LEO Disappeared.Is it over,Do they ever come back?
Posted by tiki33
He treats you pretty casual, if that's not what you want then maybe you should reconsider investing so much of your emotions into this man...He can and will hurt you if you continue to invest in this casual situation with him...He needs to be the one investing or there really is no relationship...He has to feel the same way you feel or more or it won't work...You will be the one treating him like a boyfriend which you are he will be the one treating you like a friend which he is.
The more he see you care and invest yourself emotionally the more he's going to back off...less availability may help this situation, that means no more text messaging, tell him you can't text to either call or you can speak on the phone later...You have power...use it...stop doing things on his terms, do what makes you happy, if texting doesn't make you happy then don't text, tell him to call you.
Great advice as always Tiki. You need to get a book deal fast, and help millons out there. For real!
I have begun the process of backing off truly, not as games but sincerely I am losing interest. Yes I do want more than casual dating that goes nowhere.
I just don't want to demand anything as men will do what they want to do anyway. They have to feel it from within. And if he isnt showing me he feels it, then I dont want to be there.
Ironically I have kept my distance, and not a peep from me. He texted me a ton of compiments and asked to see me. I happened to be unavailable today due to circumstances, and turned down a date for the first time with him. He got quiet. But nothing I could do. So I am not sure how our schedules will fit. I got a new project at work.
I do want him to call me rather than just text.. I will try the methods Tiki mentioned. I will be starightforward and ask him to call me. We shall see.
Everyone should see Tiki's site about commitmentphobes. They attracy women with low self esteem and give them morsels. I have learned a lot and don't want to be in the catgory of women with low self esteem who thinks that the man is the be all and end all of her life. I want to be cherished, appreciated and loved by a man, as I have so mch to give back.
Sad that A LEO with a VENUS IN CANCER couldnt understand that. Plus he has a Moon in Scorp, he should intuit that too LOL.
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A fair synopsis.
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A fair synopsis.
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I do believe we all have to be mindful and very cautious but if she was standing there for 40 minutes then there was already a level of comfort established and thus he never asked her out and went right into chatting online, to me that's a red flag. When men opt to only text/IM/email and not pick up the phone to connect or take a woman out on a date it's a red flag pointing to an unavailable man.
When men move forward it's a sure sign he's INTERESTED, conversation can be an indicator of a certain level of interest but no date means I'm not that into you least not enough to move foreward or I'm married/in a relationship with someone else.
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