very much so actually) and astrology is the tool that I'm using to help me on my spiritual journey... It helps me to better understand my motives sometimes...
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Feb 18, 2010Comments: 2 · Posts: 338 · Topics: 14
Just dance it makes you feel better about the situation thats what i do when i think about my aries.
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Jan 11, 2010Comments: 22 · Posts: 1427 · Topics: 24
Well alright! I have to say that most Pisces I know including myself are very easy to get along with especially in a work environment. I am usually the one that everyone gets along with and even talks to about things going on in their lives. I am a great worker and believe HIGHLY in customer service. I believe in treating people the way I would like to be treate...Golden Rule baby! Even if I am in a bad mood I do not take it out on fellow employees or clients. I may just get quiet. I can totally see why you like him...lol.
I am glad you are having good experiences with Pisces people b/c we are good people! I guess except for the bad fishes or "bottomfeeders" as Seavixen puts it. I am finding that I really like the Virgos and I am meeting and most of you on here as well. The Virgo I "thought" I was seeing is doing the disappearing thing so I don't think that's working out but he was nice anyways and we did have a nice and SHORT relationship....lol. :-)
A Cancer that is a lawyer has been pursuing me so I might just have to give him a chance now. We shall see. I know Cancer is a good match for me. I will still be contributing on the Virgo board though so you guys aren't rid of this Pisces....lol.
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Aug 31, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 10616 · Topics: 40
I figured he was taken, I'm not saying always but most times when men rely heavily on text messaging and online chatting and there is no reason to such as long distance it stinks he's taken.
As for why he pursued you so heavily one can only guess, I know from my own experience Cap men (not all) tend to be very focused individuals in life anyway that's why so many are very successful with work and business due to this gift to be so driven and focused on any subject, some Cap men can make a woman feel she's the most important person on the planet, it's just this alluring charm they have with women and because of the ability to shift all attention on that one thing or one person and completely immerse themselves, immerse there minds in whatever they focus on be it person or thing others walk away feeling special when in reality there just a new thing, new subject, new person to immerse themselves in and I have known them to do this with multiple women at a time, no real exclusivity goes on although all the chasing and attention can make a woman feel that way and she ends up misinterpreting the whole relationship.
I know your curious but now that you know don't wait around to get these lame ass excuses why he posed as single, yes the relationship may be on the rocks, yes he may not be in love with her anymore, yes they may be on the brink of breaking up but that is not something you should care about, what you should care about is the fact that he lied and decided to develop something with you and avoid telling you something that is very important, what else could he be hiding from you and most likely if you took him on and decided to be with him he would do you the exact same way, he would dump you for someone else or secretly attempt to date other women behind your back...Do you really want a man like that?
Best to cut ties if you feel emotional attachment over him but if your just feeling friendship then be his friend, i wouldn't be much more than that...Just not a good way to start a friendship or a real relationship.
He's a jerk and if it were me and I wanted to get into a serious relationship with someone I wouldn't stick around this clown to get jerked around...I would dump the assclown and move on.
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Aug 31, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 10616 · Topics: 40
Also getting to know you is not something you should be doing in a gym and ONLINE!! Men should be calling you to get to know you, if it's not long distance then their is no reason for the lazy behavior unless he's married or somebodies boyfriend. He knew you were a easy target because for some odd reason you only allowed the connection to happen at the gym and online, I'm not sure why you felt that was okay but what made me figure he was taken is the fact that he seemed pretty comfortable not moving things forward into something real like lunch or dinner or a some kind of activity you both may enjoy outside of the gym.
I would suggest you change things up to avoid this type of bullshit with men. Maybe set a boundary up around getting to know you phases such as no online chatting whatsoever, if he's in your town then he can ask you out, if he wants to know you he will pick up the damn phone and call you and set up a date and go out on a date with you and as you get to know one another move into other means of connecting, text messaging, emails, online chatting are things that can be used as long as it's minimally used. I just can't see how people can really get to know one another without seeing a persons facial expressions and quirky voice tones and the realness behind his eyes and how he expresses his passions in life and vice versa, there really is no way most of these men will become emotionally attached to a woman through technology and so many women are finding this out.
I opt for real touch, real face to face conversations any day over a damn cell phone or IM chat.
haha thanks. ill try busting a few moves and see how i feel:p
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